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how convenient smart phones are, I believe that every user has the right to speak.
In the information age, more and more people own smart phones, and the user population is gradually showing a trend of "younger age", which makes the smart phones that originally brought convenience to people appear more and more Many "accidents".
is different from the mature mentality of adults. Many young children are often difficult to control when using smartphones, and are more prone to problems such as indulging in games and being deceived. At the same time, smart phones show children a richer world, no longer just stick to the people around them, and easily make children vain.
The boy sent more than 5,000 red envelopes to female classmates because of his vanity, and the girl’s parents refused to pay back the money
Not long ago, a father in Henan suffered a "loss" of buying a smartphone for his son, regretting Too much.
Because he and his wife are busy at work and don’t have time to take care of his son who is on summer vacation, thinking that his son is 12 years old and can be at home alone, so that he can order takeaway when he is hungry, buys it for his son I installed a mobile phone and bound my bank card.
After everything was ready, the couple devoted themselves to their busy work, and usually had no time to take care of their son. Almost two months later, by chance, my father discovered the problem when he checked his son's phone.
originally bought a mobile phone and bound a bank card for his son,It was for my son to order a takeout, but the amount spent by my son in the past two months was too big.
Under dad’s questioning, the son told the story. He had a mobile phone. Because of his vanity, he put up a "big picture" in front of his classmates and friends, and started to give out red envelopes to his friends. , Classmates give out red envelopes of 50 to 100 yuan.
Friends who have tasted the sweetness are naturally inevitable to cheer up with their son. Under their "snatch", the son has established a friend group and will send red envelopes in the group every day , and enjoy The sense of superiority brought to me by sending red envelopes.
Through rough calculations, I found that my son had issued a total of 8,800 yuan in red envelopes, of which a female classmate alone received more than 5,000.
Immediately afterwards, my father started to contact the parents of the classmates who received the red envelopes. After friendly communication between the adults, the parents of also agreed to return the red envelopes sent by their sons.
However, this parent who received more than 5,000 yuan from female classmates believes that is voluntary for the boy, and since he made a mistake, he must bear the consequences , facing the boy’s parents’ request for choice After rejecting it, I also emphasized that "no one lacks that little money" .
After my dad asked for no results many times, the dad of the female classmate also became irritated and threw out " , please call the police, I don’t have time" 5s 2strong .
Behind this incident is the education problem of the two families
After the incident was exposed, it caused the attention and comments of netizens. Some people think that boys and parents are pitiful, and some think that girls and fathers" It’s ugly to eat". But looking at the entire incident, the boys who gave red envelopes, the girls who received red envelopes, and their parents actually had big problems.
The child takes his parents' hard-earned money improperly because of vanity. Obviously, the usual financial education is not in place, and the female students have no clear concept of money.
The two fathers were also completely irresponsible, let alone helping their children establish correct values. The bank card was bound to the child casually, and the child’s spending was checked from time to time; in the face of the mistakes made by other people’s children, the woman’s parents refused to refund while saying that they were not short of money, which was a manifestation of greed.
In this farce, seems to be the culprit, but in fact the four people have the biggest problem.
Parents are the "gatekeepers" for children to enter the Internet age
Internet, mobile phones, computers...it is actually a temptation for children,Not only can children learn useful things from them, they also have the opportunity to be exposed to bad information and content.
And parents, who are the gatekeepers for children to enter the intelligent age, should also do their own guidance and control tasks. The father mentioned above can sensibly not give his son a cell phone or limit the amount of money his son spends, and may not have trouble later.
Whether it is cheated to spend money, or to take advantage of the money collected, the harm to the child is the greatest. They cannot understand and use the Internet correctly, and their parents cannot escape the blame.
So, before giving children full internet freedom, parents must think of all possible problems, prevent them in advance and educate them in time, so as to protect their children.
Cultivate children’s "money concept" in a timely manner, so that they can "suffer less" in the online world
Today, when mobile phones and computers are widely used, students recharge games, reward network anchors, over-shopping or consumption... all seem to be It is the fault of mobile phones and computers. In fact, parents have not cultivated their children's outlook on money.
Children who have a correct view of money clearly know the meaning of money, how it comes from, and how to manage it reasonably. When facing their own or other people’s money, they often know the limits that cannot be crossed. Naturally The chance of making a mistake is even smaller.
On the contrary, when children suddenly have money, they will splurge wantonly, and even desire to get a lot of money and enter their ideal virtual world.
So in the final analysis, is not wrong with the network and the mobile phone.The fault is that the parents do not have timely education, and the children do not have the correct concept , I hope you can learn from it.
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