black man, 32 years old, lives in Taipei,
is an internet celebrity video blogger.
2 For 2002, he has been to Taipei’s most lively and fashionable East District every weekend.
is on the street, randomly pairing strange single men and women.
has succeeded 1,000 pairs so far, and
even successfully got married and lived a happy life.
Black man is also called "Cupid".
And at the entrance of the clothing store where he often appears,
is even described by the media as the modern Yue Lao Temple!
Single men and women who have been successfully matched by black men
"Modern people are too busy,
fate becomes a luxury.
If I can become the fate between you,
is my greatest sense of accomplishment."
Self-reported by black men Mo Junwei
Black men will randomly look for single men and women on the streets
"Hello, are you single?"
On weekends, in the East District, the most fashionable area of Taipei, there is often a strong man holding a camera, looking for a lonely young man and woman, constantly asking about the other party's emotional status... Don't get me wrong, he is not an emotional liar.
Black man used to be a piano teacher. He came into contact with new media by chance five years ago and started shooting online short films with his friends. What he is most well-known is the "Travel Test Series". Because he can successfully get contact information from strange girls through funny and humorous methods in each video, he was named "Travel King" by netizens and became popular on both sides of the Taiwan Strait and three places.
Now every weekend, black men will bring their own cameras and appear on the streets of Taipei East District to help single girls on the street chat with single boys, hoping that they will recognize their future partner. He will shoot the entire pairing process and make a short video online.
Now, Black Man’s Youtube channel has more than 250,000 followers. In the past two years, he has successfully paired more than 1,000 strange pairs of men and women. Among them are ordinary white-collar workers, professional models, company executives, and even active navy... "What I am most amazing is that I once paired with a cement worker and was with a flight attendant. The two professions are different, but they have sparks!"
Black man believes that the videos he shot are all luxury goods: "Because modern people are too busy and have no time. Even if two people are very compatible, it is difficult to get together. This is how fate passes by, so I hope to become Cupid between single men and women."
The following is the black man's self-reporter:
is rejected by girls sixty times every day
Taipei East District is the most fashionable place in Taiwan. There are many people here, and there are often boys and girls, dressing in fashionable and tasteful. Every weekend, I will exit the subway station here to find single men and women who are destined to be with me.
pairing objects must be 18 years old and above. If you are underage, you should study hard first.
Generally I find girls first. When I see a nice girl passing by, I will take the initiative to run over: Are you single?
The core of my films is that it is completely real. I will randomly look for people on the street and will not accept early registration. So I am rejected by girls every day, and I will be rejected about sixty or seventy times a day.
Black men are used to being rejected by girls
A lot of girls I leaned over and thought I had any intentions and ran away immediately; some of them were single, but they were relatively low-key and would refuse politely. Then I will wish them happiness.
I have also encountered girls with good looks, education and personality, but they are actually "single with maternal fetus". I said I must help her find it.
If I am so lucky to find a single girl who is willing to cooperate, then I will begin to understand their standards for choosing a spouse.
Standards for choosing a spouse for boys and girls
I have paired up so many people, and I have found that girls have commonalities in their requirements for boys. More people suggest that they like boys who love to cook, and then they look good when they smile, love sports, and they are good at dressing and clean, which is higher than themselves.However, after many girls talk about a lot of conditions, they usually say "Just like Peng Yuyan is fine"...
However, recently, many girls have begun to like boys with single eyelids.
The criteria for boys to choose a spouse are quite consistent. If you like pure girls, don’t make up too much, and don’t pretend to be too pretentious in your personality. Some boys also asked to find short hair and big breasts... It was really difficult to ask girls based on this condition...
In addition to the external standards for choosing a spouse, I also had to learn about the other party as much as possible through several questions in a very short period of time.
I will definitely ask about dreams. For example, I often hear girls say they want to travel around the world and keep pets. Some of them are more filial and want to buy a house for their parents to live in.
Then zodiac signs must be asked, work must be asked, and leisure and entertainment must be asked! In this way, in a short time, in the simplest way, find the connection point between two strangers.
Single men and women who are randomly paired on the streets of black men
I have also gone to other cities to pair, Beijing, Shanghai, Chengdu, and Hong Kong. In Shanghai, I took photos near Xintiandi Nightclub in the city center, and everyone was having a crazy and excited time. It was winter when I went to Beijing, and it was very cold. I picked up the phone and broke it...
In fact, there was no obvious difference in the standards for choosing a mate in different places. The biggest difference is that there may be some girls in Shanghai who are very good at their own business, so the standards for choosing a spouse will exceed my scope... There is a girl who owns four or five clothing stores in Shanghai. She also longs for love, but the starting point is different.
pairing success rate is as high as 90%
I will treat the other party as my family, and help her find a partner with the mentality of my brother helping her sister find a partner.
Assuming the other party gives me one hour, I will look for it completely according to the conditions given by the girl in the first 50 minutes. If there are only 10 minutes left, I lowered my requirements and if the two of them look good, I will help me introduce it because all this is fate.
After finding the boy, I will return to the agreed location. Let the two of you first turn back to back, and don’t see each other. After introducing each other, they will slowly turn around, and strange men and women will meet for the first time.
Eyes cannot deceive people. Some people turn around and find that the other person is the type they like, and their eyes will immediately show joy. But some people will be disappointed, it is obvious.
I will follow up with their preferences, so that boys and girls can interact more. For example, holding hands, holding princess hugs, wall buzzing, etc., let them get to know each other more, and finally let both parties exchange social accounts so that they can have further contact in the future. More than 90% of single men and women will get to know the new opposite sex through my introduction.
What I hope most is of course that both of you give each other a full score of 10 points, so that I will feel a sense of accomplishment!
Andy and Zirou
the most grand: the family "checked" the paired girls
Once photographed a girl, her name was Zirou, and it was Mother's Day that day. When she was having dinner with the whole family, when I brought the boy Andy, the girl's grandmother came out first, just like a big guy, holding a cigarette in her mouth and keeping looking at the boy. After my grandmother thought the boy was good, she changed her aunt to see it, and then the girl's father came out to see it. After the whole family "checked" it, the girl came out to match it. It was very fun, like a traditional blind date.
is the most embarrassing: "Can you please don't..."
Of course, there are exceptions for
. I met someone who gave the other party 4 points at the lowest score, and some people who turned around and left directly.
Once, both boys and girls looked pretty good. Finally, I suggested that boys could kiss girls. The girl said yes, but the boy said, "Can you not want it?" Then I suggested that the boy hug the girl, but the boy still refused: "Let's just shake hands."
This is really embarrassing. Even I can't resolve it, so I can only keep laughing there.
Black man paired two boys Garrell and pony
the most wonderful: pairing boys boys
Once I met a very rough boy, very tall and straight. I stepped forward and asked him, "Sir, are you single?" He said, "Yes, but I like boys!" He only gave me ten minutes, and I started pairing boys for him. I knew he liked sports, so he immediately ran to the gym and kept grabbing different boys and asked, "Sorry, do you like boys?" He was really nervous.
finally helped him find a handsome boy. I still remember that both of them were a little shy at that time. Until now, both boys are still good friends.
Mirra and Zack met through the introduction of black men. Currently, the two started their own businesses in Taipei
The longest love: the paired men and women get married and have children
0 Among the men and women I have paired, many of them have become real lovers. Sometimes when they walk on the street, they will report their love situation when they meet me. Like this couple, Mirra, a girl, is a technology company employee, and Zack, a boy, is a badminton coach. They are dating well now and start a business together.
There are three or four couples who meet me because of my introduction and finally get married, and I feel very happy for them.
The most troublesome thing: the girl did not "receive" the product three times, just because the boy is too handsome
Last month I met a girl, and the first request she made to me was to find a handsome guy. I really matched him with a "tall, rich and handsome" and she finally gave someone 5 points because she thought they were too old and asked me to help her find another one. Finally found a young man, but she also disliked the boy's baby face.
Because the girl’s speech and appearance are very distinctive, I really hope to make this movie well, so I try to find one for her. The boy I found for her in the end was the handsome guy that everyone would be satisfied with. As a result, the girl commented that she looked good and had a suitable age, but she was too handsome and would feel insecure.
took three hours to find three boys, but she was still not satisfied. I was really vomiting blood at that time. I asked, "Have you had a smooth relationship? How many boyfriends have you ever had?" She told me that she had met scumbags before.
I think many times people who often don’t get good results in their relationship should not blame others, but look for the reasons from themselves. If the opportunity comes and you don’t even want to understand it in the preliminary way and only look at the appearance evaluation, you will definitely meet a scumbag.
Black man used to be a piano teacher
I used to work in the musical instrument store and specialize in teaching students to play the piano. Some Taiwanese artists, such as Prince (Qiu Shengxiang) and Wu Sixian, were once my students.
It was probably in 2014, and I helped an advertising company make music. They are planning a street experiment to see if a person faints on the streets of Taiwan, will there be any kind-hearted people coming to help. By chance, I found me to perform. This was my first time shooting a short online film.
This film, which only lasted for one and a half minutes, had nearly 1 million views on the first day it was uploaded to the video website, and later it was on TV news. I suddenly realized that the influence of online videos is so great, which is very interesting. After
, a series of street reality shows were planned. For example, the most famous one is the street-hailing series. Find girls randomly on the road, have some humor in front of them, and then get their contact information.
Black men are very good at picking up strange girls
"Beauty, do you like dogs? I am a single dog! Can you exchange phone calls?" Some girls will laugh when they hear such a cold joke and then give me their contact information. I have more than 5,000 girls’ contact information on my phone. I have added too many people, and I have changed several WeChat messages.
has been shooting for four years. Later, because he became famous on the Internet, many girls knew what I was going to do when they saw me on the road, so they took the initiative to come over and give me their phone number, which started to be no fun.
In fact, what netizens like to watch the most is real and non-false things.So I was discussing with my friend that I kept asking girls, and just helped girls chat with boys. This may have unexpected results. So I started doing it slowly.
In the past year, I left the company and started working alone. In the whole program before, I was the only one who was the cameraman, lighting engineer, host, video editing, and website operation.
Now my main source of income is the online advertising share on Youtube, which costs about NT$100,000 (about NT$20,000 to NT$30,000) per month. In addition, I will also receive some commercial performances or endorsements. The total monthly income is about NT$300,000 (about NT$60,000 to NT$70,000).
Black man and girlfriend Lucy
In addition to income, I also gained my other half for this show. Now my girlfriend actually met on the street. At that time, I was determined to match her with others, but I didn’t expect that I would pair myself to her later.
never thought that I would become an internet celebrity before. The goal given to myself when I was young was to become a world tour pianist at the age of 40. Now, I hope to become a "Cupid" who can tour the world at the age of 40 and go to different countries and regions to help single men and women there match.
Because it can become a fate between you, I will be really happy and have a sense of accomplishment.
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A: a black man
Q: How to chat with strangers to the opposite sex?
A: If you meet a girl who is moved on the street, there are really many ways to catch up with her. The more conventional one is to first give a brief introduction to yourself and then directly show that you really want to get to know the other person. Or like me, tell some cold jokes on the spot, show your sense of humor, get the contact information, and then chat slowly.
I believe that single girls will be a little happy if they are appreciated by serious boys. But one thing to remember is that no matter which method you take, you must be polite and sincere. The first impression is very important.
Q: Why can't I find the right partner?
A: When I help others pair, I often meet some people, and the conditions for opening are very subtle. Not only that, I believe many people have a lot of conditions to get to know strangers in the opposite sex. You need to be willing to contact the other party’s income, education, and family background.
is right, it is a good thing to have requirements for your partner. But I think the reason why many people are single is because of this, and they have too many requirements. In fact, the best state to know new opposite sex is to make new friends with the mentality of making new friends. Get to know more friends, have more options, and expand your circle of friends. That's all. When you gradually understand this person, you should talk about whether you like it or not and whether you should go down.
Q: I am quite shy. How to open a topic with the opposite sex?
A: I think the most important thing is to understand the other party before taking action. In fact, there are only few people who can talk endlessly in front of strangers. When facing unfamiliar opposite sex, especially the ones whom I have long been in love, I will be very nervous. So Moments and Instagram are very important, these are the places where every modern person shows his personality.
I would suggest everyone to do some small homework. Through social networks, we can understand the other person’s interests and hobbies and daily life, such as what he likes to eat and play, and what pressure he has been under recently, and then explore some common topics from it. Especially for people who are not good at expressing themselves, they can at least know what they can say by doing their homework. Otherwise, it would be too embarrassing to sit there and remain silent.
There are also many boys who like each other and keep showing their love. In fact, many times, after you understand each other a little more, you may not like it.
part of the picture provided by black man