"Who is by your side": The way to solve problems lies in communication, not mutual suspicion

He Rundong , who won the 53rd Golden Bell Award Drama Program Director Award with "The Memory of Over the Wall", this time he served as the director again, and wrote "Your Child Is Not You" Jiang Youzhu, from the script of "Children" and "The Magician on the Skybridge", co-created the new work "Who Is By Your Side".

is adapted from Zhang Yuge's original novel "Landscape", starring by Xu Ruoxuan, Janine Chang, , Kaixun Zhuang, and Chen Enfeng, 17strong directly explores the goodness and evil of marriage and . A new movie of the dark suspense psychology genre.

Close to you and my life

After watching the first three episodes, I can only say that I like it in my heart. He Rundong will produce beautiful results again as a director. I hope that the follow-up episodes 5 span 5 span 5 span Maintain this level.

When the movie is opened, the suspenseful and terrifying atmosphere is shrouded in high pressure and low pressure. Its terror is not only in the atmosphere. is also derived from the dark facts hidden behind the screen and the truth of human nature. Nudity and psychological depression .

The first episode was chilling at the beginning.But I was so heartbroken that I couldn't breathe, and I couldn't bear to continue to look down. Like the director’s previous work "Memory of Over the Wall", I often need to adjust my mood a little before I can gather my courage again . Although it is adapted from "Xianxian", according to the creative process described by the creator, I think it can basically be treated as two different works independently.

"Who is by your side" starts from the daily details, adding many past experiences drawn from life and observing others and oneself at ordinary times. It is plain and emotionally delicate, which is very close to each of us.

depicts the various changes in people’s emotions, emotional transitions and conflicts, tiny corners of daily life , reality’s test of helplessness in the relationship between two people , The vision, expectations and pressure given by the society, the psychological and spiritual conditions, no matter what stage of your life you are, you will definitely be very impressed. Three episodes, each episode is very touching!

Bumpy plot

Yongjie and Gigi were born in a half-parent family. They faced fear since they were young, depended on each other, supported each other and survived and grew up. Jie and Zhisheng became a husband and wife, sweet and affectionate, and childhood shadows seemed to disappear forever, but the factory run by Zhisheng and friends suddenly went bankrupt, 's family situation took a turn for the worse,The relationship between the two also fell into a low ebb.

Zhisheng tried to reinvigorate by gambling, but on the contrary, it plunged the situation into a more irreversible debt cycle. I thought that the childhood shadow over time quietly re-attacked at this time of internal and external pressure. Yong Jie, Coupled with the huge pressure of real life, the relationship between husband and wife gradually changes, and a thick black cloud is enveloped.

Although Yongjie believes in her heart that Zhisheng can find her former self through her efforts, she does not know when that day will come. On the other hand, after Gigi and Haoyuan entered their marriage, The appearance seems glamorous, and the career and love are both proud of , but secretly, there are actually imbalanced pressures and gaps between the two.

The expectation from the man’s family for the inheritance of traditional concepts has given Gigi a great psychological burden. Haoyuan’s past has caused the hidden instability of the relationship between the two , Slowly emerging in the future.

Childhood Trauma and Mental Illness

Even if the incident passes, the trauma still has unhealed scars. The person involved is under psychological pressure that others can't imagine. Even though the appearance may seem normal or even excessively optimistic, the heart is actually Silently suppressed, what can be lost is hard to find, and the suffering left behind can be faded by time. Every inadvertent touch, , every similar situation brings back the nightmare of the past,Evoking deep memories of fear, the shadows of Yongjie and Gigi’s childhood.

This kind of shadow will follow them in their future lives. They will penetrate every gap and affect everything. "Isn't it a neuropathy or a madman who needs to see a doctor?" The strange vision from others, the ignorance and fear of others, divide the gap between normal and abnormal.

The stigma and lack of awareness of mental illness in society have superimposed invisible pressure on patients, or led to unreasonable treatment, but in fact, anyone can think of it. If you are sick, you need to be cured, you need help, care and support from others, does not need to treat patients as monsters or aliens. Everyone is just a living ordinary person.

Past films have seldom focused on issues related to mental illness and patients. This time, "Who is by your side" has a considerable description in this regard. The exquisite acting interpretation allows the audience to penetrate into the private inner world of the character , which should be able to bring social discussion and attention after the broadcast.

Marriage and relationship

The plot explores the relationship between two people in marriage from a very private perspective."There will always be a solution to things" is the words that Yongjie, played by Xu Ruoxuan, often tells others in the play, , but at the same time, this sentence also comforts herself like she uses it to hypnotize herself and seeks an outlet.

Faced with the burden of great changes and the pressure of real life, Zhisheng will vent his moody impulsive emotions to others at will. Underneath are inferiority and self-esteem, preconceived thoughts, long unsolved Misunderstandings become an invisible chasm, to avoid the problem of shelving, and to seek a thing on which one can rely on and push all mistakes to the top.

Every character in the play seems to have a vulnerability that they don’t want to be known. They always try to be strong, maybe out of goodwill, maybe out of fear, maybe out of mistrust and low self-esteem, Even doubt, or from misunderstanding, Under the nourishment of human nature, the mental demon gradually devours itself.

The name of the play "Who is by your side", in just five words has multiple meanings. Everyone can derive different interpretations. When facing the low tide of gradual envelopment, Who is the person by your side? Are the people beside you really who you think? Do you really understand him?

"Communicate a lot, there will always be a solution", "Don't dare to say anything just because you are afraid of losing the other person." Yongjie said, we sometimes choose a winding road to avoid it, but in fact The problems and difficulties that really need to be solved still stem from the communication between people ,Only by opening up, supporting and facing each other together can we overcome difficulties and resolve doubts.

"Who is by your side", how about you? "Who" is by your side? Looking forward to the follow-up plot development can lead us to more in-depth discussion of these issues.

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