For parents and the country, the importance of students is self-evident. Only by educating every student can they become the future pillars of the country.
As people's living standards improve, they also have their own opinions on choosing schools. For education, the starting point must be kindergarten.
With the improvement of people's living standards, they also have their own experiences and opinions in education. For children's education, it is necessary not to lose to others from the starting line, so the competition begins when entering kindergarten.
Kindergartens are full of "disguised probes", and parents "see the tricks"
The reason why most parents send their children to kindergarten is not to expect them to do well in school, but to give them a foundation to integrate into the collective and pave the way for primary and secondary schools.
Especially for dual-income families, sending their children to school not only frees up some time and energy for themselves, but also mainly hopes that the school can protect the health and safety of the students.
However, some kindergartens "do not pay attention to martial ethics" and do not take good care of students' learning. Instead, they use various methods to covertly check the family background. This makes it easier for them to charge fees in disguise and treat children differently.
For example, some kindergartens ask children to draw their own homes. It will be clear at a glance whether it is a house or a small bedroom. Some teachers will ask children to take photos with their own cars. The income of a family is determined by the level of the vehicle.
Some kindergartens are even more direct, directly asking parents to provide their identity information and career information to infer the family's economic income.
After the relevant departments issued a notice prohibiting kindergartens from conducting surveys on each family, these kindergartens came up with new tricks, letting children draw their own car logos to find out how much income each family has.
Many parents are actually well aware of the practices of kindergartens. This also makes many parents puzzled. I send my children to kindergarten and pay the tuition properly. Why do I need to conduct a thorough investigation of my family?
For this reason, many parents are faced with the disguised probing in kindergartens, and they all say that there is no way to trick them. I have to say that the way parents react is really amazing. makes people shout "666" !
However, kindergartens also have their own ways of dealing with such parents, treating them as if their family conditions are not good. I have to say that this method makes many parents feel speechless. Kindergarten teachers flatter parents who are well off, but are quite indifferent to students who are not well off.
This kind of education method has really not appeared. No wonder more and more parents are opposed to kindergartens inquiring into students' family backgrounds. How to put an end to this phenomenon is not easy and has a long way to go.
How should parents respond to the difficulties faced by kindergartens?
Mo’s behavior in kindergartens is actually not uncommon. Although some parents choose high-end kindergartens to avoid such things, not every family can afford such behavior.
Many parents become anxious and confused when facing kindergarten to find out their family background. Do students have to fight for their parents starting from kindergarten? We were obviously on the same starting line, but we were already far behind before we even started running.
After finding out about family background, if my family background is not well-off, will my children be treated differently, and can my children get along equally with their classmates in schools? Such a series of problems have been lingering in the minds of parents for a long time.
How parents should respond to the school's actions has always been a topic of concern to many people. Parents are deeply disgusted by the practice of some kindergartens that favor one thing over another and put on colored glasses based on family conditions.
Therefore, when facing the kindergarten to find out the family background, parents can face it tactfully. For example, if you want to draw the appearance of your own home, why not let your children draw a villa, and when drawing a car logo, you can also directly draw an expensive car.
In the face of some straight-shooting in some kindergartens, you can go directly to investigate the family situation. You don't have to do such a thing, just answer or backhand and report . The worst case scenario is to change to another kindergarten. After all, this kind of kindergarten that touches family backgrounds also has problems with its own outlook on life.
- Finally, have you ever been touched by someone in a kindergarten?