(I)
I have a small colleague who grew up from a divorced family, but he is cheerful and likes to joke. Once, during a chat, I accidentally talked about the matter of retirement.
She said, "My dad is retired now and only goes back to Sichuan. He will go wherever he goes, eat, drink tea, and those people will wait." I asked curiously, "What are you waiting for?" She said disdainfully, "Let's just wait for the money." I asked hurriedly, "Why? Because my dad has a lot of money. How did they know? My dad blamed him for accidentally telling it.
"After my father divorced, he found another wife from Sichuan. Although he paid almost all of his money at home, he never said how much his pension was. The first time he went back to his hometown with this wife, a lot of relatives and friends in his hometown were warmly entertaining and drinking. When my father was dizzy, those people asked during a chat: How much is your pension? As a result, my father replied: It was nearly 8,000 yuan."
" It's amazing, those people don't want to stop them. I remember nothing, but I can remember 8,000 yuan. No matter what I do, as long as my dad is here, those people are unwilling to pay, so I point at my dad. My dad regrets it very much. I really want to slap myself in the face. Who told me that I can't control my mouth?"
Xinjiang is located in the borderland, and living conditions are relatively difficult. The salary is higher than that of many small places in the mainland. This is normal, but mainlanders do not think so, so even with a high-income retirement salary, you must be low-key and never tell the truth. Otherwise, the trouble caused by this truth will be endless, unless you are not living in the mainland.
(II)
has a very good friend who told me about her sister in private. Her sister married to a small county town in Hunan in the late 1980s and has been working in a private paper mill. Later, after her sister retired, she came to Xinjiang to find some work when she was idle, which happened to be convenient for her parents.
One day she asked her sister privately: How much is the pension per month? She thought it would cost at least more than 2,000 yuan. As a result, the numbers my sister said surprised her, more than 1,000 yuan. Ah, so few. Her sister said, "Yes, there are almost so many people like me in our factory, and there are only a little less."
It turns out that the unit where her sister and hers paid social security in order to save money is probably the lowest, and there may be only pension and medical insurance . Her sister also said that after she officially retired at the age of 50, she paid three months of social security before she could reach the full amount of payment. When she was working here, she was able to pay her two months of salary in the factory for one month, so when her original factory wanted her to go back and work, her sister said: I won’t go back, I have such a small salary per month.
When my friend was about to work to do cleaning, my sister reminded her, "Sister, at work, don't tell others what your pension is? It will only make people look down on you and are very embarrassing. If they ask, you will say that it must be lower than in Xinjiang and the living standards in a small county in Hunan are enough."
There is no way for my friend to have this bad strategy for her sister. You can't work in this unfamiliar place. You're looking down on me and laugh at me because my pension is so low.
(III)
people can receive a fixed monthly pension when they retire. They should have been happy, but the pension also brought some troubles: they cannot tell the truth when the pension is high, and they cannot tell the truth when the pension is low; they are either thought of or despised. So what will happen to those who tell the truth about the pension?
Not long ago, I heard that an aunt had found a wife. She was very good and diligent. Her pension alone was more than 6,000 yuan. My son didn’t come back often when he was away from home. The aunt thought she had picked up a treasure, but after getting married, she found out that the old man could spend nearly 3,000 yuan on taking medicine for basic diseases alone.
The old man's incompetent son was still dependent on his parents. Shortly after she entered the door, the old man's son went home and took away his father's pension card. He only gave his father 2,000 yuan a month. He only took medicine and normal life, which made the aunt have to subsidize her pension. She regretted that she had plans to divorce when she died.
Although the retired old man said that his pension was more than 6,000 yuan, which was indeed quite high, he did not say that he had to spend nearly 3,000 yuan per month just by taking medicine. The rest of the expenses that could be used for normal expenses was severely reduced. In addition, his son was levied on his parents, so the high pension was just a false reputation. If he really wanted to be divorced, it would be a problem to live a normal life.
Therefore, the pension must be spent on the retiree himself. It is reasonable to use the money as much as possible. Therefore, the retiree must hold his pocket tightly and take it as his responsibility to protect his pension. Never lose money that should belong to him because he cares about his face or indulges his children, and cast a shadow on his old age.
