word explanation
1. Regarding hugging
, the word "embrace" is from the article " Nights Suilu ·Liang Sheng", in the article "Honey Wang hugged, and the woman resisted it hard." Since then, the word "embrace" has been created.
"New Interpretation of Words" states that "embrace" means to show love and is mostly used between relatives and friends.
, a famous American psychologist, Dr. Herold Fuss, explained that "hugs" can increase the effectiveness of the body's immune system and inject new energy into the burnout body, which is very helpful in eliminating frustration. If family members can hug frequently in a family, friction between family members can be reduced.
Psychological research shows that hugging and touching are very beneficial to mental health. If a person is often hugged, then the person's psychological quality will be much healthier than those who lack hugs.
A marriage expert pointed out that we Chinese are all more traditional, and traditional habits bring more "shyness". Under normal circumstances, family members will lack hug each other because of shyness. Generally speaking, hugging each other often occurs between lovers.
2. Regarding kissing
The word "kiss" comes from the article "Non-Dream Record" written by Su Manshu . There is a sentence in this article: "Feng Xian is like a stone, and she shows her tenderness and charming appearance. She hugs her cheeks and snuggles her cheeks on her cheeks. After that, she kisses her hard, and then she has a separation from ." Since then, the word "kiss" has been introduced.
"New Interpretation of Words" states that kiss is a Chinese word that refers to contacting each other with lips because of admiration for others.
In some Western countries, kissing is a traditional social etiquette to express greetings. However, this traditional social etiquette is limited to kissing the cheeks or the back of the hands, and the lips cannot be kissed at will. Otherwise, it will anger the other person.
In my country, kissing lips is an expression of love, which often appear between lovers, and non-lovers will not kiss lips.
Third, regarding saliva
saliva is commonly known as saliva. In ancient times, saliva was called " Jinjin Yu Liquid " and could not flow out at will. The ancients believed that saliva can moisten the food in the mouth and mouth, making it easier for people to speak and swallow. In addition, saliva has antibacterial functions and can clean and protect the mouth. If saliva often overflows, it will affect health.
A etiquette expert pointed out that overflowing saliva in will give people a sense of uncleanness and indecentness, and are easily criticized.
So, under what circumstances do people easily overflow saliva?
A physiologist pointed out that when people breathe with their mouths or sleep on their tummy, they can easily overflow saliva . Of course, some diseases can also cause people to overflow saliva.
The physiologist went on to point out that there is another situation where saliva overflows, that is, when a person cannot withstand the temptation of certain food or beauty, it is easy to overflow.
After explaining the noun, we talk about something that happened in Changsha, Hunan on October 4th.
event
Ms. Su opened a clothing store on the streets of Changsha. In recent years, due to the impact of e-commerce and the epidemic, business has been not very good.
On October 4th, it was still during the National Day holiday. Perhaps because of people's holidays, several customers came to the store one after another after opening on the morning of the 4th.
At around 10 am, two female customers came to the store. Because these two female customers were constantly trying on clothes, Ms. Su kept accompanying the two customers.
Suddenly, Ms. Su accidentally discovered that a young man about 30 years old stood at the door of the store first, and then walked into the store after about two or three minutes. Since Ms. Su thought that this young man might be a companion of the female customers in the store, she didn't care about the young man's actions after entering the store.
When Miss Su turned around, Miss Su was stunned.
Ms. Su said, "When I turned around, a very exaggerated scene appeared in front of me. The young man hugged a plastic clothing model of mine tightly, and he hugged and kissed, looking very intoxicated."
Ms. Su continued, "When I saw the young man's actions, the two female customers in the store also saw it. The two female customers smiled and said, 'I guess, there is no girlfriend'. When I heard the two female customers say this, I realized that this young man is not a companion of the two female customers."
Ms. Su continued, "I don't know how long the young man kissed the model, but from the time I saw him kissing the model to let go of his hand, it should be a little bit. It took more than a minute. After the young man let go of the model, he walked out slowly. When I was about to check whether he had damaged the model, I found that there was saliva on the model and on the ground. "
Ms. Su finally said: "When the young man left, the two female customers thought: from the surface, first, the young man did not look like a drunk man; second, the young man's mental condition also looked normal; third, from the clothes, he was not a very sloppy person."
Ms. Su jokingly said: "I hope God will give this young man a girlfriend as soon as possible! Otherwise, what else could he do!"
said above, which is a general process of this incident.
When Ms. Su posted the video she took to the Internet, netizens started a heated discussion.
Netizen voice
Netizen Euphrates: Look at how terrible the result of more men and fewer women! It’s really sad that a plastic model can arouse the young man’s interest!
The footsteps of netizens in spring: perverted. It was so speechless to actually kiss a plastic model.
In short, netizens have a lot of discussions.
Lao Hu’s opinion
Although we cannot argue about what kind of person this young man is. But judging from his performance, this young man is indeed suspected of being perverted.
pervert is a vocabulary in psychology. The so-called "perversion" refers to a psychological distortion that a certain person will deviate from people's cognition and make people feel that the person is psychologically abnormal.
A psychologist pointed out that according to the classification of perverts, perverts can be divided into psychological abnormalities and behavioral abnormalities.
Psychological abnormality refers to the disorder of a person's physiological and biochemical function, which leads to the person's frequent imagination. The manifestations can be either serious or mild, and they may be unable to sleep at night.
Abnormal behavior, also known as deviant behavior, is a common and frequent social phenomenon in social life. This social phenomenon is often manifested as: unwilling to abide by laws and regulations.
Perverted Psychology believes that "perverted" can be divided into three categories: low-energy pervert, high-tempered pervert and genius pervert . But no matter which type of pervert is, it indicates that a pervert is extremely fragile and difficult to integrate into a normal life. Their cognition and feelings will run contrary to normal people.
Based on the psychologists of , Lao Hu believes that the young man in this incident should have had a perverted phenomenon. This phenomenon is actually a pathological phenomenon. You should find a psychologist to correct it as soon as possible. Otherwise, his perverted behavior will become more and more exaggerated and frequent, and will reach an uncontrollable level!
What do you think?
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