Do you know what happens to people after they die?
first step put on a shroud;
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and these three steps have corresponding occupations, namely "shroud model", " body plastic surgeon " and " body cremator ". Today we will tell three stories about the post-90s generation.
1. Post-95 "Shroud Model": Give others kind and gentle comfort
"As long as it can bring comfort to others, this job is valuable."
Ren Sainan is A post-95 shroud model. In the traditional Chinese concept, everything related to the dead is unlucky , including shrouds.
At the beginning,Ren Sainan didn't even dare to look at it, let alone put it bluntly. When she talked about this job with her family, they were also very opposed to it, and persuaded her to give up the idea and find another job.
Although Ren Sainan persists, still suffers from the strange eyes of relatives and classmates from time to time feels very angry about being a model, and she gradually loses the shroud of . Exchanges. During the family gathering, relatives also avoided Ren Sainan. saw her as if she had met the plague god .
Sometimes, Ren Sainan will think: Is his choice really wrong?
until she met an old couple about 60 years old. An old couple consulted Ren Sainan about the shrouds worn by young people on the Internet. Later, after learning that there was a physical store, they came to the store not far away. They told Ren Sainan that they were choosing shrouds for their 29-year-old daughter. Their daughter has terminal cancer, and the remaining days are running out. However, They hope their daughter will be beautiful when she leaves, and live decently in another world .
Ren Sainan listened to the mixed feelings in her heart. She asked the old couple about their daughter's interests and hobbies, and finally recommended a Hanfu shroud for them. A few days later, Ren Sainan received the photos from the old couple. In the photo, their daughter who was tortured by cancer,Wearing a newly bought Hanfu shroud, smiling at the camera .
Ren Sainan cried. She said that on many important occasions in life, we all need a suitable dress. Some people are to welcome the future, some are to say goodbye to the past . When I make a shroud, I will do my best to make the shroud look like a dress, hoping that beautiful things can help others to relieve their psychological pain and pass a difficult moment.
2. The post-90s "remains cosmetic surgeon": I was scared, but this is our duty.
Xin Shasha works at Jinan Funeral Home . He is a post-90s enrollment teacher. Xin Shasha's job responsibility is to make plastic surgery for the deceased.
Xin Shasha was born in a rural area. In her impression, after death, people are taken directly to the crematorium for cremation, and there is no cosmetic procedure for the remains. In her third year of high school, she saw an advertisement for enrollment in the newspaper, and for the first time she had an "idea" about enrollment. Before applying for the college entrance examination, she checked a lot of information about enrollment teachers on the Internet. finally decided to apply for the modern funeral technology and management major of a university in Beijing .
During his university years, Xin Shasha spent most of his time studying theoretical knowledge. Although there were practical classes, he had never really touched the body. During the college internship, first saw her teacher applying cosmetic makeup to her body,Received a strong impact and couldn't help but flee the scene .
During her internship, she saw the deceased all over, and also smelled the peculiar smell on the deceased. Some were completely unrecognizable due to a car accident, and some were swollen with blisters all over the body...
Soon after, Xin Shasha received a young female deceased. The deceased woman died in a car accident. Due to the strong impact, there were multiple wounds on her face. Her mother took the photo of the deceased woman before her death and said that her daughter loves beauty the most. After the process was over, the mother of the deceased woman took Xin Shasha's hand and kept saying thank you. At that moment, Xin Shasha finally realized the sense of mission of the enchanter .
Then walked out of the funeral home, but Xin Shasha suffered "injustice". The landlord found out that she was a funeral director and found an excuse to let her move away; some taxi drivers heard that she was going to the funeral home, and they would get her off... …
even once in the farewell hall, she heard a mother say to her son: " study hard, otherwise when she grows up, she can only deal with the dead every day...
Countless times, grievances and anger flipped in Xin Shasha's heart. In order to vent his bad feelings, Xin Shasha went to the gym when he was resting. I met my husband in the gym and gave birth to a lovely son after getting married. When she is not understood again, she will smile and comfort herself: Maybe everything is the best arrangement .
Now, Xinsha Shagan has been in the business for almost 10 years, and has undergone cosmetic repairs to the remains of more than 10,000 dead people. There will be rewards for hard work. On November 24, 2020, at the National Workers and Advanced Workers Recognition Conference, Xin Shasha won the honorary title of "National Advanced Worker" and was the only commendable enrollment in the country. Division .
Picture/Jinan Times
3. Post-95 "cremator of the body": I have become more loving and cherish my life
In 1998, Chen Zizhuo was born in an ordinary family in Tianjin. In college, he studied engineering. Unexpectedly, after someone introduced, Chen Zizhuo came into contact with the funeral industry, and left his hometown, came to Qujing, Yunnan , became a body cremator .
Chen Zizhuo is often asked the most frequently, "Are you afraid?" Chen Zizhuo said that not being afraid was false at the beginning, but after a long time, he understood the true meaning of the profession. " is a good thing to help the deceased leave. "He believes that his entry into the funeral industry is a kind of fate.
At work, Chen Zizhuo's most contact with the family of the deceased. In order to comfort the heartbroken family members of the deceased, Chen Zizhuo and his colleagues paid special attention to the use of words and voice.Try not to add extra pain to them as much as possible. When conditions permit, funeral home staff will try their best to meet the requirements of the family of the deceased .
Once, Chen Zizhuo served a father and son. His father was in his 40s and his son was 6 years old. They died in a car accident. At the time of cremation, at the request of his family, Chen Zizhuo adjusted the cremation furnace of the father and son together .
"Everyone's life is worthy of respect." Sometimes, in the face of the younger deceased, in order to ensure the integrity of the ashes, will adjust the wind power of the cremator. And firepower , do your best to leave a thought for your family.
Chen Zizhuo said, cremator is the last "leader" in life . When serving every deceased, I will pray in my heart, hoping that they will be in bliss forever. After two years of work, after a lot of life and death, my personality has become calm, and it has made me understand the value of life. Everyone should cherish their life and live in the present.
4. Please give them more respect and understanding
Today,Funeral home practitioners are still accepting the prejudiced eyes of those around them, and some people always think that they are doing a job that is “unlucky” and “unlucky” . Some people even said: "If is his own daughter, she will be scolded to death... " "If there is no organization, do you think someone will do it in these professions?"
It is a basic measure for personnel with special occupations such as teachers and cremators to be funded by finance to strengthen the protection of the treatment of employees. However, society also has widespread occupational discrimination and prejudice against them . Three hundred and sixty lines, the best. Society needs to function normally, and every post is indispensable.
For the staff of the funeral home, we need to give them more respect and understanding. Although they have enjoyed better treatment, they have also paid countless sweats. We can’t just see the results, but ignore their hard work .
We always keep silent about "death". In fact, death itself is not terrible. What is terrifying is people's resistance to the separation of Yin and Yang. Through the hands of the funeral home staff, let the deceased leave peacefully, and let the living untie a knot. This is the meaning of their existence. life is worth awe,Their efforts should also be respected .
References:
[1] "A 26-year-old female model in a shroud reveals the past in the mortuary: So this is the truth on earth". Family Magazine. 2021-01-05
[2] I was sent off in a decent manner. Jinan’s post-90s were enrolled in encampment, and 10,000 deceased had undergone plastic surgery in 8 years." Jinan Times .2020-12-30
[3] "The profession of cremator is also very beautiful-post-95 cremator Chen Zizhuo".Funeral Industry Reference.2021-08-30
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