A while ago, the surrogacy incident of "little fairy" Zheng Shuang caused a sensation across the country and affected many people in the circle. One of them is Xu Jinglei .
Netizens who are not interested in watching the fun are revealed and Xu Jinglei's remarks about surrogacy in an interview program in the early years, and criticisms were heard everywhere.
Interestingly, Xu Jinglei, a talented woman known as "the big girl in Beijing circle", responds differently from ordinary people:
"Tell me, my mouth is on someone else's face."
is at the forefront of public opinion. Such a response has to be said to be really "Xu Jinglei".
Xu Jinglei's "Biao" and "Sa" are also reflected in her rich love history: "I have never stopped my boyfriend since
1974, Xu Jinglei was born in an ordinary family in the imperial capital, and her parents are both working-class people. Although he is not a wealthy family, he has never lacked anything since he was a child.
Father Xu Zijian has high hopes for her and starts with her education since childhood.
In order to carefully cultivate Xu Jinglei, Xu Zijian even customized the thick parenting books, all of which are hard-working hand-written versions, which can be said to be well-intentioned.
Life and study were arranged clearly by Xu's father:
English for 1 hour, 1 copy of brush calligraphy, 1 diary, 1 sample reading on Sunday, 20 minutes of morning jogging, 30 minutes of walk after meals, etc.
When someone was still playing on the swing of mud at the age of 5, Xu Jinglei began to practice calligraphy bitterly, and was forced by her parents to strictly train every day.
Xu Jinglei was also a success. With her expertise in calligraphy in elementary school, she was admitted to Chaoyang District No. 80 Middle School in Beijing.
childhood boring calligraphy training gave Xu Jinglei a lot of gains. Not only did he practice good handwriting, he also created "Fang Zheng Jinglei Simplified Chinese" based on his handwritten fonts.
She is the first star in China to launch a personal font library. You should know that those who have such honors before were all famous in the domestic calligraphy world.
Xu Jinglei also won the title of "No. 1 Talented Girl in the Entertainment Industry" .
In addition to calligraphy, Xu Jinglei also fell in love with painting when she was young. She had to travel through half a Beijing City from home to the studio.
It's a long way, but she's enjoying it.
At that time, she was determined to take the stage and arts and crafts academy of Central Opera , but in the end, things went against their wishes, and the artist's dream was completely shattered.
1993, fate played a big joke with Xu Jinglei. She had no foundation in literary performance and went to the performance department of Beijing Film Academy by chance.
The classmate is Alyssa Chia , Liu Zi , Liu Lin (the eldest lady in "Knowing or Not"), and the class teacher is Yu Feihong .
Xu Jinglei, who grew up under the strict educational environment of her father, completely let herself go after she went to college and let her temperament go.
also played rock and roll. He was so slutty all day long that he made himself dirty, without any girlish look.
It was also in this year that Xu Jinglei starred in the TV series "You in the Deskmate" produced by Gao Xiaosong (later renamed "Unruly Youth"), and was shot into the film and television industry in the first place.
When we embarked on the road of shadow, we also embarked on the gorgeous love history path.
36-year-old Wang Shuo, who was full of energy, met Xu Jinglei, who was young and beautiful at the age of 20, and felt that he had met too late. The two of them quickly got married and did not leave any face for Wang Shuo's wife Shen Jiaxu at all.
Wang Shuo later responded to his acquaintance with Xu Jinglei and commented:
"Xu Jinglei was born in rock fruit. When she was a child, she liked rock fruit. She was born in Beijing and had the most upright style. She played sloppy and handsomely, but she was just a young man who was completely ungrateful. I especially like this kind of person."
There is another small episode in the middle. It is rumored that Gao Xiaosong has always been in love with Xu Jinglei at this moment and has a special love for her. He also wrote a song about her, "Lai" sung by Lin Yilun .
Helplessly, Xu Jinglei's thoughts are not at all here, so the following text is gone.
Xu Jinglei and Wang Shuo's ambiguousness made "Big Sister in Beijing" Hong Huang very disliked, so he wrote a meaningful and meaningful writing A short article that reflects the relationship between the two:
His lover publicly confronted his wife and said, "I have been swaggering in your house, so you can give him to me."
His wife said to the girl who was 20 years younger than her very calmly, "You don't understand, I am his fuck, you can't replace me."
After the two got together, Wang Shuo used his Beijing circle connections to pave the way for Xu Jinglei, and the TV series "New Romance Era" and "A Romance Things" followed one after another.
1998, starred in "Take Love to the End" with Li Yapeng and Wang Xuebing. The role of "Wenhui" made Xu Jinglei famous all over the country, and since then he was given the title of "National First Love".
When filming " A Romance and Flowing ", Zhao Baogang gave the fledgling Xu Jinglei a particularly high evaluation:
"There is no Xu Jinglei in the entertainment industry for five years. I chose her in 1995. By 2000, no actor was better than her."
With the support of Wang Shuo, Xu Jinglei's acting career started to take a break, and she went smoothly in the entertainment industry and became a popular fan.
performs and is good at directing. Xu Jinglei wants to establish her "talented woman" character and develop in multiple ways.
So, Wang Shuo once again showed his "boyfriendship" and did everything himself to protect her. The first work directed by Xu Jinglei, " My Dad and Me ", was born.
This movie also won the Director's debut award at the 23rd China Film Golden Rooster Awards.
In those years, the confusing relationship between Xu Jinglei and Wang Shuo was unpredictable to the outside world. Intimate photos were taken many times, but the parties involved denied it.
Don’t ask, it’s a “friendship relationship”.
Later, Wang Shuo talked about his relationship with Xu Jinglei, and he said:
"Our relationship is very special. I am willing to leave all the money to her after I die."
Whether it is a confidante or a relative. Intimacy does not delay finding boyfriend and girlfriend.
Outsiders can just say one thing: the relationship in the entertainment industry is indeed complicated enough!
In order to further consolidate his "talented woman" character, his development will inevitably blossom in full swing, and Xu Jinglei started to make a record.
If you want to enter the music industry and sing, then someone needs to cultivate it, right? At this time, I met the Three Treasures.
at that time Sanbao was a famous music producer in the circle. In 1989, he created the song "The Light of the Asian Games" for the Beijing Asian Games. The popular songs "Seeking Away" and "Dark Fragrance" were also written by him.
Because of the strong music, the talented two people quickly sparked sparks and got together.
It is said that they have been talking for three years, and Xu Jinglei cherishes this relationship very much and originally thought she could go to the end. Unexpectedly, not long after, Sanbao fell in love with someone else after turning around. After the romance between
and Sanbao, Xu Jinglei's "harvest" talented people did not stop.
In 2005, Xu Jinglei was photographed shopping with music genius Zhang Yadong ( The two met at a party as early as 2001).
When he was having an affair with Xu Jinglei, Zhang Yadong's girlfriend was Gao Yuanyuan .
Speaking of this prodigal son Zhang Yadong in the rock circle, he is also a male classmate with a very story. His love history is even better than Xu Jinglei. He has captured the hearts of many female celebrities in the circle with his talent and a handsome face.
Sure enough, the goddesses always admire talented people. This also confirms what Xu Jinglei said before:
"When I was a child, I might like talented boys. Now, in addition to being talented, I also have handsomeness."
When he first met Gao Yuanyuan, Zhang Yadong was already married. His wife was Fai Wong ex-husband Dou Wei sister Dou Ying .
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At the shooting scene of Faye Wong's MV, Gao Yuanyuan, who went to visit his friend, fell in love with Zhang Yadong at first sight, and Zhang Yadong also fell in love with the young and beautiful Gao Yuanyuan at first sight.
The young soul, restless heart, touched gently, sparks everywhere. A pair of eyes, fell in love with it.
Zhang Yadong turned his head and divorced Dou Ying, holding Gao Yuanyuan's hand.
Heavenly Way is a good cycle, no one can avoid it. This time, for Xu Jinglei, Zhang Yadong abandoned Gao Yuanyuan who had been in love for 5 years.
naive Gao Yuanyuan, said more than once in the interview that he was ready to marry Zhang Yadong at any time. Unexpectedly, what was waiting for was a breakup.
The most magical thing in the entertainment industry is that you never know where the relationship between celebrities will develop, and who will be their next partner.
When you thought you would wait until Xu Jinglei and Zhang Yadong were officially released, Xu Jinglei's boyfriend changed another one.
In 2004, Xu Jinglei entered the big screen again, writing, directing and acting in the second movie " Letter from a Stranger Woman ", starring Jiang Wen and Huang Jue . After the filming of the
, Huang Jue Xu Jinglei's relationship was extraordinary. She fell in love with Xu Jinglei both inside and outside the play, and Huang Jue's identity as a "true boyfriend" was only officially announced.
In February 2005, the two were photographed in the same frame by the media many times. Huang Jue lived in Xu Jinglei's apartment and drove her car.
also took photos by the way Gu Xu Jinglei's pet is like a couple in love.
was also revealed to have lived together for more than a year, and went shopping together in the mall, and bought household goods private life. During the 2008 Olympics, the two were also photographed going to the United States to enjoy the world of two.
These signals seem to tell us: good things are coming soon.
In 2008, the two were also rumored to have obtained a marriage certificate. Xu Jinglei's response was as follows:
"It doesn't matter to me whether I get married or not. If I really want to get married, I think I will not be the same as before. I am not an unscientist, but I am sure I am an insultist. Marriage is just a piece of paper, just be free to be together. "
For some reason, Xu Jinglei and Huang Jue chose to break up peacefully in 2009.
The two changed from lovers to friends, and their relationship ended in 4 years without success, which made countless spectators sigh.
In 2011, Huang Jue got married in a low-key manner. When mentioning Xu Jinglei in the interview, he denied his relationship back then:
"We have always been friends, very, very good friends, and friends who are all-knowing. "
Xu Jinglei's response is also particularly intriguing:
"Huang Jue is my very good friend. ”
also said, “Long before the media learned the news, I knew that Huang Jue’s marriage had not had time to prepare a gift for him. "
Sure enough, love in the entertainment industry is just a play, and it must not be taken seriously. Even the parties involved do not want to admit it, and as a spectator, they can only laugh it off.
needs to be mentioned here. It is reported that during his relationship with Huang Jue, Xu Jinglei, who had no resistance to talented men, had a hot fight with Han Han , who was 8 years younger than him, and staged a "sister-brother relationship".
In early 2006, Han Han went to Beijing to see Xu Jinglei being photographed. He met a soulmate in the mountains and rivers. The two had a great time talking. After the photo of the party was exposed, the public opinion at that time was as follows: two people who love to hype got together.
" Dasami " Xu Jinglei responded domineeringly:
"That's right, Han Han is here to see me, and it's just us. But they are all adults, do you still need to report to teachers and parents? Meeting friends is a very common thing. "
also particularly emphasized that he is just a friend relationship with Han Han, not as rumored by the outside world, he is a partner:
"Friends are friends, we will not stop being friends because of rumors."
" What era is it now? Is it necessary for men to chat with women to have that kind of relationship? "
Whether to have a partner or not, we outsiders don't know whether it is ambiguous or not, but two talented people must appreciate each other and cherish each other.
The two of them are squirting the two squats called "friendship".
Xu Jinglei's ability to respond so frankly and generously also shows that this scandal is indeed a sensation.
35 years old, when the current people became Xu Jinglei's close friends, the handsome man Huang Lixing sang "The sound wave is too strong and you will be hit on the ground if you don't shake." slowly walked towards Xu Jinglei.
2009, the movie " Du Lala's Promotion " directed and starred by Xu Jinglei invited Huang Lixing to play the male lead Wang Wei.
in the play, the two played a couple together due to work. Couple, the love expert Xu Jinglei continued the heroine's relationship outside the play.
"Du Lala's Promotion" The two began to have a relationship. Xu Jinglei, who always adhered to the attitude of "not admitting or denying" about her relationship, did not unexpectedly give the outside world a clear reply.
After this, in 2011, the two collaborated on the movie "Intimate Enemy" , which is still directed by Lao Xu , and Huang Lixing co-starred.
collaborated on two movies in succession and was filmed in the same frame many times, Xu Jinglei's attitude towards love is still "looking at flowers in the fog".
beat Lao Xu to death, who refused to admit his relationship. On August 2, 2014, he suddenly posted such a secretly showing his love Weibo :
" I haven't been blushing for five years, and I haven't quarreled. It's amazing. The right person is the one who makes you better. "
From 2009 to 2014, it was exactly five years. Everyone knew that it was Huang Lixing.
In sharp contrast with Xu Jinglei's rich love history, Huang Lixing's emotional experience is like a blank piece of paper. The exposed ex is only the powerful singer Yang Naiwen .
It is reported that Huang Lixing and Yang Naiwen only dated two It was announced in more than a week that friendly ended. After breaking up,
became a good friend. Later, Huang Lixing released a new album and wanted to shoot the MV, and Yang Naiwen was invited to help.
A movie " Kidnapper " directed by Xu Jinglei cleverly connected the three of them.
Xu Jinglei, who was particularly relaxed in love, specially invited her boyfriend Huang Lixing's old love Yang Naiwen to sing the theme song "Desergeant". ht At the ml3
movie press conference, the ex-boyfriend and the current one were in the same frame. Huang Lixing did not feel embarrassed at all, and he was relaxed and relaxed. The three of them took a happy photo.
There is an ex, and most people avoid it, for fear of causing unnecessary speculation. But the way Xu and Huang get along with their ex and deal with their ex is admirable.
Perhaps, similar views on feelings are one of the reasons why they got together.
Huang Lixing mentioned a very important word when talking about why it was Xu Jinglei: personality .
November 4, 2018, Xu Jinglei, who was nourished by love, posted another post to show her love:
"For more than nine years, I have been sick from time to time, you will always have medicine. "
The whole text does not mention the three words "Huang Lixing", but every word reveals the happiness and sweetness of being pampered.
talks about whether to get married and get married, she said:
"I think everything is fine now, life is 100 points, and life will not become 120 points because of marriage. ”
Now 47-year-old Xu Jinglei has been in love with Huang Lixing for more than 10 years. The way they get along with each other is only in love but not married is envied by many people, and many people think that if they don’t get married, they are irresponsible.
I haven’t chosen marriage for many years. Xu Jinglei once admitted that she was too influenced by her original family and her parents often quarreled, which left a big shadow on her.
She is a pessimist about the nature of marriage.
Faced with the outside world's doubts about her not getting married, she has her own attitude:
"I don't need the whole world to love me, the person I love just love me, and other people love me, I think it's a burden. I'm very happy, why don't you bless me?"
And for having a child, Xu Jinglei was in the United States when she was 39 years old. I froze 9 eggs. I didn't do this because I wanted to have a baby. She said: "This is the only regret medicine in the world."
also emphasized: "It is impossible to spend a full ten months to do the things that give birth to a child."
in an interview said lightly that I may prepare for a surrogacy in the future and will not give birth to myself.
also said: "This is normal. Many people around you are like this. Twin triplets are all."
This surrogacy remark was once again exposed by netizens because of Zheng Shuang's surrogacy incident. The attitude of "I choose and I support" towards surrogacy has made most netizens say that they have ruined their views.
Xu Jinglei, 47 years old this year, still lives his own way and does not marry or childbirth, just to be happy and comfortable.
work has reduced production a lot, and spent more time on life. Usually, they either walk around, travel freely, or stay at home to draw, and lick cats.
As soon as he was interested, he cooked and showed off his love. He lived a happy life.
feels regretful for Xu Jinglei? pity? I don't think so.
Are you bound to be happy when you get married? not necessarily. Is it necessary to be unhappy if you don’t get married? Not necessarily.
Regardless of whether you get married or not, the most important thing is what you want to pursue.
If you understand yourself, you won’t fall into trouble.
From Gao Xiaosong, Wang Shuo, Sanbao, to Zhang Yadong, Huang Jue, Han Han, and the final winner Huang Lixing, the love history of the generation of "first love for the people" and "the goddess of literature and art" Xu Jinglei has come to an end for the time being.
Fortunately, after more than 20 years of searching, "Da Sami" Xu Jinglei finally found someone who can give her "medicine".
As for whether you can spend your life together, is it important? It is wise to enjoy the present.
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