Today, I saw that Century Jiayuan was fined 210,000 yuan, and many people said that dating platforms like this should be banned. I think they are all fraudulent companies. I don't agree with such remarks. I don’t know if you have used these platforms and have you ever known them?

Today I saw that Century Jiayuan was fined 210,000 yuan, and many people said that dating platforms like this should be banned. I think they are all fraudulent companies. I don't agree with such remarks.

I don’t know if you have used these platforms and have you ever known them? Is there any say?

Because I have used these platforms, I think I know more than you may know, so I have a little say.

I also have my own opinions and perceptions of these platforms, and I hope it will be helpful to you.

People nowadays live in fast-paced times. Many contacts between people are met through the Internet. Of course, the Internet is a platform, and both sides of the platform connect you and me.

We don’t know each other, we can only know each other through such a medium. As for what kind of person is behind the screen, it is risky. Maybe he is a liar, maybe he is a murderer, maybe he is a traitor, maybe he is as kind-hearted as you, maybe he is also sincerely looking for his partner, maybe he is just looking for loneliness and chatting with someone.

read it! There are all kinds of people. It is said that people's hearts are separated from the belly, not to mention that they are separated from the screen and thousands of miles away.

The so-called harming one's heart must not be a guard against one's heart. This famous saying was taught to me in person when I was very young. So I still remember it fresh since I was a child. And it will become my future principle for people and things. I also give this sentence to everyone. You really have to listen to the old man more so that you won’t suffer any losses.

I graduated from university in 2005, and my hometown is Hanzhong . No one introduced me to me at that time. People in my hometown thought that I was a college student and definitely had high requirements. Most of the boys in my hometown had never been to college and went out to work early. I started working after graduation. I was all female colleagues at work. I had no relatives and elders in Xi'an, and there were no so-called blind dates or introductions to my partner. In 2007, my family began to urge me to get married. I was 27 years old then. Parents are anxious! What should people like us do if they have a narrow social perspective? It can only be done through the Internet. Not long after Century Jiayuan came out, I didn’t charge any fees, so I registered a membership.

can read other people's information and write letters to the other party. Others can also write to you based on your information. I sent two letters without a reply, but received a letter from someone else. A native of Xi'an, whose family works in colleges and universities, graduated from computer science and works as a project manager in a company. It looks pretty good. Then we met. We got married half a year later. He is my ex-husband.

Later I found out that when he was chatting with me, he talked with 8 people at the same time. He had a notebook that wrote about everyone's pros and cons. And the reason why I can win is my good character! Ha ha! I really feel extremely depressed and funny.

But after comparison, I know that I made a very fatal mistake that I only saw him alone.

There is a familiar saying "compare all over the place" and it is the same as choosing a partner. It is always correct to compare more. At that time, I was too young, so I saw him and thought it was okay, so I decided to walk with him for the rest of my life.

When I was young, I thought about the problem too easily, and I always felt that it was not suitable for divorce! Are there still many people thinking so now? But I don’t know that getting married is easy and getting divorced! Especially for women with children, it is extremely difficult to divorce again.

Later we divorced because of disagreement of our views. The good thing is that he is indeed a good person. We broke up peacefully. Although it took many years to go to the court, he was willing to agree to divorce. Until now, we have children and have become relatives.

So you see that the Century Jiayuan made my first marriage. Although divorce is not the reason for the platform but our own reasons.

After the divorce, I opened my own store and went to school to work as a training teacher. The customers and students I contacted are all women, so I still need an online platform to let me get to know the opposite sex.

Then I met zhenai.com , which is a blind date platform for the purpose of marriage and love. You need to pay to read the letter. Only then can you reply to someone else's letter.

I found that there are many people on this platform for marriage, but there are also many scammers. I just met a man, and his character is very high-end and has connotation. But once he told me that there was a problem with my phone and I had to repair it. I had no money and asked me to transfer 300 yuan. I transferred him 300 yuan. Then I found out that I couldn't reach him anymore. I thought it didn’t have much money, so I just forgot it, but I reported him on the platform, hoping that others won’t be cheated again.

Then this platform also has matchmakers to help you, and ask you to go to offline stores to recharge high-end Vip, which means that if you become a high-end member, you will arrange a large number of high-quality men who meet your requirements to date you offline. The success rate is higher. But the cost is also very high. I thought the cost was too high at the time and did not adopt it.

Later, after a long time, I found that this platform is called a dating website, but those people are just back and forth, which may be due to the charges. There are not many registered members, and not many high-quality ones. Many people haven't been online for a long time, and the information is still on it. The only people who recommend you. After a long time, I felt that the resources were too limited, so I decisively uninstalled.

Tantan was recommended by my students. They were all born in the 1990s. They recommended to me that Tantan said that there were all handsome men, so I downloaded them. Then I found that there were indeed many handsome men on it, but most of them were born in the 1990s and 2000s. It was not suitable for me, an old aunt, because I cannot accept the siblings.

My students often make appointments on Tantan, and I feel like everyone is having a playful attitude and few people want to get married. I can't accept the current people's sex, as they feel that they are all young people's worlds, and they are incompatible with me, the elderly.

Let’s talk about momo . Momo is a website that I knew very early. I remember when I opened a store, my clerk told me that Momo was a date. At that time, I didn’t have a good impression of it. It seemed that most of the people on it were going to play, not talking about feelings seriously.

But someone around me found true love in Momo, so I downloaded Momo with a try attitude. I observed it for a while and found that there were indeed a lot of fun on Momo. But Momo has an advantage that there are many people, all kinds of people, many people play, and many people seek true love. The key is that it is free. More and more people are registering. And there are all kinds of purposes and there is a lot of freedom.

I also encountered a liar on Momo. The first time he chatted with me, he sent me his ID card, real estate certificate and home address. Do you think this person is sincere? Ha ha! I felt the same way, but one night I called him and the woman who answered the phone said it was his wife. He said he was taking a shower and asked me what was wrong? I'm dizzy! I was very angry at the time and wanted to tell his wife that your man said he had been divorced for many years, so why did he have a wife again? Later I thought about it and let it go. Maybe his wife said that I was a mistress, so why don’t I argue?

I blocked all his contact information, so that such garbage should not appear again. I hate this kind of scum who has a family and pretends to be single and deceive others' feelings the most. He's simply a scumbag.

But I think there are definitely not one or two scumbags like this, but many. I hope that as women, we should keep our eyes open and not be deceived by the sincerestness on the surface. After

I met my ex-boyfriend on Momo. They are all rare good men.

I think every platform has its characteristics and its group. Meet the needs of different people. What we need to do is to recognize people's abilities, gain a pair of wise eyes, distinguish the truth from the false, and recognize the human heart.

My ex-husband now told me that all his websites have been downloaded, especially Zhenai.com, and I met several excellent women. When he was the busiest, he chatted with more than a dozen women at the same time.

Some people may think that such a man is not desirable, but I think my ex-husband is very smart. Only by chatting with a few people at the same time can you tell who is more suitable for you, and you can compare who is better and who is inferior. I won’t easily make a secret promise, but then make a decision after comparing, decide who to date, and then go further after making a decision.

I don’t like to step on two boats, nor do I recommend step on two boats.But you can make more comparisons. Before you decide who to date, both men and women are free and can be compared. I encourage everyone to make more comparisons and then make choices.

often choose the right choice, everything is right. Did you say so?

Having said so much, I think every platform has its advantages and disadvantages, but the platform cannot guarantee that you will find your favorite lover. It is just a medium and only provides resources. But there are always good and bad in these resources, good and bad, sincerity and hypocrisy, and scammers and scumbags. Only by constantly improving our discernment ability and maintaining our true hearts can we meet true love.

I hope everyone can meet a good person.