Love is pure, but marriage is not. In love, there are two people, and in marriage, there are two families.
A truly good marriage should be run by both parties, and it makes us all become better selves. Any marriage that attempts to change one's own destiny through marriage is shameless, that is legal prostitution. A marriage concept that is of equal status is not completely unreasonable, and a marriage without material conditions is not reliable. Of course, the most important thing is to be consistent in the three views.
I personally believe that the formation of three views is the result of the combined effect of "personal experience" + "other's experience" + "thinking development" + "personal desire". The personal experience, other people's experience, thinking development and personal desires of girls who have been to college will be different from those who have not attended college. Today, we will discuss whether academic qualifications have an impact on girls in marriage. I think it has an impact, and the opinions are different, so you can speak freely in the comment section.
Let’s see what boys think:
0 I will not comment on the above remarks, but it can be seen that most boys will still look at your external conditions when they get married. Boys are actually very realistic, don’t be brainwashed by Korean dramas. I will not discuss the individual cases of girls with particularly strong abilities here. Most girls have relatively average abilities. At this time, academic qualifications and family backgrounds will be very important. Those who say that studying is useless always like to use individual examples to illustrate things. For ordinary girls, it is not easy to find a job without education, background, and ordinary appearance. If you have a bachelor's degree, as long as you don't commit suicide, there is still no problem in living at a moderate level.
A netizen joked: The biggest difference is that those who have never been to college will laugh at those who have been to college for being useless, while those who have been to college will not laugh at those who have not been to college. When a person's vision is open, there are more goods in his stomach, his three views will develop towards the positive side.
Not to mention anything else, will those people on the Internet who say that their education is useless let their daughters, sons, and even granddaughters drop out after junior high school or high school?
Let me tell you a real feeling. I have two relatives, both of whom are rural girls, one of whom took the undergraduate degree and the other was in junior college. The girl who worked in Nanjing had already bought a house and a car, and the other girl got married and had children because her mother-in-law couldn't bring her alone. She had been taking care of her children at home for a period of time. The villagers said what's the use of going to school, it's different to have children! To be honest, it’s too different. First of all, the mother-in-law’s attitude is different. One feels that he owes his wife and the other feels it’s natural. Secondly, my husband’s attitude towards family is different. One often helps the other to be an old man at home. The educational environment is also different. The environment has a great impact on people. One is to personally tutor the children. The other is busy with housework and basically ignores the children's learning.
The life trajectories of two girls who have poor birth backgrounds are different. Of course, this is influenced by many factors, but the world they see and know are different, which leads to different ways of understanding the world. The real society has a choice for them in terms of education.
Teacher Xu hopes that everyone can invest more in their studies and make themselves stronger.
Today is the Chinese Valentine's Day. You can believe in love, but please don't just marry "love".
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