[Yi Ling original]
Recently, classmate Zhang is very popular! The reason why Zhang classmates can be popular all over the Internet is also due to the Internet. Of course, Zhang's own speech is the key.
A 17-year-old boy gave an inspirational speech, why did it attract so many people's attention? Yi Ling also paid attention. Yi Ling paid attention to Zhang's speech, not Zhang's speech itself, but the overwhelming comments.
To tell the truth, Yi Ling is really an afterthought. After classmate Zhang's speech was circulated on the Internet, I saw the honor of this 17-year-old for the first time, and the reason why he became popular " I am a native pig from the countryside , and also determined to go to the cabbage in the big city! "
is what Zhang said, making many people doubt his motivation for efforts, some people doubt his values, and some people put forward "you Will you marry your daughter to classmate Zhang?" Such a question made the mother-in-law in the city anxious and immediately voted against it.
I saw someone on the Internet saying that Zhang's dream is about to be dashed. The mother-in-law in the city does not like to see such a "dirty pig".
Seeing such a statement, I think the speaker is really irresponsible. Do you think that if the mother-in-law vetoes, the son-in-law will fail? Do you think all mothers-in-law can be the masters of daughter ? Look around us, how many mothers-in-law have lost to their own "cabbage" who loves "pigs".
Yi Ling said: Whether student Zhang can afford the "cabbage" in the big city, the mother-in-law said it doesn't count, it depends on the "cabbage".
Yi Ling is also more realistic.
Actually, talking about the mother-in-law is really too far for Mr. Zhang. Maybe Mr. Zhang himself has never thought about finding a mother-in-law in a big city. Such an idea is completely imposed on the child by the audience.
Yi Ling will tell you about "pig gong cabbage" first!
"pig arching cabbage", the original meaning means that the cabbage that farmers worked so hard to grow was wasted by pigs, which is really a pity. Later, it was extended to mean that a good girl was possessed by a bad man, which probably meant the same thing as "a flower in cow dung". However, this sentence is mostly a joke.
Actually, "pig arches cabbage", there is another meaning, "pig" pursues the life that wants in , and works hard to "arch", hard work pays off, and finally one day, "pig" will bow down cabbage, "Bok cabbage" is the harvest after hard work.
I think that Zhang may not have thought of the mother-in-law in the city at all. A high school student who is about to take the college entrance examination , his only goal in the near future is the college entrance examination. Go out through the college entrance examination and see a different world. Although birth determines the difference in starting, but through hard work, you will definitely catch up.
When it comes to marrying a daughter, mothers-in-law really think too much.
Classmate Zhang did not depend on his wife in the city to change his life, he depended on himself!
Those who say that Zhang's purpose is impure, Yi Ling said: Your pattern is too small!
The speech of classmate Zhang Yi Ling has been read several times, and the child also said it as a joke. It should be to show his determination to work hard, rather than relying on the mother-in-law in the city to change his life. fate.
A situation like Zhang's was very common in rural areas in the 1980s. Now that the conditions are better, people who have not experienced it will never understand how strong the shock is when a person sees another world that is completely different from his own growth environment.
Decades ago, in the countryside where I live, there were many children like classmate Zhang. Including myself, walking into high school is the first time I see tall buildings, the first time I see running water, the first time I see a different life, and the first time I know how big the world is.
It is really difficult for children who have "opened their horizons" to go back to the past when they walk into the door, because the switch of dreams and pursuits has been turned on and cannot be stopped. As a result, it often becomes two extreme . One extreme is studying hard, selfless efforts, to change the fate, one's own, and the fate of the entire family through one's own efforts; the other extreme, sinking, unable to extricate oneself, in the city's feasting and a good living environment lost in self.
is fortunate to have made the first one. I worked hard to go out just like classmate Zhang, but unfortunately, without the qualifications of classmate Zhang, it is still ordinary to this day. I just found a place to stand in the city, and I can't look up to the sky and sigh when my parents and family need it. I'm very satisfied.
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In that era, I worked as hard as classmate Zhang, and among the classmates who entered the city, none of them relied on the city's mother-in-law to turn around. Those boys, their strong self-esteem does not allow themselves to survive on women. Most of them are very good, hardworking, motivated, filial, caring for their wives and children, standing upright outside, and being gentle and responsible at home.
Yi Ling said:
Zhang is a very good boy, he just expressed his feelings. He didn't think too much, we just thought too much. Zhang's life has just begun, I hope our judgment will not interfere with the child's life.
In the end, Yi Ling wanted to say:
Classmate Zhang does not mean to be attached to the mother-in-law in the city, but if in the future, Classmate Zhang encounters an excellent girl in the city, of course he has the right to pursue, if he is also appreciated by the girl, "Tuzhu" and "cabbage" fall in love, will they get everyone's blessing? If there is such a day, can the mother-in-law be the master of the daughter?
The world is unpredictable, so don't think too much about it, let Zhang students study with peace of mind. No one can say what will happen in the future.
I wish Zhang a successful college entrance examination, study hard, work hard, and be a knowledgeable, thoughtful, positive and optimistic person who loves life!
This article is an original article by Yi Ling, you are welcome to pay attention to @銟玲 and look forward to your comments!
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