Ji Baoru was one of the earliest child stars in Taiwan. At the peak of
, she sang a song "Looking for a Mother in Ten Thousand Miles", which caused many audiences to cry before the screen.
"I want you, mom, I miss you, mom..."
But in reality, Ji Baoru lives in a patriarchal family, and her parents almost don’t care. She instead gave her to grandma to raise.
In order to keep Ji Baoru's image as a "child star" and continue to be a cash cow in the family, her grandma even gave her a "growth suppression injection".
Ji Baoru's height and appearance will always be fixed in that year.
"The song is sung for others, but I can't comfort myself. I didn't enjoy the warmth of family when I was a child." When
said these words, Ji Baoru's eyes were full With bleakness.
1. The height
fixed at the age of 14 years. Ji Baoru was born in Taiwan in 1962. He was born with her and her brother was born with the dragon and phoenix.
The successful birth of the child brought a lot of joy to the family, but the family’s love of the child is limited to the youngest son.
In this patriarchal family, Ji Baoru has almost no status. When he was older, his parents even left with his younger brother and threw her directly to his grandmother to raise.
At the age of 5, Ji Baoru was discovered by a scout for his cute appearance, and he has since embarked on the path of acting.
At that time, her grandma didn't think too much about whether she would delay school or what she planned for the future. It didn't really matter, as long as she could make money for the family.
Ji Baoru is also very happy, because in the crew she will be paid attention to by everyone and can feel that she is valued and needed.
On the road to becoming a child star, she has gained a lot of warmth that she lacked in childhood.
With big black eyes and a slightly fat face, Ji Baoru’s lovely image soon became the new darling of the screen, and was even dubbed the “national girl”.
In 1976, Ji Baoru became a well-known child star with the song "A Thousand Miles to Seek Mother".
That year she was 14 years old, and she was in the changing voice of adolescence. At this juncture, she became popular, and the family began to worry.
If Ji Baoru starts to change her voice, then her child star anthology will be gone forever, which means that the fame she has accumulated before will be worthless.
Under the temptation of interest, Ji Baoru's grandmother made a very extreme decision: give Ji Baoru a "growth inhibition injection".
From then on, Ji Baoru's height and appearance have been fixed at the age of 14, and after giving up the price of growth, he has gained continuous growth in popularity. After
became popular, her parents did not take her a high look, nor would they often visit her. Only when a guardian is required to sign a contract will she appear in her vision.
"I want you, mom, I miss you, mom..."
On the screen, she sang this song affectionately over and over again, but in real life, she treats her parents There is almost no emotion.
"Although I am very cute, I am actually not cute at all. I am an annoying little adult."
As I grow older, watching my brothers and sisters around me change their voices, As an adult, the resentment accumulated in her heart also grew day by day.
It was not until adulthood that all her dissatisfaction finally broke out.
2, the fall of child star halo
At the age of 19, Ji Baoru fell in love.
The object of love is the younger brother of Yu Tian, known as the "King of Taiwanese singers"Younger brother Yu Long, she is 9 years older when she gets older.
Although there is such a big age gap, in life, Yu Long has taken care of Ji Baoru meticulously, making Ji Baoru feel the long-lost warmth.
After returning home, Ji Baoru said to her father: "I want to marry Yu Long."
Her father slapped her backhand.
Ji Baoru did not cry. She walked out of the house without a piece of luggage, and since then quit the entertainment industry to marry a widow.
After marrying Yu Long, Ji Baoru, like all women in love, gave birth to him and took care of the trivial matters of life.
"At that time, I would always wear clothes of 190 yuan, but I bought Yu Long for 10,900 yuan, and I gave him all the face."
小The life and management of the couple has been very successful. Although he lost the opportunity to perform, Ji Baoru used his previous savings to show off his skills in the stock market. With the blessing of luck, he earned hundreds of millions of yuan.
But in a place like the stock market, the rise and fall are more based on the fate. Although the money came quickly, it fell quickly. It originally rose from three thousand points to tens of thousands, but it fell overnight. 6,000 points back.
Zhu Building collapsed before it got up. This incident had a great impact on the two of them. They were depressed in their lives. Just when Ji Baoru was most vulnerable, Yu Long even looked for other women outside. After
was discovered by Ji Baoru, Yu Long crazily apologized and admitted his mistake, but he didn't get Ji Baoru's forgiveness.
Angrily, Ji Baoru chose to run away from home.
At that time, Yu Long was full of sadness. He went out to a party under the invitation of his friends, trying to divert his attention.
Unexpectedly, the night Yu Long was out for a party, happened to be the most deadly and injured public security accident in Taipei City. A fire took away 16 lives, and Yu Long was one of them.
Ji Baoru received a call from her sister-in-law at home and hurried to Yangming Hospital, but it was too late. Before they could meet the last time, the two of them were separated.
3. Destroy to rebirth
After Yu Long passed away, Ji Bao was ashamed of her heart. After packing her mood, she had to take her three sons to face life.
For Ji Baoru, she has no education, no skills, and can't even do physical work. It's hard to find a satisfactory job.
The cruel life made Ji Baoru give up on himself for a while, drink and indulge himself all day, and even become a mother in the custom shop when he is most depressed, so as to survive.
My life is already fragmented, and the children in the family are even more neglected. The eldest son is suffering from bipolar disorder. No one knows anyone when he is crazy. The second son is even more so. Dyed with D products, step by step towards the edge of destruction.
In order to cure the eldest son’s bipolar disorder, Ji Baoru tried any method, but the situation has not improved.
With the mentality of "dead horse as a living horse doctor", Ji Baoru took his eldest son to the church. He did not expect that he was blocked in front of outsiders, and he opened his heart to the "brothers and sisters" in the church. talk.
In the two weeks after returning from the church, Ji Baoru’s eldest son kept awake and took turns calling the church members. After a few months, he healed miraculously.
Ji Baoru thought it was God’s blessing, and since then he believed in Christ, cleaned up his life again, and even cruelly sent his second son to the drug rehabilitation center.
In the next few years, Ji Bao seemed to be born again. She stepped onto the stage again, letting go of everything in the past, and even forgiving her grandma.
Now Ji Baoru is 58 years old, has faded from the halo of child stars, and occasionally picks it upPerform some charities in private.
Ji Baoru’s life was full of thorns, but after she survived, she finally chose to let go and forgive, repay grievances with virtue, and embrace the world.
Life will continue after all. Instead of living in painful memories, why not wake up to welcome a better tomorrow?
Author: Jiang wine
