Only by letting children learn to give can education be considered successful - Preface. Today, my mother participated in the new curriculum standard training. The teacher told an interesting little story. My mother was filled with emotion and thoughts.

chicken who has been fed for several months has passed away, and you are very sad.

The cute primary school student in the story reminds your mother of your childhood and loves small animals. Every year on the fifteenth day of the first lunar month, they will urge mother to take you to the exhibition hall to buy chickens.

Colorful chicks roll around like a pom ball. You like it so much and can’t let go. In the end, you can only buy one of each color.

On the way home from the bus, you held the chick, cautious and smiling.

When you get home, you are busy, like a little chicken chirping, running around. I urge my father to make a chicken coop and give the chicken a comfortable and warm home; I urge my mother to make the chicken food, so that the chicken can be full.

From now on, taking care of chicks is your happiest job every day. The first thing you do when you wake up in the morning is to see the chicks, make water and food for them, and when you come back from school in the afternoon, put down your schoolbag and go play with the chicks, take the chicks for a walk in the living room, and say good night to the chicks every night before going to bed.

The death of the chick is your saddest moment. While crying, you put it in an exquisite small box, buried it under a big tree on campus, and held a grand funeral for the chick with the children in the yard, which moved your parents very much.

Whether it is the little boy's cherishment of watermelon or your reluctance to give up on the chick, it all explains one truth: only by giving can you cherish it.

The watermelon piled into hills on the street, no matter how sweet it is, the little boy may not feel it or even turn a blind eye; but he has a special liking for a small watermelon he planted himself. The reason is that in the process of serving watermelon, the child has put in hard work, hard work, and sweat. Watermelon is the crystallization of his sweat and the harvest after he makes efforts. Just like a farmer planting in spring and harvesting in autumn, how can he not cherish it?

There are hundreds of chickens in the chicken farm. No matter how beautiful or well-behaved you always feel that you are not as beautiful and cute as the chicken you raise. The reason is that in the process of raising chicks, you put in time, energy and emotions. Chicks grow up day by day under your hard work. They are the rewards of your hard work. How can you not like the gains after you give.

These two things give profound inspiration to parents, teachers and other educators:

1. Education is like farming. If you sow, you should gain something.

In the process of raising children, parents' hard work is sowing, and cultivating a healthy, capable and loving child is harvest. If parents only give and don’t know how to make children give, it is like just knowing how to sow but not knowing how to harvest.

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2. guides children to learn to give, and is the golden key to solving problems.

Some children are lazy and turn a blind eye to their parents' efforts; spend money and don't cherish them, etc., which makes parents helpless and have a headache. The best way to solve the problem is to let him learn to give. Psychologists tell us that the more a person loves to give, the more he will be able to love. Whether for people or things, the longer they take care of, the more they pay, the greater their sacrifices, and the more they know how to cherish. The sooner the habit is cultivated or corrected, the better. Once a child becomes accustomed to "no need to pay, just pay attention to the gains", it will be difficult for him to give.

3. Parents should actively support their children in participating in housework and let them gain more sense of value.

Participating in housework is a kind of dedication. We parents should guide our children to do housework from an early age. He doesn't want to teach him patiently. Even if he makes a mess or even makes trouble in a busy situation, that doesn't matter. We must believe that he will do better and better.

Sometimes, the child accidentally breaks the bowl while washing dishes; when he is on the ground, he accidentally throws the sewage on the white wall... It doesn’t matter, don’t blame the child, give more guidance and encouragement. If you don't let him do housework again, he will not only lose the opportunity to exercise, but also have the interest in doing housework, and even confidence and self-esteem, thinking that he can't do anything.

Sometimes, when the child does it, parents think it is better not to do it, and they have to do it again, but this is not the key. The key is that the child has improved his self-confidence and gained an important mentality - a sense of value. Parents must learn to enjoy the fruits of their children's labor and encourage them to continue to do so that they can learn to give and learn to love.

Children, you may suffer from your efforts, but you will be happy after all your hardships; you may suffer from losses, but suffering is a blessing. "I'll do it!" This is a sentence you often say, to your parents, friends, and classmates. You are willing to give and diligent in giving because you understand in your heart: the excellent qualities such as confidence, optimism, good popularity and all the skills and skills you master today are the results and gains of your efforts.

Only by being willing to give can you get the purest joy - postscript.

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