On Xu Min's "abandonment" of Yao Ce

Since the February 8th incident, there have always been some voices that reversed black and white maliciously accusing Xu Min of abandoning Yao Ce, saying that she had prevented Yao Ce from receiving the care she deserves at the last moment of her life, in order to bring a biased rhythm and provoke some ignorance. Loved netizens also joined the team to attack Xu Min.


But are the facts as they say?


“Abandon” means to throw away, don’t, throw away. In Du Fan’s mouth, Xu Min abandoned Yao Ce and threw him away as tattered, but in fact, how did Xu Min “abandon” Yao What about the policy?


1 Feelings

From the emotional point of view, after knowing that Yao Ce was not his biological person, Xu Yao and his wife did not lose their hands. Instead, the most anxious thing is to find Yao Ce's biological parents as soon as possible to save his life.


When Dad Yao went to see Yao Wei, his brows were still frowned. He said that the anxiety of finding parents for Yao Ce is better than the joy of seeing his own son.


After finding his biological parents for Yao Ce, his biological parents did not take care of him in time. During this time, Xu Yao and his wife were still taking care of him. Until Yao Ce invited his biological parents to travel, Xu Yao The couple is still cooking for them in the rental house.


During the treatment of Beihai, due to the epidemic restrictions, visits to the patients required relative authorization. Xu Yao and his wife waited for several hours in the cold wind and did not get permission to see Yao Ce , And finally through the personal relationship of Uncle Beihai,Xu Min and his wife were able to meet Yao Ce in a hurry.


If they really "abandon" Yao Ce, do they still need to suffer like this? Are they inferior to others and have to behave like this?


2 house

Du Fen’s biggest attack on Xu Min was the house. They said that Xu Min’s wanting to return to Yao Ce’s house was the biggest abandonment to him, the most ruthless despair, a set The house cut off the relationship between mother and child for twenty-eight years.


I think if Xu Min has one more suite, she might give it to Yao Ce, but in fact, she has this suite, which she already is I bought it all with my family.


If the house is not returned, most of their monthly salary will need to be used to repay the debt they borrowed for Yao Ce's treatment, and it will be difficult to buy another house.


There are more than 50 people. Is there really no tiles for the rest of my life, so I can only live in a rented house? Work hard for a lifetime, but still wrong yourself for the beauty of others? Where does the reason come from?


I believe Xu Min must have mentioned the topic of returning the house, but it is certainly not as hard to force Yao Ce as Du Fan said. Since the beginning of knowing that Yao Ce is not his birth, Xu Min has a big I took the time to deal with the house, but why didn’t I get it back in time?


because she also believes that Yao Ce will return the house by herself.We can confirm from the video of Yao Ce talking about returning the house. It was because of too much confidence that Xu Min did not withdraw the gift in time.


Because I still love you, because I believe in you, I always have room for you.


But then again, Yao Ce also asked Lao Du to live a house, but Lao Du did not agree. At that time, Yao Ce was also ill. Why didn't Du Fan say that Lao Du had no love? You can't be such a double standard!


3 Money on

After appointing his relatives, Comrade Du said that his family’s situation is very bad, and he begged everyone for a video to help Yao. can prove.


Actually, after their biological parents took over, Xu Yao and his wife could leave it alone, but they did not do so. They kept Yao Ce in charge, bought him the best medicine, and planned to take him to Japan. treatment.


From the appointment to October of that year, Xu Min and his wife also transferred hundreds of thousands to Yao Ce. This can be confirmed from the bill published by Xu Min's brother.


Even the unit's donation to Xu Min to improve his life was turned around and gave Yao Ce to buy medicine, and she was reluctant to use a piece of medicine.


Therefore, both emotionally and financially, the Xu Yao and his wife have achieved the most benevolent and righteousness. How can they abandon it?

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