Today's college students have evolved into social terror, and it is not groundless. Social terror has long become the norm for many college students. They don’t want to go out, make new friends, and even their parents don’t want to face it. They hurry up and stay alone. Because o

Today's college students have evolved into social terror, and it is not groundless.

Social terror has long become the norm for many college students. They don’t want to go out, make new friends, and even their parents don’t want to face it. They hurry up and stay alone.

Because only in this way can I feel a little safe. Although there will be loneliness, what does it matter? Freedom is far greater than helplessness and pain.

The picture book for "social death" of contemporary college students - a person is inherently dead, not social death is the last stubbornness

Send a message incorrectly at the highest level

The existence of the WeChat group can be said to make us love and hate. If it is convenient, it is really convenient. The speed of message sharing is irreplaceable by other methods, and it can even be said to be a social method that each of us cannot avoid.

But because of our negligence, we always miss certain messages to the WeChat group, and this situation is very frequent, and it can even be said to be a stupid thing that everyone has done. Even if others can ignore it, the person involved really wants to "slice himself" every minute.

, this college student is just experiencing it-he wants to skip class. In fact, there is nothing to make a fuss about this phenomenon, and even the teacher knows it well, but it seems a bit too much to discuss this in the group with great fanfare!

And this student was also recorded by the teacher with a small notebook, and he was worried that he would not be able to find a student who skipped the class! This time, the student's name will be deeply remembered in the teacher's heart. When placing a name or asking questions, you must pay attention to it. Is it really serious to celebrate your birthday like this?

. Many people will not refuse the surprise received on their birthday. Although for us, surprise is synonymous with uncertainty. It is best if it fits our own wishes. If it is frightened, it will be a little embarrassed.

is like a birthday surprise received by this college student, which is really unacceptable. My friends placed such a display sign in public, which was extremely eye-catching. Even those who were not eating in this restaurant could clearly see it through the window.

Although others ended with a smile, it was never that simple in the mind of the parties involved. Perhaps even if someone laughs inadvertently, it will trigger his association. Are you laughing at yourself? Do they think they are a joke?

is nothing, but pay attention to the occasion!

When college students first arrived at the dormitory, it was not uncommon to choose to be alone. After all, everyone’s ideas and lifestyles are different, so there is still no need to force them to integrate them. Being with their former friends is a safer and more conservative choice.

This college student chose to go to the supermarket with his old friends to buy daily necessities. After seeing the coconut milk, he mischievously imitated the spokesperson's posture. After all, this coconut milk is full of magic, and people can't help but start moving after seeing it.

, but unexpectedly, the other three roommates walked together and witnessed this scene with their own eyes, but fortunately the parties involved did not notice it. This makes people feel embarrassed. Should we tell him to make him feel embarrassed immediately, or to hide him and make him unaware of it in the future?

How should contemporary college students get rid of social terror?

Open your heart and relax your mind

Sometimes it is because we think too much that we become painful and embarrassed, impose our own thoughts on others, and think self-righteously that the other person will think this way or that. But in fact, this is all my wishful thinking.

At this time, it is best to communicate with each other and dispel misunderstandings. If you don’t communicate and let the misunderstanding escalate, the situation will be very embarrassing. Maybe it will also inspire conflicts and bring about unnecessary quarrels and wars!

Make friends appropriately

We live in this society and need to interact and make friends. It is not impossible to fight alone, but it will make ourselves very hard. With the help of friends and partners, the efficiency will be greatly improved and a win-win situation will be achieved.

only needs to spend some effort when making friends and screening partners, but you must never give up because of the choke and feel troublesome. This will only cheat yourself and let yourself fall into pain forever.

Today’s summary:

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