people are unique in society. Everyone has different family backgrounds, different life trajectories, and the wealth they have is also different. There is no need to worry, nor do you have to envy others for having it earlier than you!
Cherish everything you have now and live according to your own wishes. You are also a very happy person.
1. I am an ordinary middle-aged woman Yishu said: "A woman's true "nobleness" comes from her sense of security in facing life."
And the sense of security in middle-aged women does not come from others, but from themselves.
I am an ordinary middle-aged woman whose lover has passed away. I have my own job and am now retired. There is no star-like beauty, only a daughter who lives as active as me and a hope for life. I don't know what nobility is, but I only know what love is.
Carnegie wrote in the book "Women's Pattern Determined the Ending": "Female independent women have the ability to create happiness, and they do not need to please or rely on men. Marriage is just the icing on the cake for them."
Perhaps financial independence is my confidence and my courage to live a good life.
A few years ago, due to family changes, I felt very inferior and always had a knot in my heart: What is the meaning of living in the world? Why live? Did I come to the world to make up the numbers in the first half of my life?
Time is the best healing agent, and I came back to life a few years later.
Count the 60 years I have been through this beautiful world. Most of the time I have lived in happiness, and occasionally I have some small anxiety. The anxiety point is probably uncontrollable for my future life. But this is how I try to make myself grateful and full of gratitude and glory for the current life.
is glad that I have a successful work experience, I am in good health, I have a few good friends and classmates who often care about each other, and my daily life is fulfilling.
I think this is the happiness of ordinary people that most ordinary women have like me.
I think everyone’s happiness is different, there is no fixed rule and pattern.
So, I am no longer anxious, I am very content.
2. Stay awake, do not compare, do not worry
A person is prone to lose his mind in comparison. When he cannot see his true self, he will breed a lot of troubles and is more likely to cause anxiety.
In this world, no one dares to say that their life is complete and that their way of living is correct.
No one is perfect, there are mountains outside the mountain. No matter how happy you are, there will always be times when you look up to others. On the contrary, some people will look up to you.
There were several years when I loved to visit clothing stores and went to see beautiful clothes whenever I had time. When entering the door, I was secretly reminding myself to be restrained. But often, when you see beautiful clothes, you get out of control. You always feel that you have to wear beautiful clothes to be worthy of yourself, and only by wearing beautiful clothes with your sisters can you be faced.
Over time, many clothes were pressed on the bottom of the box after wearing them a few times.
Looking back now, wearing new clothes frequently did not bring me much confidence, but it wasted a lot of money and time.
After awakening, I began to reduce the number of times I bought clothes. I started to buy some books and learned a lot of truths from the books, and my pain and anxiety were also relieved a lot. At this time, what is reduced is the number of times I buy clothes, which has greatly improved my life background.
There is no standard for happiness, and happiness is not measured by the amount of money and wealth, nor is it compared.
Real happiness is that the people in it are truly grateful for everything they have from the bottom of their hearts, and are sincere and enthusiastic in the present.
33. Middle-aged women, we live hard and no longer envy others' happiness
On the long road of life, everyone has their own cause and effect. Other people's happiness is their own blessing, and there is no need to envy them.
Sometimes envy can cause psychological loss, or loss and anxiety in the heart. Instead of envying others, it is better to carefully consider your own happiness and make yourself happy and happy.
Every middle-aged person has, has lost, has struggled, has fought, has succeeded, and has failed. Therefore, we are closer to death than young people and know more about death.
In order to have the happiness of the second half of life, we must withdraw our anxiety, grievances and powerlessness and irrigate our own spiritual paradise. The beginning of the second half of life is the starting point for cultivating the mind, raising nature, planting grass and growing flowers.
In this cold winter, I hope every middle-aged person can embrace his little happiness and start a new life bravely, instead of continuing to envy and continue to worry.
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