At the end of "Sanyue has a new job", Zhao Sanyue, who is used to facing death, still can't hide her anger when facing her father's meeting in the dying ward, and then there is still a trace of melancholy.

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When the father who abandoned his wife and daughter returns to his terminal illness, what mentality should he face it with?

continue to hate? Or force yourself to forgive?

At the end of " Sanyue has a new job ", Zhao Sanyue (played by Zhou Yiran), who has become accustomed to facing death, still can't hide his anger when facing his father's meeting in the dying ward, and then there is still a trace of melancholy.

How to say goodbye well is an eternal topic in life.

For the close relatives who only appeared at the last moment, pretending to forgive them will leave regrets, and continuing to hate them will make things difficult for herself. Zhao Sanyue’s final answer is whether she chose to hold her father’s hand at the last moment.

"There is neither the joy of revenge, nor the regret that cannot be compensated. There is only one feeling, forget it, let it go."

But because of this farewell, she and her once cold-eyed mother ( Zhang Yinyan ornaments) had a grudge. Because of this man who continued to absent, both women lived in confusion and hatred.

: The past is spread out, and love and hate are dissipating, and that is why you really let yourself go.

uses a very light style to express the value of farewell. This is about the reason why "Sanyue has a new job" was scored 8.3 points by 24,000 people.

From the death, life

All we traditionally avoid death.

Even if you can't help but talk about "death" when you joke, if you really want to say something related, parents will immediately help you "pop" it.

In 2022, the film and television industry is not very lively, but we can see some breakthroughs. " Life Events " creates a meeting between Sun Wukong and Nezha in the funeral industry.

"Sanyue has a new job" is the "escape from death" of the girl who is lying on the verge of a flat girl.

"Let people who like to work go to work, and people who like to lie flat"

This is Zhao Sanyue’s original life philosophy.

She grew up in a single-parent family, enduring the negative emotions of her mother, and thus fell into an escape mentality of fear of failure and rejection.

She thought of saying goodbye to the world more than once, but she started to resurrect after entering the funeral industry.

Yishu once wrote in " Xibao ": "I want a lot of love, if not, it is good to have a lot of money."

For Zhao Sanyue, her hope for life began with a reminder given by a seriously ill patient: " If there is no lot of love for living, if there is no lot of love for you, you will not have a lot of love." If you hold on, then you can have a lot of hatred, or a little bit of ties. "

Not everyone will be exposed to luxury, but a little bit of ties is the reason to live. Maybe it's just a puppy, maybe it's a few more friends, because they are all practitioners in the funeral industry, they are all walking on the edge of society and dare not visit relatives and friends during the New Year and Festival, and even the close relatives have stopped interacting. When they meet, they have the warmth of rendezvous and clinging together.

This is the ties.

Although I deal with death every day, I see more hope for life in the face of death and have more life.

The "loved man" who made a big fuss in the funeral home after his wife passed away exchanged for a nearly free funeral, and then a live wedding with her deceased wife. The extremely affectionate tears were full of acting skills.

The parents who abandoned their sick daughter tried their best to cover up their guilt at the funeral, and used emotional venting to exchange for a little peace of mind. This made the adoptive parents who were careful to care for their daughter and grew up unable to see it.

At all kinds of funerals, some people spend a lot of money to arrange the tables and show off on-site. The original farewell turned into a show for the living.

This is face.

Some people also turned funerals into beautiful lies, covering up their husband's infidelity with a farewell ceremony of "flying into space".

is not to accept it, but as a mother, she hopes that the child will not be hurt because of his father's death, and there is a thought on the road to growth.

Parents who are determined to be the first to become the first and second among humans never understand the child’s heart until the end, and carefully imagined the flashy life route for their son, and finally realized that they used love to shackle the child.

maintains the rhythm of a lunch box in every episode, and this drama also makes the bitter and bitter life appear particularly real when it finally freezes.

stands at the end and looks back, and life is more full and makes people yearn for cherishing.

Living is a lifelong thing

The whole process is related to life and death. In "Sanyue has a new job", it is very savored to the three definitions of life and death.

『First time』

Sanyue had a conflict with her mother and ran away from home and had nowhere to go. My aunt (Guo Keyu ) understood her confusion. As a funeral practitioner, my aunt who has been alone for many years told her: "Look at this path, it's dark and dark, and it's death."

This made Sanyue have a first understanding of death and began to be afraid. She didn't understand why her aunt chose to work in this industry. She was very curious: "Does you make a lot of money?"

In order to make a living, she was introduced by her aunt to No. 998 Xingfu Road to work. She became a funeral beautician who studied stage art. Compared to being scared by the work content, she was even more afraid that she could not bear the rain and could not fill her stomach, so she could only walk down with her teeth. When Gao Weidong ( Liu Jun ) died of illness and his master Liu Qingming ( Yang Xinming ) retired, she began to be upset if the end of her life is destined, why should she waste time on people and things that always say goodbye and end.

In a job that outsiders think is taboo, Sanyue is accepted by her colleagues indiscriminately, taken care of by her aunt's first love Gao Weidong, and taught by her hard-mouthed and soft-hearted master little by little, and was tolerated by her colleagues Yanan (E Jingwen) and Liang Gege (Kangkeren ) with heart. She has bonds and attachments, and has also begun to be afraid of facing loss and farewell.

In order to resist this fear, she chose to escape from her current life - resign.

『Third time』

』after Gao Weidong and his master both left, Sanyue decided to return to his original work.

Because she heard an accident in the news, she estimated that her colleagues had already fallen out of their way, so she picked up the bag and chose to go back. She found the value of her existence in this job, and also found in her master's work notes that he had wanted to escape many times. The seemingly powerful Yanan turned out to be worse than her when she first joined the job.

She is no longer an isolated case. She accepts herself as an ordinary member of the world. She will be surprised by the more filling in the bread, learn to appreciate the most plain little happiness in life, and then understand the meaning of life.

Gao Weidong said before leaving: "Living is a lifelong thing, and death is a thing all at once."

This also reveals the opposition and interconnected relationship between life and death. Life is hard, but it still needs to move forward.

Master Liu Qingming buried the fact that his son was unexpected in his heart, and once intoxicated himself in the small world and did not want to wake up. Life would always go on.Uncle Wen ( Liu Yajin decoration) of the Happy Noodle Restaurant has been widowed and built a noodle restaurant, so Sanyue and her colleagues have a restaurant that is not cast by others. ,

cut off contact because her mother could not accept her job, but Yaman would not put these emotions into her job.

Because my grandfather was seriously ill, he took over his old business and entered the funeral industry alone and was unwilling to drag down his former lover Gao Weidong, and even made up the reason for cheating, and ended up being alone for half his life.

These ordinary and small individuals have hardships to tell, but they all chose to face it with a smile and leave the warmth to the people around them. Because of a hug and an understanding look from relatives and friends, there is a warm smile.

The tears of sorrow at the funeral, or the tears of sorrow in the hearts of these people standing on the edge?

While the conversation between life and death, one is to move forward with hope, and you must live your life. One is to come to an end, love and hate can only be archived.

This drama is not preached or deliberately sensational, nor is it difficult and heavy. Each example reflects the preciousness of life.

Life is really hard, but only by living can you be happy.

Being forgotten is eternal departure

" Dream Searching for Travels " says: Death is not the end, forgetting is.

Although Gao Weidong left, his contact information was always retained by Sanyue and Liang Gege, and she still maintained the habit of sending him all the troubles.

The wife saved all the videos he took at the last moment one by one, becoming an eternal memory.

Ancient netizens said "I came to this world and didn't plan to go back alive" .

is destined to have an end in everything, so how to walk this road well and find the meaning of walking yourself in this process is also a hidden question in this drama.

No man and heaven is a natural Buddhist, and no one doesn’t want to feel comfortable lying flat, but they all have their own goals and are busy.

uses death to reflect the preciousness of birth. When everything is still in time, let yourself have less regrets and clearer goals.

This is the rebirth after the death.

There is no white, rich and beautiful woman in this drama, nor does it have the halo of the protagonist. Even if it was the heroine Sanyue, the irresponsible old father returned and was hurriedly offline, leaving only one handshake.

Looking at the various aspects of life from the origin of death, suddenly there is no self-interference, which is more useful than the second uncle.

This article was written by the author as a special author of "Toutiao Entertainment Jun". Come to Toutiao to watch entertainment, which is a bit informative and profound~