There are men and women in the world, men and women get married, have children, social development, and racial continuation.
What are the differences between having boys and girls for ordinary families?
In general, since society has developed to this day, men and women are equal. This is the call of society and the requirement of the times.
Yes, in reality, in family, there is still a difference between having boys and girls.
(I) The difference between surnames in traditional concepts.
For thousands of years, the traditional Chinese concept is that children take their father's surname and give birth to boys means that there is a continuation of surnames. Although in today's society, children also follow their mother's surname, they are a minority after all, and the mainstream idea is that children follow their father's surname.
(II) In terms of marriage model, the girl married to the man. This means that men are the axis of the family and women are dependent on men.
(III) In terms of parents' retirement, they basically rely on their son's home, and they still rely on their son for birth, old age, sickness and death.
In traditional concept, raising children to prevent old age. At present, when parents are old, they basically rely on their son to support their elderly care, including illness and death. Even if you go to your daughter's house temporarily, you will still get it back to your son's house when you are about to die. You can't die at your daughter's house, after all, your daughter belongs to someone else's house.
(IV) The son is rough and the daughter is meticulous.
Although the son is mainly due to his or her son when he is sick in his or her old age, he usually visits his or her parents and serves his or her daughters. His or her daughter is caring and careful.
(V) In today's China, the idea of favoring boys over girls still exists, and in some places it is very serious.
Although society advocates equality between men and women , in some places, they still prefer boys over girls. Therefore, when a family has a son, it feels that the family has hope. If it is a daughter, the family will have no future, and not everyone thinks this way, but there are still many people with this kind of thinking!
Men and women are equal, and they are the same for having children. The daughter is also passed down to future generations. This is the promotion of civilization and the progress of society.
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