What should I do if I only meet true love after getting married?
Yimin is facing this problem now.
She is a housewife, her husband works in Hsinchu and will only come back to live on weekends.
has a child, 5 years old, suffering from high-functioning autism.
is actually no different from ordinary children, but they are not very good at getting along with others.
When she talks to others about her child’s illness, she always follows this sentence:
That day, she went to the wedding of a high school classmate and met a person she hadn’t seen for a long time.
She thought this was just an ordinary meeting.
Until a few days later, the person asked her at home:
Why don’t you have a high chair at home?
...a very high-end high chair
She suddenly was stunned for a moment, something was in her mind, and her heart slowly recovered.
Once again, her heart was hit by this girl.
This is the story of "The Moment of Meeting the Scent of Flowers for the First Time" . (hereinafter referred to as Meet the Fragrance of Flowers)
Same-sex love, but everyone may face the issue:
# Should we be moral in love? #
The whole drama is the duration of a movie.
The two protagonists have good CPs, but the key is not the same-sex.
is just taking homosexual love as opposite sex love.
is not accurate.
This drama abandons the distinction between genders and focuses only on human love.
It breaks the orthodoxy of heterosexuality as soon as it comes out.
Yimin attended her classmate’s wedding but went to the wrong place.
She gave the red envelope to the person receiving the gift and asked:
Could you please ask the woman’s red envelope is given to...
People said that both sides are women. Yimin was stunned for a moment, then looked at the photos. There were two girls wearing wedding dresses on it.
only realized that I was going wrong.
This same-sex marriage is like giving Yimin a vaccination.
Yimin is passive and unconsciously walked into the scene of same-sex marriage.
Just like she is also passive in this relationship, following her step by step.
A brave and direct girl who is two years younger than her.
Yimin actually saw Tingting at the wedding banquet. She looked at it for a long time, but Tingting didn't notice her.
She picked up her phone and wanted to send a text message, but was accidentally scattered by wine, but the text message was not sent out.
Tingting only watched her leaving her back after she waited for her to go to the bathroom.
Tingting took the initiative to take the taxi home.
After Yimin got off the bus, she looked at the taxi that was leaving and was walking home when her phone rang.
Then the phone was not mentioned, she already knew who it was.
It turned out that she forgot to get wedding cake . Tingting had an excuse to contact her again and meet again.
-Tell me when you have time, this is my phone number
-I know, your number has not changed
-I am afraid that you will forget
This is a tacit conversation.
The two of them expressed eagerly and restrainedly that they cared about each other, for fear that the other party would see it and that the other party would not be able to see it.
Ambiguous feelings grow in the conversation between the two parties.
Photographed love, it was ambiguous.
Especially love in the Eastern context, ambiguity is an uncertainty.
You can determine your own feelings, but you cannot determine the other person's feelings.
And sometimes, you can't even determine your own feelings.
So, there will be temptation, and ordinary words will become meaningful.
is like a conversation in a high chair.
In high school, Yimin once said that if you get married in the future, you should have a high chair at home, just like a very high chair by the window in the movie scene.
Tingting said:
From then on, we put a high chair by the window of our house
What color do you want
Yimin smiled and said:
I am not talking about the kind of roommate
That is, I will get married in the future, have a husband and children at home
A bold test was blocked back in confusion.
At that time, Yimin could not understand Tingting's implications at all.
When the two met again, Tingting asked about the high chair, she probably understood.
Tingting's loss at that time has not been resolved after so many years, and has turned into a question of her current life, just like her problem at that time.
Why, you have to get married to have a home?
And her current life undoubtedly did not give a good answer.
Even if you get married and have children as required by traditional values, it is far from your ideal life in your youth.
Even without the blessing of the same-sex element, the love story of "Smelling the Scent of Flowers" can still touch people.
Two elements: Contrast and contrast .
Yimin and Tingting are all contrasting characters from the inside to the outside.
Yimin is a senior in the year. She looks bold on the outside but is gentle on the inside.
Tingting looks like a harmless little white rabbit, but in fact she is bold and courageous inside.
is Tingting has been "strategy" Yimin.
takes the initiative to talk to Yimin, join the volleyball club, takes the initiative to take Yimin home, and takes the initiative to kiss Yimin.
Meeting after many years, Tingting took the initiative to contact Yimin.
Mrs. Wang, when will we meet again?
Why did the relationship between the two not continue?
That means it is hard to calm down.
Maybe it was because I was not sure about my feelings in high school. By the time I could be sure, the woman had become someone else's wife.
This has to talk about the kernel of the movie.
Resistance in love.
With the changes of the times, the dilemma of homosexual love has finally become the same as heterosexuals.
That is only about self-selecting.
When the equal rights movement was not yet on the rise, homosexual groups faced it as social disagreement. This is the case with " Brokeback Mountain " filmed by Ang Lee .
Two male gods can only choose to marry in a physical manner because of social disagreement.
Each person gets married and has children, and every year chooses a time to meet in the mountains far away from the world.
What prevents homosexuals from union is mainly social disagreement.
to " Please call me by your name " has changed.
Italian town Riviera is like a paradise far away from the world.
Elio met Oliver from the United States and developed a deep relationship with him.
That summer, no one disturbed the relationship between the two. It was purely about Elio's self-growth. Through a different relationship, we know ourselves and love.
Social resistance disappears here, or is deliberately blurred. The separation and reunion of this relationship depends entirely on the choices of both parties.
"Smelling the Scent of Flowers" is the same.
Yimin looked at the two girls and talked about her relationship story. Her friends happily blessed her. Others were curious at most and didn't think this was something shameful.
The beginning of the first episode of
already illustrates the inclusiveness of society.
When social resistance does not exist, the separation and union of homosexual love is only related to their own choices.
So, homosexual love and opposite sex finally stood on the same starting line.
The core of the story "Smelling the Scent of Flowers" is the same as " Bridge Dream ".
The movie is made of a love that is unfair.
Francisca has been married for many years and has a pair of children. Her husband treats him well, but as a housewife, she often feels that her marriage life is dull and boring.
When her husband took his children to another place to attend the exhibition, photographer Robert walked into her heart and made her feel the long-lost passion.
If you just label Francesca as a scumbag, it will be too emotional and ignore the complexity of people. The good thing about
movie is that it does not provide reliable legitimacy to Francesca's cheating.
Her family relationship is harmonious. Although her husband is a little irritable and unconscionable, he is nice to her and his children are cute.
So, the torture of the movie is more profound.
How to choose between love, morality and responsibility?
When a person feels repressed in a marriage relationship, is he boldly leaving and pursuing love? Or stick to your post and fulfill your responsibilities?
This is also what I said about "Smelling the Scent of Flowers".
Yimin has gotten married and had children. Although her married life is far from her ideal life, her family relationship is not so bad that she has to divorce.
Love that was not sure about in high school has now disappeared from social pressure.
What puts her pressure on is her family responsibility.
Today's homosexual film and television dramas are discussing what the movies said thirty years ago.
This is a social progress.
thirty years ago Francesca did not choose to elope with her true love. She had adult concerns and sober:
"In fact, as soon as we leave here, everything will become
No matter how far we are from, this house has always been with me
I always every time I can feel that we are together
The pain in my heart will make me complain about why I love you
Then, even these beautiful four days will become dirty and become an error
If we leave, we will lose it (love)”
Then how should Yimin choose? There is no standard answer to this question
.
A movie, a TV series cannot give an answer.
Because people are too complex, family relationships are too complex, and society is too complex.
Fortunately today's society gives people a lot more room for choice.
can go or stay.
But no matter what choice is made, what needs to be determined is to know the consequences of the choice.
Then, be brave to bear it.
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