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text ▍ Chen Po
two days ago, Because of the term "spiritual opium", our game industry immediately changed from "the ninth art" to the "three-in-class".
As an entrepreneur in the game industry, faced with the sudden bombardment of the media masters, I wrote an article to refute the opium theory of the game spirit ("spiritual opium"? Is this too big a pot" , The game does not pick up | in depth).
But unexpectedly, the comment area of this article exploded. At the same time, I discovered the common problem of most parents, that is, I don't know how to prevent my children from indulging in games.
So, I want to write a simple science article today, hoping to make more people become high-quality parents of human beings.
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knowledge about the game that parents should know
undeniable,Nowadays, there are a lot of internet addicted teenagers in society, just like they have grown up with a mobile phone. You can skip meals or study, but no one can take away my mobile phone. However, parents face this situation. Helpless.
I am both a game entrepreneur and a parent. I have a lot of say in this issue. In my opinion, the main reason why parents single-handedly dump the Internet addiction teenagers on game companies is that parents do not understand the game industry at all, let alone their children.
First of all, parents should clearly understand what games their children are playing. Games are the same as all the products needed for food, clothing, housing and transportation in life. When a product appears in front of children, as a parent, it is necessary for parents to know what the product is like at the first time, and games are no exception.
The Chinese game industry has always had extremely strict controls. All officially published games will have a version number, and the version number will be marked in a prominent position on the game login interface.
The officially published game looks like this:
. Illegal publication, don't keep playing. is very likely to induce recharge for games without a version number. At the same time, parents can also report such illegally published games to the relevant authorities.This prevents children from wasting too much time on bad games.
regular publishing games, all have the following characteristics:
5span, you can see the very age-appropriate number tips on the game. This game is suitable for people over a few years old. When parents find that the age-appropriate prompt of a certain game is 16 years old, they should immediately think that there may be some factors in this game that are not suitable for young children. At this time, they should promptly persuade and stop children.
anti-addiction system, which is connected to the regular published games in China. Parents can observe how long their children spend on video games every day. Under normal circumstances, all games that are connected to the anti-addiction system are limited to 1.5 hours for minors to play from Monday to Friday, and 3 hours on weekends.
Once the child exceeds the time limit on the game, this can only indicate that it is possible that the child has stolen the parent’s ID card, breaking the limit of the anti-addiction system. We have always emphasized that as parents, remember not to give your children the ID card at will, and now some manufacturers have also launched the face recognition function in order to strictly control and prevent addiction. Parents should not easily help their children to do face recognition authentication.If parents are unsuspecting and help their children break through all the anti-addiction systems provided by game manufacturers, then the birth of Internet addiction teenagers really shouldn't let game companies come back.
Recharge problem for children under the age of 8 is not allowed for regular recharge for children under the age of 8. Limited, a maximum of 200 yuan per month can be recharged. In order to avoid excessive consumption of minors in the game, regular games have certain system protections for this. Once the recharge exceeds the limit, it must indicate that the child has stolen the adult’s identity information. Parents must be vigilant at this time and do not slap their hands as the shopkeeper.
In many cases, as long as parents are willing to spend a little time to understand some basic knowledge of game anti-addiction, they can effectively eliminate the bad behavior of most minors, and this is to prevent minors from becoming online The most basic method for addicted teenagers.
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accompany parents give their children the best education
like to do All walks of life need training the same,Parents also need training, , and the most self-training course for contemporary parents is to accompany their children.
Minors are addicted to games. In addition to the attractiveness of the game itself, the more important point is that children do not find their own interests in real life. Most of the energy is devoted to the game.
In the process of children’s growth, parents must play a key role in guiding the children to discover or create more valuable, fun or meaningful things outside of games matter. I encourage parents to play with their children. I often play and Lego with my daughter to make crafts. Children of different ages have different hobbies, and parents should train themselves to be better at discovering their children's interests. It is true that there is a lot of pressure in urban life and work, but no matter how busy you are, you can't lose time with your parents and children. In the comments of my last article, some parents said that they are exhausted when they go to work and have no time to care about their children.
To tell you the truth, my own parents worked very hard to make a living when I was young, but at least they can spare time to spend time with me. People cannot work 24 hours a day. We can always squeeze a little time out of busy work to accompany our children and take them to do some entertainment activities.
I encourage parents to play games with their children . When a parent and child play a game at the same time, the parent can clearly understand what kind of content the game product has, what kind of recharge restrictions, etc. from the first experience perspective. This has two advantages. Firstly, parents can discover some undesirable factors in the game in time, so as to prevent children from indulging in games in time. Secondly, parents and children can also have common topics to talk about, which can help parents and children. In the process of communication, children reduce topic barriers and maintain a good sense of parent-child communication.
Companionship is the best way to improve parent-child relationship and it is also an important way for parents to understand their children. Not only games, but also other things. As long as parents are willing to spend a certain amount of time with their children to do what they like, many educational problems can be solved.
To prevent minors from indulging in games, a more advanced method is to lead children to cultivate interest in reading together. I will set aside one or two hours a week to study with my daughter. No matter what kind of book it is, as long as you are willing to cultivate the reading habits of your child, I believe that the parent-child relationship between you and your child will be greatly improved soon enhance.
In terms of book selection, I also recommend that you accompany your children to read some books other than textbook knowledge or classic classics, so as to cultivate children to have a wider range of knowledge, , for example Chinese and Western myths can open up children's imagination, and world geography can lead children to appreciate the customs of all parts of the world. For another example, the current aerospace science and technology is just a boom, accompany children to read some books about astronomy knowledge,It also helps children build a broader view of the universe. Cultivating children's interest in reading is very easy to achieve, and in the process of reading, children gain not only one-sided book knowledge, but also gradually expand their interests, which will naturally reduce their dependence on games.
Another one, it is recommended that parents take more children out for exercise. Playing badminton or running in the community are simple operations that can be done without spending a lot of money, and good results can be achieved with a little time. More importantly, the companionship I have repeatedly emphasized must be high-quality companionship. It's not that the child is reading a book while the parent is sitting next to it and playing on the phone. High-quality companionship must have a lot of communication and interaction. Parents and children must participate in it to maximize the quality of companionship.
These suggestions I have mentioned, although not directly related to games, whether it is reading or sports, can create a richer world for children, allowing them to escape from games. At the same time, children can discover that besides games, there are many colorful and beautiful things to pursue in this world.
Children and their parents should not stand on opposite sides. As parents, we must also learn to train our own ways of educating our children while we nurture our children. When parents and children have common interests, children are also more willing to listen to parents' guidance on meaningful things or stop bad behaviors. If the parent is just stubborn and puts himself in the position of a teacher, opposing the child,Simply and rudely treat everything your child plays with as rubbish. Once parents do this, your child will only be more rebellious than rebellious.
I always believe that the education of parents should be given to the children correctly. The first responsibility lies with the parents. But inactive parents can ruin their children's future. Regardless of school or society, it is only an auxiliary tool for parent education, and parents are always the first responsible person for children's education. If parents blindly attribute the problems that arise in their children to a third party, it will be difficult to bring their children's education on track.
I believe that high-quality human parents, after doing these things, your high-quality human cubs will not continue to indulge in games day and night. If there are still problems, you can continue to raise them, and I will help you find a solution.
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