There is a saying on the Internet: "Money is hard to make, shit is hard to eat."
For ordinary people, making money is particularly difficult. And spending money is basically like flowing water and can't stop at all. Therefore, many people have no deposits and are living uneasy.
Among the ordinary people, who are difficult to save money? There are two kinds of people, One is an honest person who is not very prepared, while the other is an emotional person who values emotions too much.
The honest person's personality cannot keep money. As long as others know that honest people are rich, they will come to him and "sell miserable" or " moral kidnapping ". The honest people cannot resist and can only pay off their money obediently.
There is a saying that goes: "A kindness does not control the army, and righteousness does not control the wealth."
An overly kind person cannot command thousands of troops to fight. All generals have a fierce aura. People who are too loyal are not very suitable for managing money and are easily deceived by villains for their loyalty.
people, when they reach a certain age, don’t spend money “indiscriminately”. Today, making money is not easy. Try to keep the money in your pocket and avoid being deceived.
people are about to "cover your pockets" when they are fifty. No matter how rich you have, don't spend them.
1. Don’t spend money on people who “do nothing to do”.
says, "If you have nothing to do, you will be either traitor or steal."
They have nothing to do with us and rarely interact with us from the beginning. Suddenly one day, they visited the door and spoke sweetly, which shows that they "had something else".
people, they are creatures who cannot get up early without profit and cannot enter the Three Treasure Hall without any trouble. Only when they encounter problems and need our help will they put down their airs and come to ask for help with a smile on their faces.
Many people don’t know how to deal with people who are “sophisticated”. They always feel that it’s a bit unreasonable to not help others. Therefore, they will "be kind" and think that they have helped others and others will be grateful to them.
In fact, others will not care about your kindness, nor will they care about your kindness, but only about your money. If you don't fulfill their wishes, they will hate you.
If possible, cruelly reject the requests of these people who "do nothing to show their diligence". Since you have to become enemies no matter what you do, it is better not to help from the beginning to avoid causing a big disaster.
2. Relatives who want to "do business in partnership" with you.
After being fifty years old, many people want to do some small business to make some money and support their families.
Before doing business, you have to "brighten your eyes". Especially when choosing a partner, it is best not to work with relatives, nor to work with people with blood relationships.
People who have never done business do not understand, so why can’t they work with relatives?
When opening a restaurant, relatives who went out to buy ingredients deliberately bought the worst ingredients and put the remaining money into their pockets; when they were dividing money at the end of the month or at the end of the year, some people disagree with the average score, thinking that they have put in more effort, so they hope to get more. does not have any contractual spirit.
No matter what business you do, you must find someone with the "contract spirit". Most people who can fulfill the terms of the contract cannot have any blood relationship with us. Otherwise, the problem of "acquaintances take advantage" will arise.
people are over fifty years old. Fewer cooperation with relatives to do business, otherwise they will "lose".
3. Don’t spend money on people who are “moral kidnapping”.
There is a kind of person, which is particularly disgusting - a person who sings high-profile and morally kidnapped.
Let’s talk about rap high-profile first.Some people always let themselves stand at the peak of morality, think they are saints, and even accuse others of doing something wrong. But in fact, they may not be able to do very well themselves.
After singing high-profile, people with ulterior motives will continue to do such a thing, moral kidnapping.
For example, when you make money, they will tell you that you have to take out the money and help poor friends or relatives around you. This is the big picture. But in fact, they are just jealous of you being richer than them.
has come into contact with such a person. When he loses his assets, he comes to us and forces us to help him, otherwise he is a weak lover who "does not value feelings". As soon as he heard this, all the friends in the circle left him, and even friends with assets worth tens of millions did not lend a helping hand.
There is a saying that is very realistic. Helping you is a favor, but not helping you is a reason. No matter how morally kidnapped, it is only effective for kind and honest people. If you encounter old world, it will be useless.
4. Don’t spend money on people who have “no principles”.
Dealing with others, or even lending money to others, is mostly because of the "love". However, it is hard to say whether others will repay the money on time and whether they will repay kindness.
In the past, when people's hearts were relatively pure, there were a lot of people who "repay kindness". But as the environment changes, people's hearts become restless, fewer people are grateful, and the number of ungrateful wolves is constantly increasing.
helped them, and they didn't say anything, thinking that we should "should" do so. It is this "taken for granted" attitude that makes us particularly disgusted. Why do they have this kind of thinking?
From the perspective of human nature, no one cherishes anything that can be obtained without giving anything.
We helped them, and they did not have any pressure or effort at all, so they would not understand the preciousness of "timely help". So, there are fewer and fewer people taking the initiative to help nowadays.
people are fifty years old. No matter how rich you are, you should keep your pockets tight. If you don’t want to help some people, don’t help them, just follow your true intentions.
text/Shushan Youlu
