Tonight, Huludao Local people spontaneously came to the place where the tragedy of Audi crashes to send off and pray for the victims.
The preschool children of Huludao Jianchang No. 2 Primary School who survived the car accident were also treated in the hospital. But we are still worried about how much psychological impact will this accident have on these young children? How can we help them heal their mental trauma? After natural disasters and man-made disasters, what can we do for witnesses and survivors?
cruel! The death of a child's classmate
The last two or three months is a "huge". Psychological counseling should be timely
The last two or three months are the time when children remember the most deeply about the accident. Generally speaking, the two or three months after the disaster will be a "touch" for witnesses - especially minors. If they can pass through , this experience may not have much impact on their future growth, otherwise these spiritual traumas will be more difficult to heal, and may even affect their future life.
Therefore, parents and people around you must pay attention to their children's emotions and behaviors.
According to psychological experts, when a person's life is threatened, will reappear in the image of catastrophic events, and you cannot remove by yourself. Moreover, in the future, as long as there is a little similar thing, you will immediately be alert and will find a way to avoid danger or anything related to it. . Although these reactions are normal, if there is no guidance or loss of control, may cause post-traumatic stress disorder . If a woman encounters traumatic events in before 15, the rate of disorders will be higher.
Children's stress response to catastrophic events is different. Some children may become indifferent, dull and particularly obedient, some children may cry, have nightmares, and are prone to frightening, and some children may repeatedly tell the incident, repeat the incident, or feel guilty.
Don’t avoid talking about experiences, always pay attention to your child’s emotions and behaviors
Parents are the people their children trust the most. At critical moments, parents, please accompany their children more and pay attention to their children’s emotions and behaviors. Of course, if necessary, you should ask a psychological counselor to seek professional counseling.
01 Parents’ company = children’s sense of security
The sudden car accident caused huge turmoil in the children’s world, and the sense of security was also hit hard. Parents should also spend more time with and try to maintain their original schedule. Use practical actions to show your protection for your children and repair your sense of security.
02 Don’t avoid it, talk about experiences
When the child gets a sense of security and relaxes, sometimes he will talk about the incident experience with his parents. Please do not avoid it and listen carefully to your children's conspiracy. This is a rare opportunity for children to vent their emotions and reduce stress. It is also a rare opportunity for parents to help their children heal their trauma and correctly view "impermanence".
03 Give your child a few more hugs
In addition to verbal comfort, the soothing effect of physical contact is also very effective. Give your children more hugs, whether they die or not, and better encourage them to express sadness, pain and sadness!
In addition to the witnesses of the incident, there are also children who have not experienced catastrophic events. They are also prone to accept information about the mixed quality of the incident through various channels, which leads to children's curiosity or anxiety. Parents' reactions are also crucial!
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Finally, I pray that the deceased children will rest in peace! May the children in the world be happy and healthy!
More exciting things, listen to it!
Mom and baby are listening:
Don’t ignore it! If a child has these five manifestations, he may have a very high IQ!
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