Foreword
Each of us has something to fear. Some people are afraid of the dark environment, some are afraid of confined spaces, some are afraid of bottomless abyss, and some are afraid of the deep sea. Everyone’s personalities are ever-changing, so The things to fear are also different.
However, there are always some overlapping parts. For example, when I was a student, I was afraid of teachers leaving too much homework. When I grew up, I was afraid that the money I earned was not enough to support my family. When I was old, I started to fear death again. The ancients are the same, but the things they are afraid of are a bit strange, "men are afraid of grinding, women are afraid of foaming, chickens are afraid of throwing away, dogs are afraid of licking", what does this mean?
Men are afraid of rubbing and women are afraid of being soaked.
In ancient China, women are undoubtedly in a relatively disadvantaged position. Because of the ancient system, women usually have no say in society. They mainly rely on men to protect their lives. They are fond of male chauvinism. For serious ancient Dingfu, although they have no respect for women, they are still very protective of women who admire themselves.
At the same time, big husbands generally take ashamed of killing women, so there are scenes where the protagonist often yells "I don't kill women" in TV dramas. Gradually, in wars, women and children cannot be killed, and it has become a consensus that women are rarely executed during punishment.
In this context, men are very afraid of women who admire themselves, because they can’t speak harshly to each other, nor can they add sticks to each other, so they are dazzled by their coquetry and boasting. , The original rational character may also make impulsive choices, the so-called "hero sad beauty pass" is also the reason.
The main reason why women are afraid of being soaked is that women are generally very emotional animals, they are easy to empathize, and the feelings of others are usually more profound than that of boys. In ancient times, most men paid attention to the lofty ideal of entering official careers and serving the country on the battlefield, and their attention to women was far less than now.
Therefore, if a woman meets a man, she loves herself, soft and hard, she visits her house today and sends a bouquet of flowers, and tomorrow she writes to invite, please go to the lake for outing, and make herself feel a little bit cold from time to time. Love, then this girl will easily indulge in it.
But generally speaking, the ending of women’s indulging in love is usually not very beautiful. The poetry says that "the scholars are indifferent, and they can be taken off, and the women are indifferent and cannot be taken off." In ancient times, the status of men and women is not equal. Love is mostly much shorter than that of women. Most of the women who are moved by the man’s soft and hard foaming will eventually have the fate of being abandoned. Over time, there will be the saying "fear of foaming". Z1z
chickens are afraid of being thrown out, dogs are afraid of licking
Friends who have experience in rural life may all have the experience of “chicking the chickens out”. When night falls, the chickens who are walking in the yard should also return to their fences. At this time, they only need to take an object such as a wooden stick and drive them away. They will flap their wings, flee around, and finally return to their den.
This is mainly because the courage of chickens is generally very small, which is different from the loyalty and bravery of dogs and the curiosity of cats. Chickens are an animal that is easily disturbed. A little bit of wind and grass can make them like Facing a major enemy, "chickens are afraid of expulsion" became famous. People who have dogs at
must know that dogs actually like to lick their owners. This is a way for them to express their affection. Sometimes you go out and stay for a while without bringing it, and you can even get licked by it when you go back. The first half an hour. But although they love to lick people, dogs don't like to be licked. If
is really licked by the owner, the dog may be shocked, or even run away to avoid it. If the number of times increases, there will be a saying that "dogs are afraid of licking". The reason why dogs don't like being licked may be because dogs are very loyal animals. They are used to obeying the owner's words, but if they suddenly get too much attention and love from their owner, it will make them at a loss.
Today's society is constantly changing. People pursue the same gender. Under the condition of equal status, boys and girls will no longer be afraid of each other. The abundance of food also makes the chicks bigger and not as courageous as before. At the same time, more and more "cold" dogs who do not like to lick people appear, which can be regarded as a change brought by society.
The saying "men are afraid of grinding, women are afraid of soaking, chickens are afraid of being thrown out, dogs are afraid of licking" means it should beThere is a general understanding. In addition to the superficial meaning, there are actually deep meanings. Do you feel that the earlier you know, the more you benefit?