Have the courage to be your true self, stand alone, and stop trying to be someone else. ——Lin Yutang Everyone wants to be themselves, but most people cannot be themselves. Just like everyone looks down on Ah Q, but in the end we all live like Ah Q, because we are not only burdene

Have the courage to be your true self, stand alone, and don’t want to be someone else. ——Lin Yutang

Everyone wants to be themselves, but most people cannot be themselves. Just like everyone looks down on Ah Q, but in the end we all live like Ah Q, because we are not only burdened with mortgages and car loans, but also have the responsibilities of being sons, fathers, and husbands.

When I was in college, I always admired two artists, one was Nicholas Tse , and the other was Han Han . Because they have jumped out of the world, turned multiple interests into careers, and done so in a spectacular way, they are the ones who are truly themselves. And the protagonist I’m going to talk about today is also one.

Sad and joyful marriage

In marriage, Huang Jianxiang is unfortunate but also lucky. Unfortunately, the first beautiful marriage did not have a perfect ending. Fortunately, the second marriage gave her the greatest tender comfort.

That year, Huang Jianxiang had just graduated from college. He had an easy job and plenty of time, but his income was also pitiful. He often couldn't make ends meet, so in order to make some spare money and pass the boring time, he found a part-time job.

never thought that this part-time job would allow him to meet Sun Ying, give him a sweet marriage, accompany him through the dark tide of life, and also leave him with irreparable regrets.

At that time, Sun Ying had not yet graduated and was a full 7 years younger than Huang Jianxiang. During an accidental travel reception, Huang Jianxiang, who was not satisfactory at work, fell in love with this little Beijing girl at a glance among the crowd. Huang Jianxiang's politeness and eloquent literary talent also made Sun Ying feel a little admired.

However, Huang Jianxiang felt that his career was not yet successful and he had too much time to take care of himself, so although he had the heart to be a thief, he did not have the courage to do so. As Sun Yingshang was a student, she did not dare to reveal her feelings. The two could only interact as normal friends, and this situation continued until she graduated.

With Sun Ying's strong support, Huang Jianxiang's career has become increasingly smooth, and he seems to have "skyrocketed to 90,000 miles", and gradually became a popular host on CCTV. After graduation, Sun Ying has been working in a hotel, which is relatively stable. However, Huang Jianxiang's prosperous career actually created a gap between the "mandarin ducks".

Sun Ying saw her boyfriend surrounded by celebrities, but she was just an ordinary hotel employee. Cowardice suddenly arose in my heart. But Huang Jianxiang is not "Pan Renmei". I know that my current achievements are the result of my girlfriend’s strong support.

In 1999, Huang Jianxiang and Sun Ying finally entered the palace of marriage. Although she has no house, no bride price, and no luxury car, Sun Ying still feels that she is the happiest woman. Huang Jianxiang also secretly vowed to have a spacious house of his own.

After another three years, they finally got a three-bedroom apartment in Beijing with a mortgage. It was also this year that their baby daughter was born. Huang Jianxiang cried with joy. He felt that life was treating him well, so he worked harder. But who would have thought that this would become a shortcoming in his life.

The career advancement has led to constant socializing at work, but in a society with increasingly developed media, people will do whatever it takes to win eyeballs. There were all kinds of rumors about Huang Jianxiang in the news. Day after day, this made Sun Ying, who already had low self-esteem, more and more nervous. A series of interrogations, inspections, and suspicions were staged.

Huang Jianxiang was exhausted from dealing with work. He had to find a way to prove himself when he returned home. After a long time, there was no solution after all. He tried to have a heart-to-heart talk with his wife to resolve unnecessary misunderstandings, but he always failed. Unfortunately, on this day, the marriage that lasted for 16 years went to the grave.

was busy with work and did not give much care to his daughter. With the end of the relationship between husband and wife, his daughter's life was left incomplete. This was Huang Jianxiang's regret that he could not forgive himself and his daughter.

In 2008, Huang Jianxiang started his second marriage. He learned from the lessons of his previous marriage and poured more time into his current marriage. He gained a son and a daughter, and the days of suspicion were eliminated. Life is as sweet as honey.

A bumpy career

From the Building Materials Bureau to CCTV, from a paid employee to a commentator and host, and later guest appearances in many film and television dramas, and being invited to participate in many programs, Huang Jianxiang's career was bumpy, but he waited until he succeeded.

Huang Jianxiang, who graduated from the China Foreign Affairs University , was assigned to the Municipal Building Materials Bureau. He was really "out of touch", but Huang Jianxiang had to make do with it in order to make a living. It's just a pity for his English major and eloquence.

Opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared, but they are even more reserved for those who are ambitious. After graduation, CCTV was recruiting soldiers. Huang Jianxiang signed up without hesitation and successfully joined the job with the first place in the interview. At this point, the fish leaps over the dragon gate and the Kunpeng spreads its wings.

He has been passionate about football since he was a child, and finally waited for the America's Cup football match. Although it was only broadcast, he found a treasure. His professional football comments and rich cultural heritage made people remember him when he first appeared on CCTV.

's solid construction skills and humorous words made him the darling of CCTV's football columns and programs. The Olympic Games, World Cup, National Games, and CCTV's columns all have his funny voice.

In 2001, Huang Jianxiang won the title of CCTV's top ten hosts.

It is a pity that "if the trees are beautiful in the forest, the wind will destroy them; if they are piled up on the shore, the current will be turbulent." As many people like him, there are as many people who want to see him make a fool of himself.

Huang Jianxiang's commentary is full of personality, outspoken and full of emotion. This style is like a coin, it has heads and tails. Netizens like his true temperament, but his colleagues hate his indiscriminate remarks.

After many incidents such as "blaming Milu", "making fun of the Korean team", "Long Live Italy", etc., Huang Jianxiang still left CCTV. Later, he started tearing up "Reporter Lu You ", causing Huang Jianxiang's popularity to plummet.

Fortunately, he is very talented. He cheered up and became the new favorite of other satellite TV stations. And his program is not limited to the football column. Singing shows, talent shows, and comedy shows all feature his witty remarks. He even appeared in popular short dramas like "Dose Man".

Today, he is not only active in various programs, but also founded his own fashion brand. Although affected by the general environment, his business is still very impressive.

Huang Jianxiang, who has "crossed mountains and seas, passed through mountains and seas of people" and experienced "clouds rolling and relaxing, flowers blooming and falling", finally looked down upon everything and regretted that his tolerance and tolerance for his ex-wife was limited, and he regretted that the time he spent with his daughter was so rare. He will spend the rest of his life making up for his regrets and making his life more complete.