Zhong Nanshan said in an interview with reporters in Guangzhou: "Someone just asked me when will I be able to return to my state before 2019? My opinion is that in the first half of next year, after March, I can't guarantee it, but the trend should be almost this time."
The epidemic has been in three years, and there are too many things that have been changed. Can the past really be returned?
I remember that during the Spring Festival in 2019, my wife and I took our 3-year-old child back to our hometown in Northeast China for the first time. In fact, before that, we hadn’t been back for four or five years, and the outbreak of the epidemic began from that Spring Festival.
In my past memories, going back to my hometown to celebrate the New Year is the most lively thing. has family reunion; a sumptuous New Year’s Eve dinner; there are constant sounds of fireworks and firecrackers all night; there are also many friends who are difficult to meet on weekdays, and they will only stop getting drunk together, but since the Spring Festival in 2019, these seem to have disappeared.
After the outbreak of the Spring Festival that year, there was a brief lockdown. I forgot about how many days it was. At that time, the five of us were crowded in a house of more than 60 square meters in our hometown. The happiest thing every day was to listen to my dad saying: "You eat openly, we can't finish the New Year's things in our family for the New Year!"
Because my wife and I took our children home for the New Year, my parents prepared a lot of food, which I think can be said to be everything.
Before the Chinese New Year, after night, many people gathered together to play poker, mahjong, or barbecue and sang together in KTV. But during that year during the Spring Festival, the most important thing after dinner was to watch " News Broadcast " to understand the development of the epidemic.
In fact, apart from news, I know very little about the epidemic because I have never been infected, and my friends I know have never been infected. I think this should be the legendary luck.
I still remember the "short goods" of the Spring Festival that year, not chicken, duck, fish, or fireworks and firecrackers , but masks and disinfected alcohol.
At that time, I really couldn’t buy masks. I asked four or five friends to mail more than 20 from other places to our family.
However, there are a lot of alcohol disinfection. At that time, my father had very strict requirements on disinfection, including clothes, pants, shoes, and shoes. As long as he went out and went home, he had to spray it to disinfect.
Of course, it is because I am stupid and know little about electronic products. At that time, in order to disinfect my phone, I sprayed alcohol directly on my iPhone. As a result, the back shell of the phone bulged into a bridge at a speed visible to the naked eye. It was also since then that I gave up Apple and chose Huawei .
Later, after the lockdown ended, my wife and I bought a full-price air ticket the next day, and then took our children back to the city where we lived. It was at that time that I found that life began to change.
At that time, there was more than 100,000 yuan in deposits on the card, but now it has become a debt;
At that time, there was after-tax salary 15,000, but now it has become a salary of 6,000, only about 6,000, but no right-right monthly salary;
At that time, the boss acted at my face, but now the boss was asking me harshly, and I had no complaints and told me to do it;
At that time, I was always pretentious and loved to mess around. Although I was still pretentious now, I was finally a little mature than before.
I am considered introverted, with a relatively small circle and mainly do marketing operations. Before I went home for the Spring Festival in 2019, I just resigned. I think this may be the most wrong decision in my life.
At that time, I originally wanted to change a job that suits me more after the New Year, but due to the outbreak of the epidemic, I didn’t go to work for about half a year. After resting for more than half a year, I felt that I had to do something, so I finally chose to start a self-media business alone.
The result can be imagined. If there is no team and only one person, the failure is almost inevitable. Even if there are more people at that time, the success rate may increase by 3 times. So it is the lesson learned during that period that made me understand that you must not start a business alone. If you want to start a business, you must find a partner that can complement each other.
When I started my own business and worked as a self-media, I output more than 10,000 words almost every day, and my monthly income was about 8,000. Because I have to produce a large amount of content every day, I have no time to think about the direction and development of the business. As a result, after more than half a year, one day I didn’t know what I was thinking and directly canceled my account.
Of course, that also means the failure of my entrepreneurial experience.
Later, a friend of mine did a new project and asked me to be the general manager, so I followed the trend and directly joined the project.
Before joining, the boss and I were talking well, but since the second month, the boss started to arrears of wages and delayed it again and again, and it took more than half a year. Later I found out that his capital chain had been broken before he looked for me.
A new project; a new product; a cross-industry and a bit stubborn boss; coupled with no funds to operate, the boss has been owed wages, and the project eventually died. Until now, the boss still owes me several months of salary.
I once thought about asking to for labor arbitration, but later I thought about it, starting a business is not easy, and the arrears of work will naturally be left alone.
After that, I worked as an operation consultant for a period of time, but my income was very average. During this period, I also experienced two epidemics and stayed at home.
As time goes by, because of mortgage loans, car loans, and various daily expenses, I watched the numbers in the card drop every day, and continued reflection, and finally decided to find a job first to stabilize it. But when I started looking for a job again, I realized that it is really difficult to find a job now. Not only is the salary low and the requirements high, but it is also difficult to find a reliable company.
In the past, the average salary of our general companies was about 6,000. It was during the period when we were looking for a job that I found that our salary level had actually dropped, and it had dropped by about 30%. This may also have a lot to do with the epidemic.
This is some review of my three years of epidemic, just a review, not a complaint.
It is hard to say whether the changes I have experienced are related to the epidemic, but I think there is more or less a connection.
But I also know that in the past three years of the epidemic, not everyone has gone downhill, and many people have gone against the trend and successfully counterattacked. There is a saying that "the times create heroes". If you want to blame yourself, you can only blame yourself. Choosing the wrong path has nothing to do with other factors.
When I saw Zhong Nanshan being interviewed in Guangzhou, I mentioned that I expected to return to my state before 2019 in the first half of next year, and I unnaturally recalled the experience of the past three years of the epidemic.
can pass, can you really go back?
Just like in 2019, I might go to bed at 10 o'clock every night, but now I stay up until two o'clock in the morning every day, either writing articles or cutting videos. I know that to return to my life before 2019, I have to endure it.
But can I really go back to it?
In fact, when I saw this speech on the hot search, I felt complicated. I couldn't tell whether it was because of the happiness that the epidemic was about to pass, or because of the sadness that I had not performed well in the three years of the epidemic.
I know that the speech was about the epidemic situation and had nothing to do with personal life.
But even if the epidemic disappears, those that have passed cannot go back.
What can’t go back is time; what can’t go back is experience; what can’t go back is unreturned is unreturn.
Three years of epidemic, and it will be three years without epidemic. There are too many things that can be changed in three years. No matter whether these three years are smooth sailing or full of thorns, what is past is gone.
Looking back can neither change the world nor change yourself.
Instead of missing the past, it is better to look forward. What we can change may be the future, come on!
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