Shen Guan and Xiaozhuang met and were together 4 years ago. Shen Guan was an executive in a company, while Xiaozhuang was a flight attendant of an airline. It can be said that they were a combination of handsome men and beautiful women. After getting along for a few years, their

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At this time, the man who kept asking questions and the woman who kept saying "misunderstanding" were Shen Guan and his girlfriend Xiaozhuang from Changsha. The two of them had actually reached the point of talking about marriage. Shen Guan was also very good to his girlfriend Xiaozhuang, but he never dreamed that his girlfriend would treat him like this.

Shen Guan and Xiaozhuang met and were together 4 years ago. Shen Guan was an executive in a company, while Xiaozhuang was a flight attendant of an airline. It can be said that he was a combination of handsome men and beautiful women. After getting along for a few years, his relationship gradually stabilized, and Shen Guan began to work hard to get married.

However, not long ago, Shen Guan suddenly discovered that his girlfriend had a small account on her mobile phone, and she chatted with a man very enthusiastically. At the same time, the other party called Xiaozhuang "Little Wild Cat", which made Shen Guan very uneasy, thinking that his girlfriend betrayed her while she was not around.

But Xiaozhuang strongly denied this, saying that this is an ordinary friend and that he is like this without any taboos in speaking. Nothing happened to them. On the one hand, Shen Guan loved his girlfriend, and on the other hand, because she was about to get married, so she no longer pursued this matter. After

, at the strong request of his girlfriend, Shen Guan began to choose wedding rings with Xiaozhuang and studied the decoration style of the house. It seemed that everything was moving towards the direction of marriage, and the previous incident was just a small episode. But I never dreamed that what scared him the most happened.

August, Shen Guan completed the business trip in advance and went home, but found that there were two sets of toothbrushes at home, a pair of strange men's slippers by the bed, and there were a lot of unspeakable things and unknown liquids on the bed. So he immediately went to adjust the community surveillance and found that the night before yesterday, his girlfriend was wearing a flight attendant's suit and actually took a male colleague to the elevator. After that, he never saw the male colleague getting down from the elevator again.

This made Shen Guan both angry and desperate. He didn't understand why his fiancée treated him like this. Wasn't he good enough to her?

This was the first scene, but Xiaozhuang has always explained that this was a misunderstanding, just going out with friends to play, and Xiaozhuang's mother, Shen Guan's prospective mother-in-law, also came to communicate with Shen Guan, hoping that Shen Guan would give Xiaozhuang a chance. After all, both of them have reached the point of discussing marriage.

Out of love for Xiaozhuang, Shen Guan finally chose to forgive and agreed to forget everything in the past. From then on, the two of them lived a stable life. Then the two also formulated an agreement, which was to use a pen to stop caring about everything before marriage after marriage, and they were not allowed to mention this matter again.

Although all this made Shen Guan very sad, his relationship over the past few years really made it difficult for him to give up. I thought that after turning a blind eye to tolerance, Xiaozhuang would be able to live a good life with him, but the truth was contrary to his wishes.

A few days later, Xiaozhuang actually filed for a remorse and disagreed with marrying Shen Guan. At the same time, he had been kind and kind with himself before. He had discussed it carefully and changed his face. He directly accused Shen Guan of not being excellent enough and not worthy of her daughter. He also sarcastically said that Shen Guan had no money, saying that if a man did not have a strong economic foundation as a backing, who would not go home to him?

This hit Shen Guan a big blow, but Shen Guan later said a fact that surprised everyone present.

It turns out that in the past few years when Shen Guan and Xiaozhuang were together, the money transferred to their girlfriend alone was as high as more than 600,000 yuan. At the same time, the 240,000 yuan she bought a car was also the money given to her by Shen Guan. In addition, the total daily expenses, Shen Guan spent about 1 million yuan on Xiaozhuang in four years.

At this time, his girlfriend asked to break up. Shen Guan felt that he had been cheated and asked to break up, but Xiaozhuang had to return the money to him.

However, Xiaozhuang's reply believed that the money was the money that Shen Guan was willing to spend for himself, so why should he return it? However, Shen Guan said that the money was spent on him that he thought he would run to the marriage hall with Xiaozhuang, otherwise who would have spent 1 million in a relationship?

When Xiaozhuang heard these words, he was speechless and only expressed his agreement to return 600,000 yuan. However, Xiaozhuang did not return for the 600,000 yuan afterwards, and at the same time, he could not contact Shen Guan at all.

After Shen Guan found the reporter, hoping that Xiaozhuang would take the initiative to come to him and pay back the money after seeing this, otherwise it would be ruled out that the use of legal weapons would be used. Shen Guan said that this was not something he wanted to see.

In fact, it can be found that Shen Guan still has a deep love for Xiaozhuang. Even though she knew that she betrayed her and took her male colleague home on a business trip and had such conclusive evidence, she still chose to forgive her. This kind of mind is indeed incomparable to ordinary men.

It is true that if you love someone, you have to accept everything about her, which includes her emotional experience before marriage. After all, no one is a piece of paper, and there will be more or less old things.

However, Xiaozhuang has been in a relationship with Shen Guan and has already had an engagement, and she has a constant ambiguous relationship with other opposite sexes. Is this really worth forgiven? I want to make a big question mark, because it is not a problem with emotions at all, but a cheating, betrayal, and moral damage.

This reminds me of a post I read a long time ago, saying that the man had been discovering his fiancée cheating. He was on KTV for the first time and then chose to forgive him. The second time he met her and checked a room with the opposite sex, but he still chose to forgive him. The third time his fiancée actually had an ambiguous relationship with the man in the car downstairs of his home. The most speechless thing is that the man called his fiancée, which made his fiancée furious: "Do you just don't trust me so much? I'm at home?"

. The man said calmly: "I've been home, right next to your two cars?" In response, the woman's attitude immediately calmed down and got off the car and said: "You can find out wherever I go. What else can I say? Break up!" The evil man complained first!

I remember someone said that "there is only zero times and countless times in cheating." Xiaozhuang is so dirty, really doesn't deserve to have feelings. The reason why Shen Guan can forgive me is that in addition to having feelings, it is also related to the huge expenses in the past four years.

Indeed, for ordinary people, the cost of 1 million is definitely not a small amount. This can make my girlfriend very touched, but I didn't expect that my girlfriend and her mother turned a blind eye.

I don’t know what happened to Xiaozhuang and his mother that day after that, and why the attitude changed by 180 degrees. I only know that since I took other people’s money and were not with others, it is natural to refund the money, and there is nothing to argue about.

If the money is not refunded in the end, it is reasonable for Shen Guan to go through the legal process. Don’t blame Shen Guan if both sides suffer and become enemies at the same time, but they are the mother and daughter who suffer themselves.

To be honest, it’s nothing to spend money for love, but before spending money, you must tell whether the other party is worthy of your efforts. Don’t just take out everything about yourself because the other party is beautiful. This will easily make you say nothing about it, and be ridiculed by the other party and ignore your efforts. Such feelings are really sad.

In order to find true love, you must observe more and manage more. Although men can give first, there must be appropriate rewards. Such feelings are fair and long-lasting. Blindly giving one-sidedly will only make the relationship unbalanced. Maintaining a rational heart to love and be loved is the happiness of life!