Preface
people come to this world warmly and should also say goodbye with warmth and decentness.
There are many professions in this world that are not recognized by secular perspectives, but they still do not affect the love of these practitioners for this job.
A girl born in the 1985 worked in such a job, embalmer . When mentions embalmers, many people stay away from . But this does not affect her love and persistence in this profession.
She often says: The corpse is cold, but the profession is warm. When she entered the industry, she was only 19 years old. She has been in the industry for nearly 20 years. Every day, she would tidy up her appearance for 15 deceased people, carefully wipe the whole body of the deceased, then paint exquisite makeup for the deceased, and finally put on the deceased's shrouds carefully prepared by the family.
Wu Jinna does this work repeatedly every day. So how did she enter this industry at a young age?
Choose a career
Born in 1985, Wu Jinna is not like other girls, but is quiet and quiet, but she is a bit independent. He has fallen in love with physical education since he was a child and often fantasizes about how to be an excellent sports coach when he grows up.
But when she was 12 years old, an accident made her have different ideas about her future plans.
Her aunt was taken away by a car accident, and Wu Jinna burst into tears when she heard the news. I have to look at my aunt for the last glance and say goodbye to her.
However, the trauma of the car accident made my aunt's face unrecognizable, and her body was crushed to the point of being very scary.
Wu Jinna was still young at that time, and such an impact was not something that a child could bear, and because of these reasons, the parents did not agree.
However, my aunt, who had always occupied an important position in her mind, left like that. Wu Jinna couldn't let go of this matter. She felt that it was because of her aunt's indecent appearance that she did not meet for the last time.
She had an idea in her mind: she wanted no such regret between the deceased and her family.
So, after learning that a school in Fujian had a funeral major, she gave up the entrance examination right in front of her and resolutely applied for the funeral major of the school.
The parents were very angry when they found out, thinking that there must be something wrong with their daughter's brain. They kept such good academic performance and did not go to a better high school, but went to college in the future, but had to go to technical secondary school. It’s okay to go to a technical secondary school in
, but you can’t learn anything, you have to learn such a bad major. The family of three quarreled over this matter many times, but Wu Jinna, who had her own opinions since childhood, said that she would not give in.
When the family of three was in a stalemate, Wu Jinna's grandfather stood up and broke the deadlock. Unexpectedly, the usually rigid old man actually agreed with his granddaughter's decision.
Just like that, Wu Jinna entered Fujian Civil Affairs College as she wished. Parents who cannot change all this are still very concerned about this.
During his studies at school, Wu Jinna was full of enthusiasm for this major and studied every knowledge point carefully. During her internship in the technical secondary school, she took every task seriously and gradually fell in love with this profession.
is not understood by her family
Because the internship funeral home is closer to home, she lives at home.
The mother in the family has the habit of worshiping the gods. She often put fruit on the altar on the day of worshiping the gods. On that day, when Wu Jinna, who was about to go out to work, saw an apple falling out of the plate, she put it back.
When Wu Jinna came back from get off work and passed by the altar, she found that the place where the apples were originally placed had been replaced with other fruits. She asked her mother with confusion on her face, what was going on?
The mother didn't dare to look at Wu Jinna in the eyes. Seeing that her mother wanted to say but couldn't say it, Wu Jinna instantly understood what her mother meant . My mother disliked her "unlucky" hand to touch her.
Wu Jinna, who knew the reason, instantly felt wronged . Even the people closest to her didn't understand her, despise herself and disagree with what she did. What should she do?
During the holidays, relatives and friends always have to meet each other. Some relatives always have disagreements in their eyes when they see Wu Jinna. Sometimes a few people are talking and are excited. As soon as Wu Jinna passes, her face will change immediately.
The gifts I gave to my relatives can always find their figures in the trash can, making Wu Jinna not know what to do when she goes there again.
It is impossible for Wu Jinna to feel uncomfortable. In order to get along better, Wu Jinna hardly attends family gatherings. I don’t attend the weddings of relatives and friends around me, so as not to make others uncomfortable.
She knew very well that such prejudice could not be eliminated in a short period of time. As time goes by, everyone will slowly accept that they have this confidence.
Go abroad to further your studies
Those who work hard will always be favored by God. In the year of graduation, a Japanese funeral company that has business contact with the school wants to recruit Chinese morticians.
Wu Jinna immediately applied to the school after she found out, hoping to go to Japan to study and learn more professional knowledge.
Because Japan's funeral industry has developed relatively maturely and has a relatively comprehensive technology. There are two types of employment directions for embalmers in Japan. One is makeup that makes the deceased pass away more peacefully, and the other is bathing for old friends to clean up their bodies.
It is through these technologies that the deceased say goodbye to relatives and friends more decently, and also make relatives and friends more at ease.
, and Wu Jinna chose to bathe the deceased. This is a job that requires great patience. It is very cumbersome and requires the embalmer to be careful and cannot violate industry regulations.
For example: The embalmer must wear gloves when working before he can contact the body, including the deceased's relatives, also wear gloves during the touch.
The deceased often have bacteria left on the surface of the body. If you contact directly with your hands, the bacteria will be transmitted to those who come into contact with the body. Wearing gloves can protect the embalmer well.
The blood in the body has long been out of circulation, which has caused the body's skin to lose elasticity and become more fragile. If you touch it with your hands, it is easy to cause damage to the body. So wearing gloves can also protect the body well.
Japan has very high requirements for the embalmer industry. If you want to get started, you not only need to have several years of learning experience, but also have to master professional knowledge thoroughly.
The scene when Wu Jinna first started operating in Japan, she still remembers it vividly.
That time she was bathing an old man. Wu Jinna carefully bathed the old man step by step according to the steps she learned. It was pretty good at first, but when she cleaned her hair, she might have used a little heavy force, and the old man's hair was torn off a pinch.
At this time, Wu Jinna was shocked. This was a major operational mistake and she was uneasy. The instructor was shocked when he saw it, and then he quickly asked Wu Jinna to go down and make up for it himself.
tutor told Wu Jinna: Because the body of a person is very fragile, you must be very energetic when operating, and be careful when operating. Perhaps a little mistake can cause the body to be damaged. For the family members of the deceased, the remains of the relatives are very precious and cannot tolerate any damage.
After this incident, Wu Jinna was more careful in her future operations, afraid that the same thing would happen again.
That night, a girl who was in a car accident was sent to a funeral company, and the instructor handed over the task to Wu Jinna.
According to the girl's family, the child is an excellent kendo player, with good professional grades. On the way home, he was crushed by a sudden big truck and lost his life on the spot.
When the family arrived, they were deeply saddened to see the girl's tragic situation, especially the girl's mother said that she could not accept her daughter's appearance. They hoped that her daughter could restore her original appearance and leave this world with a decent look.
Because it was directly crushed by the car, the girl's face could no longer be seen, and her skull was crushed to pieces.
Wu Jinna immediately realized that this was a difficult task. If she wanted to restore her head, she had to tie the bones, and some places had to be stitched. And these are all major projects that require professional tools.
, and this process will cause a lot of noise, which will affect the progress of the work if the family hears it. Later, after Wu Jinna's repeated thinking, she decided to solve the problem of loud sound by playing music.
The entire team took a full 8 hours to repair the girl's skull and face. After
, an old lady who witnessed the entire car accident came to say goodbye to the girl, and she was shocked. She never expected that the girl whose face had become unrecognizable was now like she was asleep.
When the old lady knew that this was a grooming repair done by the funeral company, she found the funeral company and asked herself to ask Wu Jinna to take care of her funeral in a hundred years. The motivation for working in
is that someone affirmed that for Wu Jinna, her persistence has finally gained something, and she feels that her efforts over the years are valuable.
Even though her family did not understand her, her work was recognized by the customers. She swept away her previous depression and felt that the whole air was fresh.
Back to China to develop
In Japan, she studied for 8 years, and 8 years of time was enough to make her stand alone in her field. So she chose to return to China to start a business. She wanted to bring all these good experiences and technologies to the country to drive the development of the domestic funeral industry.
The domestic technology is still blank, so as long as it can be promoted, there will be a market.
However, after all, Chinese people still have the same inherent thinking about this aspect, so changing people's thoughts is the first step. Then add professional services and the career will be completed. When
started, she asked employees to learn professional knowledge first. She stood on the stage and told the employees over and over again, and the employees were recording them in small notebooks below. When the customer comes to the client, he will go on the job by himself and let the employees observe and learn from the side. Later, when the employees have mastered their professional knowledge, he will lead the employees to practice without physical practice over and over again. If an employee made a mistake, she pointed out the corresponding mistake next to her and made a demonstration in person. After
, he even went on the battlefield himself, asking employees to operate on themselves, and then corrected their operations. We strive to ensure that every employee can do it well, and we must pass the test one by one.
In Wu Jinna's mind, the embalmer must be very careful and cannot tolerate any carelessness. After polishing over and over again, the service of employees has been improving.
Wu Jinna has always believed that as long as is the ultimate service, how can customers still be dissatisfied?
Wu Jinna always moves very gently while bathing the deceased. When cleaning the body's ears, she is always careful, afraid that water will flow into her ears.
When cleaning the body, it does not place the body carelessly on the operating table, but covers the body with a large towel and then cleans it.
In order to better clean the hair of the deceased, she went to get the most suitable shampoo, which not only cleans the hair, but also does not harm the deceased's skin.
She always strives for excellence and grasps some details very carefully. In order to make the deceased's complexion better, she also spent a lot of effort and used various methods, the best one was a facial mask, which could restore the old friend's skin tone during his lifetime.
and then carefully paint a makeup, making the old friend feel like he is asleep. The family was amazed when they saw such relatives.
Of course, not all families can understand the embalmer industry well.
That morning, a man in protective clothing walked into the company. Wu Jinna was really shocked when she saw him like this.It turned out that this was the family of the deceased. When he came to visit the company, he saw the neat and clean company. The man breathed a sigh of relief.
Wu Jinna also didn't care about it at all.
She believes that the industry of embalmers is what this era needs. No matter what kind of work the deceased had during his lifetime, or what status he had, he should bid farewell to the world decently after a hundred years.
If the family of the deceased wants to do their best to be filial, they can also wash their relatives' faces and change their clothes, and use this method to send their relatives to their last journey.
Wu Jinna's love for her career is very admirable. She has always hoped to pass on such knowledge so that more deceased can enjoy such services. This is what she insists on and what she has been doing.
Postscript
We come to this world with the eager expectations of our family. Our parents clean up our bodies for us. When our parents die, we will tidy up our appearance for our parents as children. isn’t this the inheritance of human life.
No matter what kind of work you are doing, as long as you love it and do it carefully, it is valuable. The existence of any profession has its own reasons for existence, which means that society needs this job, so it makes sense.
Don’t care too much about other people’s opinions, just be yourself. profession itself has no distinction between high and low, and people with this level have always been the hearts of the people.
is my own way. The scenery ahead is so beautiful, and my fellow friends will appreciate it with you.
During the holidays, relatives and friends always have to meet each other. Some relatives always have disagreements in their eyes when they see Wu Jinna. Sometimes a few people are talking and are excited. As soon as Wu Jinna passes, her face will change immediately.
The gifts I gave to my relatives can always find their figures in the trash can, making Wu Jinna not know what to do when she goes there again.
It is impossible for Wu Jinna to feel uncomfortable. In order to get along better, Wu Jinna hardly attends family gatherings. I don’t attend the weddings of relatives and friends around me, so as not to make others uncomfortable.
She knew very well that such prejudice could not be eliminated in a short period of time. As time goes by, everyone will slowly accept that they have this confidence.
Go abroad to further your studies
Those who work hard will always be favored by God. In the year of graduation, a Japanese funeral company that has business contact with the school wants to recruit Chinese morticians.
Wu Jinna immediately applied to the school after she found out, hoping to go to Japan to study and learn more professional knowledge.
Because Japan's funeral industry has developed relatively maturely and has a relatively comprehensive technology. There are two types of employment directions for embalmers in Japan. One is makeup that makes the deceased pass away more peacefully, and the other is bathing for old friends to clean up their bodies.
It is through these technologies that the deceased say goodbye to relatives and friends more decently, and also make relatives and friends more at ease.
, and Wu Jinna chose to bathe the deceased. This is a job that requires great patience. It is very cumbersome and requires the embalmer to be careful and cannot violate industry regulations.
For example: The embalmer must wear gloves when working before he can contact the body, including the deceased's relatives, also wear gloves during the touch.
The deceased often have bacteria left on the surface of the body. If you contact directly with your hands, the bacteria will be transmitted to those who come into contact with the body. Wearing gloves can protect the embalmer well.
The blood in the body has long been out of circulation, which has caused the body's skin to lose elasticity and become more fragile. If you touch it with your hands, it is easy to cause damage to the body. So wearing gloves can also protect the body well.
Japan has very high requirements for the embalmer industry. If you want to get started, you not only need to have several years of learning experience, but also have to master professional knowledge thoroughly.
The scene when Wu Jinna first started operating in Japan, she still remembers it vividly.
That time she was bathing an old man. Wu Jinna carefully bathed the old man step by step according to the steps she learned. It was pretty good at first, but when she cleaned her hair, she might have used a little heavy force, and the old man's hair was torn off a pinch.
At this time, Wu Jinna was shocked. This was a major operational mistake and she was uneasy. The instructor was shocked when he saw it, and then he quickly asked Wu Jinna to go down and make up for it himself.
tutor told Wu Jinna: Because the body of a person is very fragile, you must be very energetic when operating, and be careful when operating. Perhaps a little mistake can cause the body to be damaged. For the family members of the deceased, the remains of the relatives are very precious and cannot tolerate any damage.
After this incident, Wu Jinna was more careful in her future operations, afraid that the same thing would happen again.
That night, a girl who was in a car accident was sent to a funeral company, and the instructor handed over the task to Wu Jinna.
According to the girl's family, the child is an excellent kendo player, with good professional grades. On the way home, he was crushed by a sudden big truck and lost his life on the spot.
When the family arrived, they were deeply saddened to see the girl's tragic situation, especially the girl's mother said that she could not accept her daughter's appearance. They hoped that her daughter could restore her original appearance and leave this world with a decent look.
Because it was directly crushed by the car, the girl's face could no longer be seen, and her skull was crushed to pieces.
Wu Jinna immediately realized that this was a difficult task. If she wanted to restore her head, she had to tie the bones, and some places had to be stitched. And these are all major projects that require professional tools.
, and this process will cause a lot of noise, which will affect the progress of the work if the family hears it. Later, after Wu Jinna's repeated thinking, she decided to solve the problem of loud sound by playing music.
The entire team took a full 8 hours to repair the girl's skull and face. After
, an old lady who witnessed the entire car accident came to say goodbye to the girl, and she was shocked. She never expected that the girl whose face had become unrecognizable was now like she was asleep.
When the old lady knew that this was a grooming repair done by the funeral company, she found the funeral company and asked herself to ask Wu Jinna to take care of her funeral in a hundred years. The motivation for working in
is that someone affirmed that for Wu Jinna, her persistence has finally gained something, and she feels that her efforts over the years are valuable.
Even though her family did not understand her, her work was recognized by the customers. She swept away her previous depression and felt that the whole air was fresh.
Back to China to develop
In Japan, she studied for 8 years, and 8 years of time was enough to make her stand alone in her field. So she chose to return to China to start a business. She wanted to bring all these good experiences and technologies to the country to drive the development of the domestic funeral industry.
The domestic technology is still blank, so as long as it can be promoted, there will be a market.
However, after all, Chinese people still have the same inherent thinking about this aspect, so changing people's thoughts is the first step. Then add professional services and the career will be completed. When
started, she asked employees to learn professional knowledge first. She stood on the stage and told the employees over and over again, and the employees were recording them in small notebooks below. When the customer comes to the client, he will go on the job by himself and let the employees observe and learn from the side. Later, when the employees have mastered their professional knowledge, he will lead the employees to practice without physical practice over and over again. If an employee made a mistake, she pointed out the corresponding mistake next to her and made a demonstration in person. After
, he even went on the battlefield himself, asking employees to operate on themselves, and then corrected their operations. We strive to ensure that every employee can do it well, and we must pass the test one by one.
In Wu Jinna's mind, the embalmer must be very careful and cannot tolerate any carelessness. After polishing over and over again, the service of employees has been improving.
Wu Jinna has always believed that as long as is the ultimate service, how can customers still be dissatisfied?
Wu Jinna always moves very gently while bathing the deceased. When cleaning the body's ears, she is always careful, afraid that water will flow into her ears.
When cleaning the body, it does not place the body carelessly on the operating table, but covers the body with a large towel and then cleans it.
In order to better clean the hair of the deceased, she went to get the most suitable shampoo, which not only cleans the hair, but also does not harm the deceased's skin.
She always strives for excellence and grasps some details very carefully. In order to make the deceased's complexion better, she also spent a lot of effort and used various methods, the best one was a facial mask, which could restore the old friend's skin tone during his lifetime.
and then carefully paint a makeup, making the old friend feel like he is asleep. The family was amazed when they saw such relatives.
Of course, not all families can understand the embalmer industry well.
That morning, a man in protective clothing walked into the company. Wu Jinna was really shocked when she saw him like this.It turned out that this was the family of the deceased. When he came to visit the company, he saw the neat and clean company. The man breathed a sigh of relief.
Wu Jinna also didn't care about it at all.
She believes that the industry of embalmers is what this era needs. No matter what kind of work the deceased had during his lifetime, or what status he had, he should bid farewell to the world decently after a hundred years.
If the family of the deceased wants to do their best to be filial, they can also wash their relatives' faces and change their clothes, and use this method to send their relatives to their last journey.
Wu Jinna's love for her career is very admirable. She has always hoped to pass on such knowledge so that more deceased can enjoy such services. This is what she insists on and what she has been doing.
Postscript
We come to this world with the eager expectations of our family. Our parents clean up our bodies for us. When our parents die, we will tidy up our appearance for our parents as children. isn’t this the inheritance of human life.
No matter what kind of work you are doing, as long as you love it and do it carefully, it is valuable. The existence of any profession has its own reasons for existence, which means that society needs this job, so it makes sense.
Don’t care too much about other people’s opinions, just be yourself. profession itself has no distinction between high and low, and people with this level have always been the hearts of the people.
is my own way. The scenery ahead is so beautiful, and my fellow friends will appreciate it with you.