text/Ye Qiuchen
In view of my current special physical condition, this article will be as short as possible. " The 28th Law of Love " starring
Yang Mi and Xu Kai has reached its finale. This should be a standard HE-style finale.
Yanghua gave Qin Shi enough time to figure out the life he wanted, and then returned at the right time, and the two regained the sweetness of the past.
The influence of the exes has completely ended. The ex-girlfriend went abroad, the ex-boyfriend went to work in other areas, and the case to protect women's rights also ended in victory.
Qin Shi left his original law firm and the world wrapped in lies, and followed his heart to choose the job he really wanted to do.
All the difficulties have been solved, and a new life is about to begin.
The love triangle between Qin Shi, Yang Hua and Tao Junhui actually has a lot to think about, mainly about the mode of getting along and the attitude towards marriage.
When Yang Hua gets along with Qin Shi, he values trust more.
Although he is also worried that his wife will be wronged outside, he always provides help and support silently.
He believes that Lawyer Qin can choose the path of life for herself, and Yang Hua only needs to gently pull her when she is a little helpless, and everything will be smooth sailing.
In this play, Yang Hua contributed many insights about life, but what impressed Ye Qiuchen the most was his understanding of marriage.
To a certain extent, it also explains the reason why many young people nowadays do not want to choose marriage.
He said that marriage has become an elective course from a compulsory course in the past, and the failure rate is getting higher and higher. Once a student fails a course, it means that all efforts will be in vain, and even credits will be deducted.
Under such a situation, it is normal for some people to fear marriage.
If the examples around you are not good, then this kind of emotion will be magnified exponentially.
Qin Shi is like this.
Her father has been married three times, and her mother still lives in the house bought by her ex-wife.
and Tao Junhui had entered the stage of marriage talks before, but due to complicated family factors, they were severely rejected by the other party's elders.
Such fear is superimposed, and so is the effect.
Therefore, Qin Shi is more afraid of marriage than ordinary people, and is also afraid of entering a real married life.
I am afraid because I have desires and expectations, and I want a happy marriage. Otherwise, everyone would not care about it.
Yang Hua hit the nail on the head.
But Tao Junhui didn’t understand.
He only thinks that Qin Shi's unwillingness to get married is due to her own willfulness and inability to make the right choice.
Therefore, in the process of Tao Junhui getting along with Qin Shi, you can often see him taking a leading role, telling Qin Shi what to do and planning the future for her. Some expressions of
are more like commands and requirements.
will cause discomfort.
Frankly speaking, Tao Junhui is actually a good man, calm, steady and rational. His personal business ability is impeccable, his mind is delicate enough, and he is considerate in what he does.
is the second male lead who cannot be disliked.
He likes Wu Fei, but he loves Qin Shi.
In the past, he thought that he could numb himself through another marriage and forget the unforgettable memory of his old love, but in the end he was still too naive.
The scene in Hangzhou when he pulled Qin Shi into his arms, the way he lost control of his emotions in front of the woman he liked, and the sincere words he said when he was drunk and confessed his love. At a certain moment, I felt that it would be great if Qin Shi and Tao Junhui were together.
But he is not suitable for Qin Shi.
What Qin Shi needs is someone like Yang Hua who can remind herself at critical moments and give appropriate help, not a master who makes decisions for her.
When Tao Junhui said that the two of them could open a new law firm like Mr. Tang and his wife, it was already obvious that the superiority was high.
Yang Hua defeated Tao Junhui on this point.
Assisting and helping a person make decisions on her own, compared to planning everything for her and just being obedient, are completely different things. There is a big difference.
Why didn’t Qin Shi choose Tao Junhui?
Apart from the fact that she fell in love with Yang Hua, this is the real reason.
text/Ye Qiuchen
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