Earlier in Beijing time, James posted a screenshot of a video call with his mother, and wrote in the caption: "Love you so much!! My (mom)".
The relationship between James and his mother Gloria is so worthy of praise. This is a man at the top of the basketball field. He is a role model in the minds of many people and affects the growth of many people.
Even though he is already a "thirty-year-old man" and a proper middle-aged man, he always reveals his true feelings when it comes to his love for his mother. After defeating the Heat in 2020 to win the championship, James had a video call with his mother in the locker room. He told Gloria: "You are the reason why I did all this. ... I hope I can continue to make You are proud."
Although he was born in a single family, I think the love James received from his mother is not inferior to those who grew up in a two-parent family. Sometimes when we see children from single families, we look at them with pity, which is a bit strange. We think that the disadvantage in the number of parents will definitely make the children miserable.
In fact, if James' father had not disappeared, I think there would be a big question mark as to whether a person with an extensive criminal record could give James selfless love and a correct education. And if such a person is by James' side and grows up with James, maybe James will be hindered in his growth and will not be able to become the James he is today.
Therefore, a single-parent family is definitely not a label of misfortune. On the contrary, some children who grow up in a family with two healthy parents may have coercive control in the name of love because their parents do not give selfless love, do not understand education, etc. Due to other reasons, I had an unfortunate childhood and left a mark that is difficult to remove. It takes a long time to heal the past.
There is another phenomenon worth discussing, that is, we will see that most people will praise people who know how to be grateful and know how to repay their parents. At the same time, for some people who have a bad or even broken relationship with their parents, they will not praise them. Put the hat of gratitude on their heads.
For example, when Kobe sued his parents, many Internet trolls seized on this matter to attack Kobe's character. Little did they know that long before this, Kobe's parents refused to accept their son's life-long decision because Vanessa was Latina and from a different race. However, Kobe chose to listen to his inner voice and go with Vanessa. enters the marriage hall.
This also led to a complete break between the two parties. Kobe's parents did not attend the wedding and did not come to visit when the first granddaughter was born. Although we don’t know the specific details, we can still feel that Kobe’s parents may not have been democratic and respectful in their treatment of Kobe. And it will be difficult for parents like this to win the true respect of their children.
If you ignore some deeper things and just repeatedly ask your children to be filial to their parents, this is against human nature and it is difficult to do it sincerely.
