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"You can eat one meal a day, love must do four times a day."
such a large-scale chat record is not fabricated out of thin air, but the daily life of Professor Wuhan University Zhou Xuanyi . He is the one who supports feminist rights on the Internet and has golden sentences, and he is the one who has a chaotic private life and maintains sexual relations with multiple women at the same time.
revealed that Zhou Xuanyi lives in a netizen named "Ms. Zhitan". She said that she met Zhou Xuanyi online, met in February, met in Guangzhou in May, and the two confirmed their relationship in early June.
whistleblower described in detail the process of the two together. When she first met, she admired Zhou Xuanyi a little and felt that this man would think about problems from the perspective of a girl. The two often talked all night long and were still evasive at 3 am. Rest.
Sometimes Zhou Xuanyi would post what she said online, and would change her dynamics because of her words, or directly borrow what she said. These small details made her feel special and moved herself.
The two chatted like this for two months. The whistleblower found that Zhou Xuanyi already had a girlfriend. She thought Zhou Xuanyi was cheating on mentally, so she wanted to ask Zhou Xuanyi for an explanation.
result Zhou Xuanyi said that a girl gave up communication because he had a partner, which made him feel that his spirit was insulted. Why can't he be spiritual confidants with other girls after he had a partner?
With Zhou Xuanyi's clever mouth, the woman gradually convinced the woman that the woman no longer minded the fact that Zhou Xuanyi had a girlfriend. In May, she also went to see Zhou Xuanyi, and the two kissed in the car for the first time they met offline. The woman was originally very moved, but later she discovered the truth. Zhou Xuanyi went downstairs to have a private meeting with her with her real girlfriend, and she became the one who "knows three to three".
After this, the whistleblower embarked on a path that was destined to have no good ending. She knew that Zhou Xuanyi had a girlfriend, but she was still confused by the "love" he said. The two have talked about a lot of content with a larger scale, comparable to Xiao Huang's article.
When talking about his real girlfriend, Zhou Xuanyi said that he had been dating his girlfriend for three years. The woman was still a graduate student, 19 years younger than him, and lived with him for three years.
At the same time, Zhou Xuanyi also maintained sexual relations with several women at the same time, and he was not responsible for his genuine girlfriend, and he also coaxed and concealed other women into an "open relationship".
It was not until the two of them were accidentally photographed by netizens on a private date that Zhou Xuanyi began to panic and was cold and violent towards the woman. The whistleblower finally woke up and realized that Zhou Xuanyi was lying to her in the name of love.
whistleblower decided to expose the truth about Zhou Xuanyi's private life and maintaining relationships with several women. She said that she did not want people to sympathize with, but to make girls recognize Zhou Xuanyi and not have fantasies about "feminist men".
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After the news broke, Zhou Xuanyi's affairs caused quite a stir on the Internet. Even Wuhan University gave it to Zhou Xuanyi was given a serious warning within the party; he was given an administrative demerit; he stopped his course teaching and his postgraduate enrollment qualification.
As the whistleblower himself said, in the whole thing, except for the real girlfriend who was kept in the dark, the rest of the people were considered all evil people. Zhou Xuanyi's private life is chaotic, and the whistleblower is indeed "knowing three should three", and it is a feather.
Speaking of Zhou Xuanyi, everyone is sure to be familiar with it. He graduated from Wuhan University and is the head coach of the debate team of Wuhan University, a well-known debater of " Strange Talk ", and an associate professor at the School of Philosophy.
As early as during "The Debater", he also fell in love with Ma Weiwei . The relationship between the two was once a hot topic because it involved some entanglements with Zhou Xuanyi's ex-wife.
still remember Zhou Xuanyi's ex-wife once posted a message saying that she suffered in all kinds of injustice in her marriage, and it was revealed between the lines that it was Ma Weiwei who caused her to divorce Zhou Xuanyi.
. Faced with the accusations of ex-wife and netizens who are not interested in the big deal, Zhou Xuanyi just said very disdainfully to his ex-wife: "so? My ex-wife is a bad person."
Under the guise of freedom, he tried to make the women around him accept "open relationships", but in fact he still concealed something from women. His true appearance is more lewd and unconventional than what he explained.
Looking back at Zhou Xuanyi’s routine over the years, it is actually very simple: first talk about feminism on Weibo, making women feel respected and look at him differently.
After the female fans took the initiative to come to the door, they persuaded them to develop an "open relationship" so that every girl thinks that she is the only special one. However, there are so many "fish" in Zhou Xuanyi's fish pond. ”.
To put it bluntly, those girls who were moved by Zhou Xuanyi are the most likely to see his " empathy and respect for women.
But in fact, what these women want is understanding and love, while Zhou Xuanyi only wants is sexual relations.
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Social survey shows that the cheating rate of men in China is nearly 35%, and the cheating rate of women is also rising year by year, and there are always people who are making more and more progress After the threshold of marriage, the scenery outside the door was eager to try.
often says that the "marriage system" goes against nature, because humans are born with "popular animals", and no one can withstand temptation. Then can you choose "open relationships" liberate your nature and maintain relationships?
Most people’s understanding of “open relationships” means that the couple reaches an agreement, plays their own things, and does not interfere with each other. A typical mentality is like Tao Hong . When asked about marriage loyalty, she felt that "physical things are not called trouble."
"The Deadly Women", if a couple keeps " Open relationships”. The husband is looking for flowers and willows outside, and the wife also has her own lover. The two will share their experiences and cannot hide them from each other. In this open relationship, both husband and wife know the truth, and their lovers also know the fact that they are married. Recognizing this relationship, it can be said that this is a choice that all of them can bear the consequences.
Therefore, open relationships are theoretically something that you and I want to do. Both parties should be honest and equal, and they should not affect the relationship between husband and wife because of the behavior of open relationships.
But in real life, how many people do disgusting and dirty things under the guise of open relationships.
For example, Zhou Xuanyi uses his public influence to treat female fans as potential sexual resources. He is essentially a scumbag who walks on multiple boats, deceiving and concealing his girlfriend and multiple female fans, enjoying them Desire and emotional satisfaction then brings them a humiliating situation.
For him, he is the only one who is truly free in the "open relationship", and the other women who were hidden by him are not completely aware of his true face, and they have been more or less deceived and harm.
This pseudo-open marriage relationship is more like a high-level scam, allowing you to passively accept it. In fact, the other party is just making excuses for desire and chasing your needs freely Just ask for it.
So, if you can't feel any joy or comfort in a relationship, and just feel tired and anxious, then you need to be vigilant. This relationship may be a "trap".
agree with the point of view, remember to click "looking" .
Beware, thinking that you are in love with a new type of relationship, but in fact you are involved in a toxic and harmful emotion!
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