If you are a shameless, short stature man who has not been in a relationship for 37 years,
suddenly one day a tall girl who looks good and tall tells you: "I think of us as soon as I see you Should get married, I will have children for you, you are the father of my children."
What will happen to you?
A sensible man will most likely think that something is wrong, there must be a demon, but the 37-year-old programmer Su Xiangmao , I believe this is love at first sight.
As a result, in the early morning of September 7, 2017 , he jumped off the roof of his 15th-floor .
What happened? Let us look back together four years ago, the shocking incident that made three observations.
"Love at first sight" between rural IT man and urban Bai Fumei
Su Xiangmao, from Fujian, founder of wephone .
Su Xiangmao was born in a rural area. His parents are farmers. Apart from him, there are three older brothers and one older sister.
Su Xiangmao has shown a talent for reading since he was a child. Although his family is very poor, his brothers and sisters dropped out of school to work early in order to train him.
With the support of relatives,Su Xiangmao, a poor boy, finally had the opportunity to go to university.
After entering the university, Su Xiangmao studied a popular IT major.
At school, he is recognized as a "genius". As an IT student, although Su Xiangmao has no money to buy a computer, it does not affect his excellent homework.
After graduation, Su Xiangmao was sent to Beijing University of Posts and Telecommunications to study for a master's degree.
After three years of master's degree, Su Xiangmao's professional ability has improved by leaps and bounds. After spending countless days and nights, he finally developed a call software called "wephone".
After the software was introduced to the market, it quickly gained support from a large number of overseas users because of cheap calls.
When the number of users reached tens of millions, Su Xiangmao knew that he had succeeded.
It took Su Xiangmao about 10 years to go from being a poor person to a tens of millions of "entrepreneurs".
At the same time, his lifelong event was also delayed.
Parents far away in Fujian are conservative in thinking. Seeing their young son's career success, they began to urge him to find someone to marry him.
Su Xiangmao's narrow social circle for many years, coupled with his stupidity and poor talk, has not attracted the attention of girls at all.
In desperation,He thought of a quickest way-blind date.
At that time, Jiayuan.com was very popular. Su Xiangmao, who had money, paid a fee and became a VIP member.
His request is simple, to find a girlfriend who is rushing to get married.
Soon, according to his request, the website matched him with a girl named Zhai Xinxin .
After two people chatted briefly on the Internet a few times, Zhai Xinxin offered to meet.
Su Xiangmao couldn't forget the scene when he saw Zhai Xinxin for the first time until he died:
170cm tall, fair skin, wearing sportswear, no powder, smiles gentle and gentle.
Su Xiangmao thumped and thumped. After sitting down, Zhai Xinxin briefly introduced her situation.
She is a master of Beijing Jiaotong University , her father is a university professor, and her mother is engaged in financial work at the university.
The conditions of the blind date were so good that Su Xiangmao was discouraged.
Looking at his small 160m, and thinking about his parents and siblings in the countryside, Su Xiangmao felt that other girls would definitely not like him.
Unexpectedly, Zhai Xinxin sent him a photo of the villa and the property certificate the next day.
Zhai Xinxin Villa
Zhai Xinxin told Su Xiangmao that the villa was her residence in Beijing, and her mother would come to accompany her usually.
Out of the vanity of a man, Su Xiangmao quickly issued Zhai Xinxin his financial account and real estate certificate.
Su Xiangmao didn't know, it was this move that made him start walking into the abyss step by step.
After discovering Su Xiangmao's economic strength, Zhai Xinxin was extremely enthusiastic.
She grasped Su Xiangmao's desire to get married and told him: "As soon as I see you, I think we should get married. I will give birth to you. You are the father of my child."
Su Xiangmao, who has no love experience, was hit by this sudden happiness.
Career, wife, everything is so natural.
In this way, the two people quickly established a romantic relationship. Zhai Xinxin chatted with him from morning to night, as if she was immersed in love.
On the eve of the flash marriage, he spent a lot of money for the “white rich and beautiful”
I don’t know what magic Zhai Xinxin did on Su Xiangmao. After confirming the relationship for more than ten days, he spent one million yuan for Zhai Xinxin. Tesla Motors.
Zhai Xinxin was happy to take a photo of herself with the car,Sent to Weibo .
Then, Su Xiangmao proposed to take Zhai Xinxin back to his hometown to see his parents, Zhai Xinxin agreed.
When she arrived in the countryside, Zhai Xinxin didn't have the air of "white and rich" in the city. She chatted with Su Xiangmao's parents, walked with her future mother-in-law, and rushed to work in the kitchen.
Su's family went up and down, praising Zhai Xinxin, urging the two to get married.
Taking advantage of this enthusiasm, Zhai Xinxin proposed to travel to Hainan.
After arriving in Hainan, Su Xiangmao spent 3.2 million to buy a house in Hainan with Zhai Xinxin's persuasion, and wrote Zhai Xinxin's name on the real estate certificate.
Subsequently, he bought 240,000 Cartier diamond rings, LV bag and other luxury goods for Zhai Xinxin.
After returning to Beijing, Su Xiangmao plans to get married with Zhai Xinxin.
But Zhai Xinxin told him that she had a history of marriage before. The other party was Li Tiejun (a pseudonym), and the two were to buy a house for fake marriage.
Hearing these words, Su Xiangmao was dumbfounded. When we first met, Zhai Xinxin clearly said that she had only had a relationship in college. Why did she suddenly have an ex-husband?
Su Xiangmao was very upset. He asked not to receive the certificate for the time being. He needs to calm down.
unexpectedly, Zhai Xinxin, who was wrong, got angry first.She quickly packed up the personal belongings in Su Xiangmao's house and turned away.
If at this time, Su Xiangmao can stop the loss in time and do not marry Zhai Xinxin, then he will also lose money.
But perhaps because of the " sunk cost " mentality, Su Xiangmao started to panic when he realized that he was about to lose Zhai Xinxin.
So, he took the initiative to find Zhai Xinxin, and once again proposed to obtain a marriage license, provided that he wanted to read the divorce mediation document of Zhai Xinxin's last marriage.
Zhai Xinxin said arrogantly: If you want to see it, transfer me 880,000.
Su Xiangmao did not know why, but actually transferred the money.
After reading the divorce mediation letter, Su Xiangmao discovered that his ex-husband was named Liu Lei (pseudonym), and he asked again.
Zhai Xinxin refused to answer, and injured Su Xiangmao's eye, and asked Su Xiangmao for a mental loss of 458,000.
On June 7, 2017, Su Xiangmao, who has invested 6 million in Zhai Xinxin, even though he has noticed that his girlfriend is not easy, he still got a marriage certificate with her.
After marriage, the truth is revealed, and the request is endless
After marriage, Su Xiangmao intends to live without prejudice, but he does not know that Zhai Xinxin planned a divorce long ago.
In order to achieve his goal, Zhai Xinxin found faults for three days. A female friend sent a message to Su Xiangmao to wish him a happy wedding.Zhai Xinxin discovered that the two people had an affair;
Su Xiangmao told Zhai Xinxin that he was a hepatitis B carrier before marriage. After marriage, Zhai Xinxin took this matter and said that Su Xiangmao was not suitable for marriage.
Su Xiangmao finally married Zhai Xinxin. Faced with her unreasonable troubles, Su Xiangmao used money to appease Zhai Xinxin again and again.
There was no way to regenerate. Zhai Xinxin finally refused to live with Su Xiangmao. The reason was that Su Xiangmao's house in Beijing was too small and the floors were too high for her to live in.
Zhai Xinxin proposed that if Su Xiangmao does not sell the house for a villa, the two will divorce.
Su Xiangmao was forced to helplessly, feeling that he would never be able to satisfy this greedy woman, so he finally agreed to a divorce.
The divorce is Zhai Xinxin's last chance to make money from Su Xiangmao.
Her lion opened her mouth and asked Su Xiangmao to give her 10 million and the property in Sanya.
If she doesn't give it, she will report that Su Xiangmao's company has gray income, and her uncle is an official and can handle him in minutes.
In order to achieve his goal, Zhai Xinxin hired someone to call Su Xiangmao to threaten Su Xiangmao, and even beat him with his mother.
The timid Su Xiangmao compromised again. He signed an agreement with Zhai Xinxin and agreed to transfer 6.6 million to her first.
July 18, 2017The two officially divorced and the marriage lasted only 41 days.
After the divorce, Zhai Xinxin chased Su Xiangmao for the remaining money. Su Xiangmao's company was unable to get so much money due to financial difficulties.
He comforted Zhai Xinxin that he would give her the rest of the money and let her rest assured.
But Zhai Xinxin was already anxious. On September 7, she sent a number of vulgar language to Su Xiangmao, threatening to expose Su Xiangmao's illegal business and put him in jail if she could not get the money.
Under the pressure, Su Xiangmao was so desperate that he walked to the balcony step by step and chose to bid farewell to this world.
Before leaving, Su Xiangmao wrote a long article to expose the true face of Zhai Xinxin.
After the article was fermented, the "poisonous woman" Zhai Xinxin was attacked on the whole network, but she was like the world evaporated and never appeared again.
When reporters found Zhai Xinxin’s former neighbors, classmates, university boyfriends, and even men who had married her, everyone gave different opinions.
In everyone's eyes, Zhai Xinxin is excellent in both academic and academic performance. Although she is beautiful, she is very low-key and often comes and goes alone.
During college, Zhai Xinxin was also named the "academic flower" of the Department of Civil Engineering.
Although there are many suitors, Zhai Xinxin did not confirm a relationship with a boy until her senior year.
It is said thatThe boy got the goddess's heart by fetching water and food for her every day.
During the relationship, Zhai Xinxin never asked her boyfriend to buy luxury gifts for herself.
After graduating, Zhai Xinxin was admitted to Beijing Jiaotong University for a master's degree in structure, while her boyfriend returned to his hometown in Northeast China, and the two separated.
After learning what Zhai Xinxin did, this ex-boyfriend has been unwilling to believe that, in his eyes, the girl he once loved could not do such a frenzied thing.
After graduate school, Zhai Xinxin still has no lack of suitors, but she is still a "cold goddess" just like she did in college, and she doesn't have much contact with people around her.
In 2011, Zhai Xinxin, who was in graduate school, chose to marry Liu Lei (a pseudonym) mentioned above.
Liu Lei is also a graduate student, but they did not make a statement after obtaining the certificate. No classmates around knew about the marriage of the two.
This marriage only lasted for more than 2 months before it was declared over. Liu Lei gave Zhai Xinxin 200,000 yuan in compensation.
After Zhai Xinxin's incident was exposed, a reporter approached Liu Lei, but he refused to be interviewed.
Liu Lei told reporters through acquaintances that Zhai Xinxin was a normal person during his relationship and marriage. As for why she was given 200,000 yuan, I don't want to talk about things in the past.
Some people guess,Perhaps from that 200,000 yuan, Zhai Xinxin had the idea of making money by defrauding marriage.
After graduating from postgraduate, Zhai Xinxin worked for the Fifth Inspection Institute of Construction Engineering Quality Inspection in Beijing for a period of time, but she quickly resigned.
In the following years, Zhai Xinxin never found a formal job, but occasionally took on some work as a hostess.
Although there is no income, Zhai Xinxin has obtained a Beijing hukou in the past few years and has a villa worth ten million.
I have to say that her method is really amazing!
In 2014, Zhai Xinxin began to appear in the VIP area of Jiayuan . Here, we don’t know how many men Zhai Xinxin met,
, but in the text written by Su Xiangmao, he revealed Zhai Xinxin once went to Shenzhen during her relationship. During that time, she didn't respond to WeChat calls very much.
Zhai Xinxin explained that she went to help her friend take care of a business, and then she had a car accident, which led to poor contact. .
The editor guessed that maybe during that time, Zhai Xinxin was in contact with several people at the same time, and then chose one of the biggest "fish". Unfortunately, Su Xiangmao, who was simply rich in money, was selected.
After Su Xiangmao left, the Su family had been in a lawsuit with Zhai Xinxin in order to get justice and his brother's property.
However, due to gifts in love and marriage, it is difficult to determine whether it is a fraud. The lawsuit lasted for three years and still had no results.
On September 7, 2021, Su Xiangmao’s older brother Su Xianglong issued a message: "Brother, today is your anniversary. It’s your fourth anniversary! We have not stopped for a moment!"
_sp3p _p span Four years later, the Su family still did not seek justice, and "Poison Woman" Zhai Xinxin still lived a free life.
But the editor believes that there is reincarnation in the way of heaven, and everything has a cause and effect. It is not unreported. The time has not come!
Zhai Xinxin will be punished by law sooner or later.
Even if she can get away with it, she can only hide in Tibet in this life and be alone for a lifetime.
Postscript:
famous sociologist Fei Xiaotong The old gentleman mentioned in the book " Rural China" that the responsibility of raising children is that men and women share the responsibility of raising children. Marriage."
This sentence reveals the essence of marriage-in fact, it is for the reasonable reproduction of offspring.
Zhai Xinxin understands human nature, so after meeting the older unmarried Su Xiangmao, she told him that she wanted to give him a baby.
This sentence hit Su Xiangmao's death hole.
Why Su Xiangmao has been fooled again and again is because Zhai Xinxin's various conditions make him the best candidate to be a wife and mother.
But he forgot to say, "Stay with others, and ultimately rely on the lowest point of character."
The lowest point of character is bad and shameless, so in the future there are many things that have no bottom line, the other party can do it. Come out.
Associating with people begins with the value of appearance, loyal to character, and character is as heavy as a mountain,Conscience is more expensive than gold.
This sentence is also applicable to marriage, and encourage each other!
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