Human beings appear very small in the torrent of history. The ordinary lives of ordinary people are facing the possibility of destruction at any time, such as disasters and wars. Faced with these unstoppable things by human power, life is really as fragile as an ant.
In the era of peace, although there is no worries about life, there is also concern for poverty. What ordinary people fear the most is probably "owed debts". For ordinary people, happiness means no disasters and no debts! Therefore, there was a saying in the past that "no one can give in to one's three things, and no one can owe any debts without disasters"!
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What are the three things that are not allowed? Some people say I know that I don’t let the land, money, or wife! I think you are right. You must not give up on land, money and wife! But the premise is that you have to be a rich man first, otherwise you may not be able to have these three things!
People's life is not long or short, but the time to truly serve others must be limited. Even if you can live a hundred years old, you can only rely on your first half of your life to work hard. Therefore, Li Bai once wrote the famous line "The situation does not wait for others, but the old man must become a hair of silk." When you get old, even if you have a lot of time, what's the use?
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The ancients said, "A inch of time is gold, and a gold cannot buy a short time." When you are young, don't think that the days ahead will be long, because you don't know which day you look back and you will find that you are old, and the past time has been wasted and you can never go back.
So the least thing that should be given in life is: time! You can't be polite at any time. Never give up your precious time. You must cherish the present and not waste time.
"Don't give in to three people, and you will not owe any debts without disaster." While time cannot be given up, there are opportunities in life that cannot be given up. Why can't time be given up? Because time is gone forever, and as fleeting as time still has opportunities, there are no opportunities in life.
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Many times, once the opportunity is missed, you may regret it for life. In the 1980s, there was a pair of college students who had a good relationship. When it was allocated, there was a place to go to the countryside and a place to go to big cities. One of them carried forward the spirit of brotherly feelings first and gave the place to brothers' brothers' places to the big cities that were originally going to.
Later, he spent his whole life in the countryside and his family lived a difficult life. The classmate who was developing in a big city had already achieved success and fame. The relationship between the two was not deeper because of his humility. Instead, he broke off contact early because the gap between their status and status continued to widen. Is it really worth it to give up the opportunities in life back then? I think everyone should have their own answer.
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As the saying goes, "If you are a person, you will not give in to your debts without disasters." First, you will not give in to time, and second, you will not give in to opportunities. If a person can seize time and opportunities, he will definitely be a wealthy person, at least he can not owe money, but rich people may not be without disasters. So how can they be "no disasters"?
I think no one can do without disasters in his life, because you can control many things, but there is one that can be done, that is, to have stronger resistance when facing disasters! If you can seize time and opportunities, you will have wealth. This is the material guarantee to resist disasters. Another more important thing is the body!
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The body is very important. Having a healthy and strong body is the foundation for resisting disasters. Because people with poor health cannot withstand external blows and pressures. Only those with strong bodies and strong will can stand up to the end. Therefore, the third thing that cannot be given to "three things to do in life" is that they cannot be given to health!
money can be left out, but health must be there. As the saying goes, keep the green mountains without fear of burning firewood. If a person knows how to cherish time, is good at seizing opportunities, and has a healthy body, he can naturally be "no disasters and no debts". I think we should all be like this so that we can live a good life.