resumes work and production, and also supports couples to "see children together".
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Recently, the Shanghai Municipal Education Commission announced that it would continue to postpone the start of school and implement online education from March, and children can watch video courses at home. At the same time, during the epidemic, all types of training institutions and childcare institutions are not allowed to carry out offline training and childcare work.
Then the problem arises. After the resumption of work, the care of children has become a problem for dual-working families. Before, we snatched masks and snatched alcohol, and set the alarm clock to grab vegetables and meat. Now parents are about to start grabbing printers again.
How to take care of children? In some places, the initiative has caused great controversy because of the five words, such as the initiative of "supporting dual-working families with , mainly women, to watch children at home, " during the period of school opening.
On social platforms, many netizens expressed confusion and dissatisfaction with the way this policy is expressed. Some netizens and some media accounts also believe that the policy does not take into account the female medical staff who are fighting on the front line of the fight against the epidemic.
Some people believe that this policy emphasizes that " is mainly based on women ", which is obviously the " stereotype" of women .
New Weekly sarcastically on Weibo: "Sorry, they are fighting the epidemic on the front line", which has sparked discussions among many netizens.
Many netizens said: "Then let all the female doctors and nurses withdraw."
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Many netizens support the New Weekly. One is where the large number of female doctors and nurses who are fighting the epidemic on the front line should be placed; the other is "mainly women" and push "gender equality" into the public discourse space.
Recently, the topic of "gender equality" has been appearing in my circle of friends. Two days ago, I donated sanitary napkins and comfort pants to female doctors and nurses on the front line of the fight against the epidemic. In fact, this should have been discovered very early, but public opinion has attracted everyone's attention recently.
The video of a female nurse shaved her head that was also controversial online is difficult to calm down after watching.
"Shad the head", a collective heroic ceremony. In this brave retrograde, we also see women's respect for their profession.
The national crisis is in the face of the national crisis, for these women, they have to wear war clothes and go against the trend. But this forced sacrifice-style collective action of shaving heads has made many netizens and big Vs call for not shooting such videos again.
Indeed, when we think about whether front-line medical staff are adequate for masks, goggles, and protective clothing, few people think about whether female doctors and nurses on the front-line have enough hygiene products?
"Please see them, not the long hair they cut off." Hardcore forwarding such as
New Weekly actually forces the official to come out to respond to this question. So how did the official answer?
Yesterday, a staff member of the Jinan Municipal Education Bureau mentioned that this initiative was mainly issued by the Jinan Municipal Epidemic Response Leading Group (Command) on February 9 to enterprises and units stationed in Ji. The most important thing is to solve the problem of resumption of work and production of enterprises. "At that time, this suggestion was considered from the perspective of how to do it to be beneficial to the growth of minors." He told reporters from Nandu that mothers are more careful in taking care of young children and are more able to take care of children's emotions. "I hope the public will not over-interpret.
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"Attributes to the growth of minors"? How do you understand it?
Let's talk about the anxiety of Chinese women.
They are always worried that they are different from others. Especially after the age of 25, most women will be "married", "bringing", and "raising" The baby", "second child", "school district house", "tutoring class", and "mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship" are full of lines.
Why are Chinese women anxious? Because society has too unified labels for women.
Still remember last month, the live-action transformation program "Why are you so good-looking" made by Kun Ling, Wu Xin and others was "speaking" on the hot search.
A data was revealed in the program: Among the nearly 3,000 women, 89% of women think they are not good-looking enough. 90% of women believe that appearance and clothing will affect their self-confidence.
34-year-old female doctor who lives alone as the target of the first phase of the transformation, the program immediately labeled her.
"No lipstick", "No makeup", "No high heels" - it just doesn't look good. The quadruplet mother in the later episode of
asked her to appear on the show, and her husband's complaint was: After having a child, the mother revolved around the child all day and ignored her husband's feelings. Moreover, she is no longer delicate and beautiful, and is no longer centered on her husband. So he wanted his wife to care more about herself and become a delicate, beautiful and pleasing girl.
Anyone who has seen it feels a little embarrassed. He wants to be exquisite and beautiful and has to take care of four kids. Come and try it?
" Strange Talk " discussed a debate topic: Is it really a compliment for the mother to be a superman?
"Superman" itself is of course a compliment and praise, but behind this sentence is a kind of kidnapping.
Zhan Qingyun said in the show: "Why do they become superhumans? (Because) society has given them pressure beyond men, (So) they have to bear it with extraordinary willpower."
A while ago, there was a hot topic of # Should men take care of children#, which included various funny videos of fathers getting into trouble when they took care of children. There was also a PK vote, but the result was one-sided, and only 54 people thought that men should not be allowed to take care of their children.
I don’t know if these 54 people are patriarchal or absolutely trusting women. I still remember the hot article "My Wife, No Job", which describes in detail the daily life of a housewife:
Begins busy since the early morning, prepares breakfast for the family, and then sends the children to school, go to the vegetable market to buy vegetables, and then rush home to cook, clean the room, prepares dinner, and takes care of the children for meals. After the meal, washes tableware, tutors children’s homework, and then coaxes the children to bed.
24 hours a day, except for sleeping time, it is almost "on call".
But her husband complained to everyone: "My wife has no job, I am raising her." As a superman mother, she not only puts hard work and a lot of time, but also has to endure psychological pressure from all directions.
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So how should men take care of their children? We know that Nordic men are first-class in raising children. Their social model is that the heroine is the hero who is the hero who is the hero who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man who
Although Nordic men are handsome, they are so rough when raising children. This proves the unrealistic nature of Wu Xin’s show: Do you want me to be as beautiful as a flower? ? Try raising your baby yourself!
Why can Nordic dads take care of their children so naturally? It has something to do with policies and social atmosphere. For example, in Sweden , the father must take maternity leave to take care of the child, and must take 3 months to get his maternity leave salary.
In order to encourage fathers to take responsibility for taking care of their children, the Swedish government introduced the "daddy quota" as early as 1995, which specially allocated 30 days of parenting leave to newly-promoted dads. If the father does not take these 30 days, the couple will lose this month of paid parenting leave.
Let’s look at Finland . In addition to maternity leave, both husband and wife can also take a long time of parental leave. The cost of giving birth in the hospital and medical expenses after the child is free.
Of course, in order to ensure the normal operation of various enterprises and institutions, there is a limit on the time for couples to take maternity leave at home at the same time, about three weeks. Other times, you should stagger it, at least make sure that one person is working and the other is taking care of the children or resting.
is still the same old saying. While we are still shouting the slogans of "female equal rights" and "equal pay for equal work", Finnish men are already thinking about how to "turn over and be masters".
It is a very normal situation for European men to take care of their children. Have you noticed that in recent years, men have become popular in Japan.Whether in TV, news, magazines, even film and television dramas and comics, you can often see the image of healthy, handsome and capable fathers taking care of their children. They are called "raising men".
Although most of the impression that fathers take care of their children is "unreliable", their extensive parenting methods may actually have unique advantages.
Mom always wants to protect their children and prevent them from being hurt. They are always worried that their children will accidentally touch, fall, and get tired, but their fathers are different. They can encourage their children to take risks in moderation and try new things.
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A father who faces the computer and mobile phone all day long, a father who is always busy at dinners and business. Everyone knows your hard work and dedication to your family, but for the children, even if you take a lot of money home every month and buy a lot of toys, without real companionship and warmth, "Dad" is just a cold title.
As stated in China Women's News, the best solution to this problem is not simply determined by "indicators" such as gender, income, and age. It is determined based on mutual respect and equal consultation between family members, and on the consensus of mutual understanding, communication and consultation between employees and enterprises, based on the actual situation of the family, personal ability contribution, and the needs of resumption of work and production.
The epidemic is a test of the country and a test of the family. We must not only protect the "everyone" but also warm the "small family". Integrate sharing responsibilities, family affection, and together through thick and thin into family emotions, we can gather strong "family power" in winning the battle against the epidemic.
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Source: Cultural Talent Online (ID: eastcollege)
Author: Yunqian
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