People who like to reply to WeChat in seconds usually have these three tempers. Are you there?
Every kind of relationship needs to respond to
The four difficult moments in life are to eat halfway waiting for dishes, take a bath and wait for water, watch videos and wait for advertisements, and wait for you to reply when chatting.
However, don’t forget that this is an era where everyone keeps their hands on their mobile phones.
He wants to reply to your message long ago. You are waiting for an answer, but you don’t know that not replying is the biggest answer.
Many people have experienced those messages when they are sent out, and they are waiting for them.
I think it is precisely because of this that we cherish the people around us who reply to messages in a timely and seriously, right?
Just like they said:
people like this have their own persistence and their own temper.
But please believe that every temper is a manifestation that only one person can care about.
The world of adults should have heard two words: Another day and looking back.
opened the chat record with your ex, and couldn't help but smile bitterly. The frequency of these two words appears is extremely high.
I still remember when he was preparing to get married last year, he was busy with work and traveling on business all over the world.
I am worried that I can’t always disturb him with trivial matters. I take care of most of the things I do. I occasionally ask for the venue of his hotel and the design of the invitation. I often see no movement there for a long time. After a long time, I replied:
is busy, let’s talk about it later.
holds a meeting and discusses another day.
However, this time I turned out to be no news, and another day there was no further information.
When asked about the reason, he always said: Forgot.
The wedding was not held until I was done. I lost all my patience and saw it thoroughly -
A person who has no sense of participation in the wedding will probably not be too involved in the marriage in the future, right?
is like the line in the movie "He actually doesn't like you so much":
He is very busy, he is almost crazy, he can't take time to call you in a day, he is so crazy.
has mobile phones, speed dialing, and even voice dialing, why don’t you have time to make a call? If you really like it, you will not forget it. If you forget it, it means he doesn't care about you being disappointed.
Busy is a weapon of mass destruction in love, and is synonymous with bastards. Bastards are the person who uses busy to perfunctory you.
Think of a friend of mine who was in a different place with my husband.
Some time ago, because something happened at home, I posted a message on Moments, saying that I was really unhappy during this period.
That day we happened to have dinner outside together, and my friend’s husband called the video call -
He said: I’ll come back to see you.
Friend said: Don’t you say you are very busy? How can I have this time?
He said: For you, I can be not busy.
He is leading a team of forty or fifty people, and it is really hard to make time.
But it doesn’t matter if you are tired or running around in order to meet each other.
Fu Seoul said:
Leisure, leisure.
love is all idle.
If you still have feelings while busy, it is probably true love.
agrees deeply.
For ordinary and ordinary people, the best love words in this world are probably not "I love you", but "I am very busy, but I am willing to have time for you."
What is willing?
Maybe it's -
I have never asked you to reply to every message in seconds, but no matter how busy you are, remember to take the time to give me a response.
I have never asked you to put me first in everything, but you still give me the sense of security I want.
I have never asked you how wide your shoulders are, but you still try your best to make me rely on them.
After all, the most heartwarming thing about a man who likes to reply to WeChat in seconds is his seriousness in his relationship and his seriousness in his partner.
There is a saying that says:
reply later is the privilege I give you; reply when you receive it, it is the special you give me.
Whether it is love or friendship, it is actually the same.
I have a kid named Dahua.
Over the years, everyone has been working and getting married, only Dahua and I have been staying in my hometown.
I write articles and Dahua teaches.
Never contact during the day, I am afraid of affecting Dahua's class, and Dahua is afraid of affecting my typing.
Only in the middle of the night will they warmly find each other -
Do you have time? Talk a few words.
Are you hungry? Go for late supper.
You can get a response quickly when you talk about the topic together.
This feeling of tacit understanding lasted for a long time.
Until last year, I became depressed because of my marriage.
was really stupid at that time. Although I knew very well that this relationship was not a good marriage, I still couldn't break it up after three years of love. I was confused for a long time and cried every day.
Dahua couldn't stand my appearance as if it was not human or ghost. She tried hard to persuade me, but was hurt by every word I hurt.
A kindness is used as a donkey, and anyone else will be angry, and Big Flower is no exception.
We didn't contact each other for almost half a year.
Later, I caught a severe cold and had a high fever that didn't go away. I didn't dare to disturb my parents, so I could only post a video to ask Dahua if I could come and help me.
didn't expect that there would be a second reply.
A small man of about one meter and five meters tall, he set up a tall man like me and ran up and down.
is registration and payment again.
It’s cooking porridge and soup again.
with panda eyes in his eyes, he worked hard and took care of me all night.
made me so embarrassed that I asked Dahua -
"Why are you still willing to pay attention to me? Still replying to my message as soon as possible?"
Dahua said:
"We are all very proud of our face.
If you don't take the initiative to look for me, I will never look for you again in my life.
But as long as you talk to me, I will definitely reply immediately when I see it, let alone encountering this situation today, even if you have to appear in front of you as fast as possible, how can you still be angry with you?"
After hearing this, I was a little wet. Although this girl has a stubborn temper, she is obviously more loyal!
looks whispering, but heart is warm and pure.
Many times, friends outside sent WeChat messages -
What's wrong with dad;
What's wrong with mom;
What's wrong with kids;
Can you please go for a trip, etc...
Things that others avoid, Dahua always says nothing when she receives messages, and helps anyone who can.
is used to pay for money, sometimes it is difficult to pay, and sometimes it is thankless.
The person who talks about loyal personality and always suffers losses is talking about this silly girl.
is reassuring and heartbreaking.
I remembered a sentence I heard before:
There is a kind of sadness in this world, that is, I slept for an afternoon, and when I woke up, the room was pitch black and there was no sound at all.
looked up and looked out the window. It was not completely dark. I touched it everywhere and found my phone under the pillow. After opening it, the screen was clean. The messages sent were ignored...
And what I want to say is -
and Dahua have never experienced such sadness once in the years since they knew each other and I met and interspered.
Sometimes I really have to admit:
Intuition is very accurate. When you are with someone, you can keenly detect all the cherishing and neglect, and you can clearly feel all the care and randomness.
I remembered that at the end of last year, my cousin who was doing business with me attended a work dinner.
The cousin’s wife posted a video at the dinner table, and people around her joked frequently.
My cousin didn't answer at first, but hung up several times, but then turned off the phone and complained impatiently: "Women are just annoying, they are nagging all day long, don't worry!"
But he didn't think about it-
My wife had just given birth to a child at that time and suffered from severe postpartum depression.
Think about everything, self-doubt, many discomforts cannot be expressed, and many depressions are piled up in the heart.
I want to talk to my husband, but I am treated like this roughly, anyone who feels it will be unbearable.
It was only later that I found out that my cousin's wife almost did something stupid at that time.
sent a WeChat message to his sister, saying that the child was still young, so I asked my family to help take care of him.
At that time, my sister was actually in a mess. My husband owed gambling debts, and my parents-in-law were both sick and busy every day.
But when I received my sister's WeChat, I still realized something was wrong at the first time, and chatted with me and relieved my emotions...
Later, my cousin's wife mentioned: "If it weren't for my sister that time, I really didn't know how to hold on."
A difference in thought may bring about earth-shaking changes.
always says that men are big and thick, while women are as careful as hair.
But I think it depends on people.
A delicate person is always reluctant to let others' enthusiasm and expectations be lost.
Because they understand:
In a relationship, what makes people collapse is actually very simple. It is the message you haven't replied for hours, it is your ignorance and ignorance, it is because you have never considered my feelings, and I have never cared about my thoughts.
The older you are, the more you feel -
Delicate and considerate is the most precious quality of a man.
is not domineering, not professing aloofness, not saying things beautifully, not being false and false, but that kind of true tenderness and real care.
He will care about the quality of your mood, pay attention to your subtle changes, dissolve your random thoughts, and resolve your worries.
After all, being smart and interesting, being smart is nothing. Being able to take care of other people's feelings is the most rare and most reassuring thing.
remembered the variety show "Mother-in-law and Mom" I watched the previous two days.
Li Jiahang originally wanted to do his own thing, but he was interrupted by his wife twice in a row:
first came over and fed him a petal of orange.
Later, I came to tell him that the flowers at home were blooming.
are all irrelevant trivial matters...
But Li Jiahang still stopped what he was doing and said helplessly and dotingly: "My desire to survive tells me that I want to accompany my wife."
Someone complained about his wife being annoyed in the comments, but what I want to say is-
If it weren't for caring, who would have thought about everything and shared it with you in detail.
If it weren't for your liking, who would have wanted to get your attention.
After all -
Whether it is a partner, friend, or family member.
Whether it is love, friendship, or family.
Every kind of emotion must be responded to.
If you have any questions, say it, go and do your business.
reply when I see it, I will be relieved and relieved.
The feeling of being cared about by you is so good.
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