Many people say that the greatest sorrow of parents is to become cautious in front of their children when they are old. I actually disagree with this. This phenomenon is indeed very common, but it is not called sorrow, but retribution.
Why? Because this problem will not occur for a family with a harmonious life. Family members understand and respect each other, say things directly, and think of ways if they need help. The elderly from such families cannot be careful about their children. Only those who abuse their children in their early years or who discriminate against their children and exploit their children will feel guilty in their later years.
Don’t do bad things, don’t be afraid of ghosts knocking on the door. In the early years, the debts of bullying and bruting children were always paid. Those parents who were young and who were destroying their children's lives will one day stare at their children's anger and tremble in fear. This is not actually called sorrow, but called retribution.
The impact of a native family on a person is almost a lifetime. Some people are lucky. Their original families have almost no negative impact on them, but many people are not that lucky. They have gained too much negative impact from their native families. The current developed Internet has allowed many people to see through a lot of truth, that is, you have suffered a lot, but in fact it is just because your parents don’t understand and your family is too poor. The truth is hardship, but does not mean success. People who have truly risen to the top actually succeeds even if they don’t have any hardship. The truth is that parents do not understand the pressure you are facing, but try to make you repeat their lives. The truth is that your birth is not because of love, but because of the kidnapping of various traditional cultures. Children must bear heavy filial piety to their parents as soon as they are born.
Many people like to make various excuses for their parents, saying that their generation suffered a lot, but they don’t think that the suffering they suffered by their parents is not caused by the next generation, but they have to bear their negative emotions. This is actually very unfair. When you try to help them solve problems with a rational attitude, they release greater emotions towards you.
In fact, there are actually people who will spend their whole life healing their childhood. If parents let their children grow up in long-term high pressure and fear, then when they get old and become cautious in front of their children, this is not sadness, but cause and effect.
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