In 2015, Yan Boya , the wife of world "table tennis champion" Wang Hao, wore a red suspender skirt and danced closely with her male partner when participating in a dance competition.
Wang Hao of under the stage was so pissed off that he had a black face.
He angrily scolded his wife in public: "As a woman, you should return to the family, be at home with your husband and children, cook and wash clothes, and don't go out to show your face."
left Yan Boya at a loss on stage with an embarrassed face.
After the show aired, it caused a lot of controversy.
Some people think that Wang Hao is too macho to support his wife's dream.
Some people say that Yan Boya only cares about her dance career, not taking care of her family and children.
Each has its own merits.
But in a word, about marriage, as spectators, outsiders see the excitement, and they live their lives.
Yan Boya was born in 1987 in an artistic family in Shenyang, Liaoning Province. His mother studied dance.
Maybe he inherited his mother's artistic cell, Yan Boya is particularly talented in dancing.
When she went to learn dance, the teacher would also give her a small stove.
When Yan Boya was 12 years old, her parents sent her to Beijing Dance Academy to become a dancer of the General Political Song and Dance Troupe.
During her time at the Beijing Dance Academy, Yan Boya has been training hard, and her dancing level has been getting higher and higher.
Yan Boya has begun to appear in various cultural performances.
met Yan Boya in 2011 when Wang Hao was attending a friend's party in Beijing.
Yan Boya, who is young and beautiful, with a sweet smile and a graceful figure, makes Wang Hao shine.
The handsome and handsome Wang Hao also left a deep impression on Yan Boya.
Although both of them are developing in Beijing,
but because of their respective jobs, they don't have many opportunities to meet.
phone call has become an emotional bridge between the two!
For the longest time, Wang Hao called Yan Boya for an hour and a half.
One year, Wang Hao came back from a foreign competition and brought back a pair of beautiful dance shoes to Yan Boya.
But Yan Boya declined.
It turns out that Yan Boya thinks that Wang Hao is the Olympic champion in the sports world, but he is just a very ordinary dancer.
The gap between the two makes Yan Boya dare not fall in love with each other.
After Wang Hao learned of Yan Boya's concerns, he said earnestly to her: "No matter how much eachother is, you can see my performance in the future."
Soon, Wang Hao gave Yan Boya Take a "reassurance pill".
When he attended a charity event, he specially asked Yan Boya to accompany him.
After the event, Wang Hao asked the parents of both parties to meet together.
Everyone gathered together and the scene was very warm.
Yan Boya's parents see Wang Hao as low-key and steady, without any airs, and they support their daughter to associate with him.
Wang Hao's parents think that Yan Boya is well-behaved and sensible, and she is beautiful, and they are full of praise for her.
in this case.
Wang Hao took the opportunity to express his stance to Yan Boya's parents: "Uncle and aunt, I am serious about Boya and will love her forever."
Seeing Wang Hao being so sincere, Yan Boya felt at ease.
love is proud,Wang Hao is more motivated in his career.
However, while he was actively preparing for the London Olympics, his mother had a kidney attack, and the situation was very dangerous!
With the national honor on one side and the mother lying on the hospital bed on the other, Wang Hao was in a dilemma and hesitated.
At this time, Yan Boya took the initiative to stand up.
She said to Wang Hao, "You can train with peace of mind, everything is up to me."
Before getting married, her girlfriend would do her filial piety for herself,
Wang Hao had more respect for Yan Boya in his heart.
In order to take care of Wang Hao's mother, Yan Boya
put down her work and rushed to Changchun to bring her prospective mother-in-law to Beijing.
During the entire treatment period, Yan Boya was attentive and thoughtful. He rushed to the hospital after work and stayed in bed in the ward at night.
Wang Hao's mother didn't sleep much, so Yan Boya and her went to the house, massaged her swollen legs, brought water and medicine, just like kissing her daughter.
Not only that, but Yan Boya also brought back the socks and clothes that Mother Wang had changed to the dormitory for cleaning.
Mama Wang is very grateful.
Every time I see Wang Hao, I always compliment Yan Boya: "Boya is a good girl. If you dare to let her down, I will never agree."
Mom and his girlfriend get along so well, Wang Hao is happy, but also in his heart. A little "jealous".
He said to Yan Boya, "You haven't even been through the door yet, and your status in my mother's heart is already higher than mine!"
Yan Boya felt sweet when he heard it!
In 2013, Boya Yan accidentally found out that she was pregnant.
She discussed with Wang Hao, we are not too young, let's get married and have a baby!
But Wang Hao hesitated.
He feels that he is still an athlete and is not suitable for marriage.
After Wang Hao's parents found out, they were not happy.
They rushed to Beijing from their hometown,With a clear attitude, he said to Wang Hao, "You are already 30 years old. This marriage must be concluded. We will take care of the children in the future, and it will not affect your playing."
In June of the same year, Wang Hao and Yan Boya entered the marriage hall, Zhang Jike and two members of the Bayi team were the best man.
In October, Yan Boya gave birth to a son safely.
Although the two are married, Wang Hao is still single in his heart. He lives and eats in the table tennis team, and only goes home on weekends.
When I get home, let alone help my wife with some housework.
He can't even take care of himself well. He can't even wash a piece of fruit without rinsing out the foam.
Yan Boya couldn't help feeling wronged that her husband was so careless, but she never complained.
Yan Boya knows that Wang Hao has not yet adapted to the role of a father when he played football since he was a child.
It takes a process to make him mature.
to boot slowly.
During Yan Boya's confinement period, Wang Hao's mother turned into a personal nurse.
Make various nutritious soups for daughter-in-law, change diapers for grandson, and put grandson to sleep.
Sometimes I only get a few hours of sleep a night.
Looking at her mother-in-law's tired face, Yan Boya felt uncomfortable.
She said to Wang Hao, "As a husband and father, you should help and take care of the family, so that the mother will be more relaxed."
After listening to his wife's words, Wang Hao tried to play the role of a father and slowly learned to give The son pours milk, burps, and learns to iron his clothes.
Although it still seems clumsy,
is always willing to change, which is also a big improvement.
Yan Boya also praised her husband from time to time: "You are not only handsome and good at football, but now you are labeled as a good husband and a good father, which is really perfect."
Complimented, Wang Hao felt that he was not mature enough before.
He sincerely said to his wife: "I'm sorry, I used to lack a sense of responsibility, and I will definitely stand up for you and my son in the future."
In 2014, Wang Hao announced his retirement, ending his 16-year national table tennis career. I chose to be the coach of the Bayi team.
Since Yan Boya married Wang Hao, she has also added childbirth and childcare.
So she has never been able to engage in her favorite dance career. In 2015, she signed up for a variety show.
Most of the people participating in the show are the children and family members of celebrities.
When introducing his family, Yan Boya said, "He is my honor. He has won two Olympic championships and 18 world championships."
In this episode, Wang Hao accompanied his wife to participate.
However, he has his own attitude, and he doesn't agree with his wife's dancing on stage again.
But Yan Boya is very firm.
She asked Wang Hao: "Are you willing to give up your table tennis career? Raising children at home is no easier than being an athlete." Wang Hao only agreed to watch it in the backstage studio instead of appearing on stage.
Watching his wife "dance" with his partner on stage,
Wang Hao frowned and his face gradually darkened.
The audience in the audience enjoyed it very much, but Wang Hao was restless.
After the performance, the host asked Wang Hao to come on stage,
asked him to cheer his wife on.
Wang Hao once again expressed his attitude: "I think as a woman, don't show your face outside, you should return to the family."
After finishing speaking, he left the stage angrily.
However, in the latter episode, Wang Hao took the child to cheer his wife and sent 11 roses to show his love.
Perhaps after some ideological struggle, Wang Hao expressed his understanding and support for his wife's choice.
The conflict between the couple was finally resolved.
In 2017, the second son of the two was born, and Wang Hao specially posted a good news on the social platform.
also thanked his wife for her dedication to the family.
However, with the addition of a new member to the family, the two parties need to work hard and spend more time.
Yan Boya also gave up the idea of making a comeback again,
concentrates on raising her husband and children at home, and stabilizing the rear for Wang Hao.
Become the father of two children, and Wang Hao has a greater sense of responsibility as a husband and father.
After training in the team, even if it is only half a day off,
Wang Hao has to rush home to accompany his wife and two sons.
Yan Boya felt sorry for her husband and told him not to run back and forth as much as possible. After returning home, relax and rest!
Wang Hao said: "I am willing to take care of you."
Yan Boya's body rebounded, and she was a dancer.
Wang Hao specially bought a weight loss CD for his wife, and accompany his wife to do weight loss meals. After a few months of perseverance, Yan Boya successfully lost ten pounds.
In order to reward his wife, Wang Hao also gave her a gift.
He is putting more and more attention on his son.
Wang Hao will hold his throat and sing to his son, hold his little hand and teach him to walk.
In order to exercise his son's vision, he also bought some colorful balloons.
The roles of a good husband and a good father are getting better.
Later, it can be seen on Yan Boya's social account,
that she is either posting about her children or related to Wang Hao.
really did what Wang Hao expected, focusing on family.
But Yan Boya also said: When the two children need their mother the most, I want to do my mother's role first.
When the child is a little older, he will pick up the dream of dancing again.
Wang Hao also expressed his support for his wife.
He said: "Dream is also the foundation of family happiness. Dreams and family do not conflict." happiness.
In 2021, Yan Boya and Wang Hao will once again appear on variety shows. In the show, the love of husband and wife is reflected in the details.
Don't forget to share with each other when you taste the food, and you will unconsciously hold hands when walking around the alley.
Let everyone eat up "dog food" in a minute.
Today, Yan Boya and Wang Hao have been married for 9 years.
After the run-in of marriage, the two understand each other more and more, their relationship is getting better and better, and they support each other, which is enviable!
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