One place of water and soil nourishes the other person!
Marriage is a happy event. No matter where you are, it is worth getting married. Children have a new home. This is the expectation of many parents. When getting married, there are different customs. In some places, customs are different. We have rarely seen them before. However, with the development of the Internet, someone can open their eyes with just one record!
Nowadays mobile phones are very convenient. You can record your experiences around you at any time, record your life, record your happy things when you encounter, and record your unhappy things when you see different weddings. This is to share the stories around you. However, wedding events like marriage are a happy event that everyone likes. It is worth recording
1 Ten miles of different styles, hundreds of miles of customs, and the habits of getting married are different in different places. There are always some phenomena that make people unable to understand
This issue will share a story about the wedding with you. Some netizens posted a puzzling video. When a bride got married, she threw money out of the window of the wedding car, and was given by the elderly and The bride was still very happy when the children picked it up. This scene is incomprehensible. If it is a red envelope, it is understandable, but if it is a red envelope, it is not as simple as a red envelope.
Many people say that it seems that the bride is going to go from home to the man's house. This should be to spill money for her family. What is this practice? Is it a bride that requires this? It’s just for the woman’s house, or the bride thinks that there is too much dowry, so she leaves some for the house. Then why don’t you give it to your hands and throw it out the window? What’s going on? I believe everyone is curious about
Many people don’t understand it, so they have to ask the locals. There are always people who understand what this is. According to insiders, this is a local custom. Just throwing money out is actually to keep the blessing in my parents' home. When I go back to my parents' home in the future, I will be considered kind and I will not cut off my relationship. This is a long-standing habit. Many people don't need it. Only a more traditional rural wedding can see this habit.
Finally, I learned about the reason why the bride threw money out of the car window. The insider also explained, Others can’t pick up money at will, they are all relatives. For example, the bride’s parents, brothers and nephews can pick it up, but others can’t. It turns out that there are conditions. This is a blessing for the family. In the future, the married daughter will return to her parents’ home. Her parents’ home will also give her a bowl of rice
Doing this means returning to her family’s family to their backs and leaving a little affection. This means not It is really meaningful to be able to break off family affection. Such customs are actually quite good. People do not forget their roots and family affection. Although such wedding customs are local customs, they are also worthy of praise.
Now people are married and have been too Westernized to forget many traditions. Sometimes these traditions happen to be an operation to maintain family affection, which contains the inheritance of filial piety and the reason for blood connection. Sometimes they really It is necessary to stick to those traditional good things, rather than imitating other people's things
Author's point of view:
Blood is thicker than water, and family affection cannot be ignored or forgotten. On the wedding day, remind people to go home often, this is the warmth of the family!
Someone sighed that although raising a daughter is very happy, after the daughter gets married, she becomes a relative. She was originally a family, but finally lived separately. It really makes people wonder. From a relative to a relative, she feels a little uncomfortable. I believe many people have this feeling, especially many only daughters. After the daughter gets married, their parents cries very sadly, but they feel that they can’t live without their daughter. But since they get married, they have to leave home, and it’s not okay to raise them at home!
Every place has different customs. Respecting and inheriting reasonable traditional customs is the responsibility and obligation of young people. Do you have any more peculiar customs in your area?
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-