Today I saw a news that surprised me quite.
A little well-known internet celebrity Nan Yi posted a video saying that he decided to take a break from school to have a child, but in fact, having an internet celebrity is not a big deal.
But I vaguely remember the last time I saw her news that she was admitted to graduate student of the Chinese Academy of Social Sciences. When she registered at school, she took her parents to Beijing with her.
The incident has caused a lot of media reports online and has also become a hot search, "This is the meaning of reading."
Nan Yi has become a role model for many people and has gained a lot of fans on various platforms.
But surprisingly, shortly after the start of school, she suddenly announced on the Internet that she was married and planned to take a leave of school for one year to have a child. According to some news online, Nan Yi's husband's identity gradually surfaced. He is not a handsome guy in the traditional sense. He has only a junior high school degree and is a barber for a profession.
This made many netizens say that they didn’t understand. She obviously had such excellent conditions, so why did she choose such a partner?
Nan Yi said that he chose to get married because he was reluctant to give his husband to others, so after communicating with his parents and teachers, he chose to take a year off to get married and have children. After the
video was exposed online, the comments below were almost completely incomprehensible, and most netizens even felt very sad. She had obviously tried hard to get out of the countryside and had made great progress in her studies, but she didn't expect that she would go back after going around in circles.
Actually, I don’t want to have too many comments on this matter. After all, everyone has the right to choose their own life, and I can only give girls some suggestions from my personal perspective.
1. No one will love you unconditionally, it is important to improve yourself
Love, to put it bluntly, it is mutual attraction.
There is no love in the world for no reason. The reason why two people come together must have a shining point that attracts you, which creates love.
If you have not met the person you want now, it means you still have many opportunities to improve.
What kind of person you are will meet.
Excellent men will not love you for no reason. If you want to meet a good person, you must constantly improve yourself.
We all need to remember one sentence: If you bloom, the breeze will come.
2. maintain your ability to make money and not rely on others
I believe that everyone will understand the principle of "poor couples are sad" without saying it.
But how to have an income after marriage and give birth to a child is a question that every girl needs to think about.
Today, when the Internet is so developed, as long as you pay a little attention and use a little more thought to learn skills, such as writing, doing PPT, learning ps, etc., they are all side jobs that can make money. Even if you don’t make much, they will become a kind of ability to make money.
It is really difficult for people to live a good life by relying on others. If you want to live a relaxed and comfortable life, you can only rely on yourself.
When I was a child, my parents could certainly give us a lot of help, but they will grow old and you will even become their support in the future.
Marrying a good man may make your own life easier, but we cannot guarantee that this man will love you forever.
After all, the only thing that can really make women rely on for a lifetime is themselves.
has the ability to make money, be financially independent and independent of thought, so that you can always have the ability to live a good life alone.
Only in this way can you have a way out, and happiness and destiny are always in your own hands.
3. Take care of your body, nothing is more important than health
Health is always the first priority.
When I first graduated a few years ago, I always felt that I was still young, so I worked overtime until very late every day and didn’t eat on time.
After a long time, stomach disease and cervical spondylosis have all come out. Sometimes, you may even feel dizzy if you don’t eat breakfast, causing hypoglycemia and causing hypoglycemia.
When I realized my body changes, I realized that my health was no longer as good as before.
When you are healthy, you stay up all night all day and eat and drink with your friends. You never consider whether your body can carry such strength.
Only when the disease really hits will I wake up and regret it.
Nothing is more important than health in life.
No work is worth our life, and taking care of our health is the top priority in our lives.
Life is diverse for everyone, and the choices are also diverse.
We can choose many different lives. Some people choose to leave students, some people choose to give up on themselves for love, and some people firmly walk their own path.
All of this is just a personal choice after all. What we can do is see the other side of the incident from others, and then walk our own path, live our own life well, and strive for love and freedom.
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