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Hello everyone, I am Sister D.
Recently, a top goddess officially announced her divorce, and fans were no less excited than during the Chinese New Year.
That's right, it's about the "most beautiful face" and "the first pure and beautiful girl" in the island country - Sasaki .
She has been listed in the "100 Most Beautiful Faces in the World" for five consecutive years. She won the award with just one beautiful face.
She is not only a high-value model in the island country, but also a household name actor and popular singer.
However, such a beautiful and talented goddess was wasted by a scumbag.
In June last year, her husband Ken Watanabe was shocked to reveal his "infidelity", which made many netizens angry.
tear apart the character of "possessing wife", Watem Jian reveals this ugly face:
"unkind love", "men and women take all", "sex cheating on 6 people at the same time", "a total of 182 people cheating"... Just pick out a few keywords, which is enough to make people's pupils tremble!
After more than a year, Sasaki finally took this step bravely and divorced.
Recently, in an interview with the media, she was asked "What is the thing I want most now?" She gave the answer without thinking:
"Work and money."
The media asked again: "What about love?"
"My love is the son."
Obviously, this time, she really gave up completely.
On the "white moonlight" in the hearts of the people of the island, Sasaki said it was second. To be honest, no one dared to be the first. When she first debuted, she was described by many industry insiders - to the extreme and almost perfect.
It is no exaggeration to say that she is the first love of the whole nation.
exquisite facial features, perfect facial lines, angel face, devil figure, clear and fair skin, as beautiful as porcelain dolls, making people fall in love in a second.
In 2006, Sasaki, who worked in a grocery store, was spotted by a beautiful girl talent show.
She easily won the first generation "CALCON JAPAN" champion and PRINCESS PINKY champion, becoming the target of major brokerage companies.
And that year, Sasaki was only 18 years old.
debuted as a model and later entered the entertainment industry. She quickly became famous with "Angel Love", and laid her superb acting skills through many film and television dramas such as " Sumo Girls " and "FIRSTCLASS".
entered the peak of her career. She suddenly announced her marriage and married a funny artist 15 years older than her and has a lot of scandals - Ken Watanabe.
As expected, the scumbag was cheated before she even got married for 4 years.
In 2020, he was exposed to have had an incoherence with many women after marriage and had a close relationship with AV actresses. From company employees to artists in the circle, he cheated on women aged 20-50, and cheated on 6 women at the same time. The number of cheating on them was as many as 182, and even men were not spared...
Watem-Bai Jian was not only shameless, but also directly held the "shit basin" on his wife's head:
"Because they are so cute, I couldn't help it."
" After marriage, my wife often asked her to go home early, so she developed a rebellious mentality."
" My wife is not diligent enough, her family is not neat enough, and she is clean and obsessed with , so she can't bear it anymore, so she looks for excitement outside. "
Even domestic netizens couldn't stand it and directly bombarded the scumbag:
for hygiene and cleanliness? Why don't you have a mortality and cleanliness!
"Is marrying a wife for housework? Why don’t you marry a sweeping robot? ! "
Everyone was waiting for Sasaki to tear the scumbag, but unexpectedly, she chose to forgive.
" After discussion, we decided to continue the marriage. This matter of my husband took up a lot of attention. I'm very sorry. "
" Fathers are very important for children's growth, so they do not separate or divorce. "
An apology letter exploded on the Internet, and netizens said: Oh, the goddess is out of salvation.
What's more speechless is that even on the day Watanabe Ken's public apology, Sasaki waited for him to go home...
Watanabe Ken is a Japanese funny artist group UNJASH members, who are familiar with Sasaki, know that she is a fan of UNJASH, and marrying an idol for many years is also her wish.
Even she herself admitted that she was Watanabe Ken who was pursuing her. When she was dating and quarreling, she first proposed a settlement.
However, Watanabe Ken's private life is quite unpredictable.
According to call girls A, B, C, D, E, F..., he was the "time management master" when he first dated Sasaki.
And Sasaki, who has traditional ideas and concepts, hopes that he can get married and have children at the right age and form a happy family.
Many people say that Sasaki's concession is not surprising at all.
Because in Japan, women's attitude towards their partner's cheating is really Buddhist.
D sister remembers a Japanese street survey about a man's cheating, and she was deeply impressed.
D sister remembers a Japanese street survey about a man's cheating, and she was deeply impressed.
reporters randomly interviewed a woman from the street and asked if she had any experience of cheating, and would get replies like "of course there are" and "several times".
Then how did these scumbags be forgiven?
A meal of sushi, a bag, a few lipsticks, and even a cat of 200,000 yen can be used as an apology gift to easily bring women People make you happy...
Is Japanese women too fond of money? Not so.
With an in-depth understanding, it was discovered that the cowardice of Japanese women lies in their low social status.
Like Sasaki Like, women born in the 1980s have received "good wife and good mother" education since childhood. When they enter campus, they receive the "cute girl" stereotype . is a sensible and obedient girl, which is more expected and more popular.
Most women will quit their jobs after marriage, the male leads the outside, the female leads the inside, become a housewife, and take care of their husbands and children.
When encountering problems in marriage, for example, if the man cheats, his wife's first reaction is not to question, not to tear X, but to reflect on herself - am I not doing well in which aspect?
The famous Japanese movie star Hiroko Mida was exposed to have cheated after marriage. Not only could she not expose her intense emotions, but she also had to help her husband resolve the crisis, and she also had to reflect on her own "wrong".
And the "support culture" that was rampant in the 1990s made women mistakenly think that cheating is just a mistake that men in the world make.
Women have become "password price" products in the eyes of men. The wife in a married life forces themselves to understand and accept her husband's cheating behavior.
Therefore, it is easy to understand why Japan can rank 120 among 156 countries, falling to the lowest level among developed countries in the 2021 " Global Gender Gap Report ".
The late Japanese reporter Shigeo Saito once revealed the emptiness and despair of Japanese women in the 1980s in documentary works such as "The Wives' Thoughts on Autumn" and "The Moment of Wifes Abandoning Husband". In the book
, the four middle-aged wives took the initiative to divorce their husbands who were in the company and had stable income and chose to leave. To outsiders, this move is simply unreasonable and ridiculous.
looks free in wealth and happy family. Why do they still take the initiative to give up all this and seek spiritual freedom ?
Because only wives know:
"A man only needs to say to the woman, 'This home is handed over to you', and he can turn around and go to work in the company. The woman who has been entrusted with important tasks has to give all of her own for this home. "
" The husband only knows how to work, and does not even hold the soy sauce bottle poured at home, and only uses his wife as a tool."
Such a marriage life is so cruel and suffocating.
Therefore, they would rather bear the infamy than refuse to be numb, break free from the cage, and bravely try to find the meaning of living.
And with the development of society, more and more Japanese women attach more importance to self-worth, and their desire to "live out of themselves" has become stronger, which has resonated with more women.
In "The Moment of Wife Abandoning Husband", a middle-aged woman who "was being used as a nanny at home" revealed: "In the past, Japanese society was dominated by men. After breaking up, women could not live at all, and they also felt that divorce was embarrassing."
"But now everyone's consciousness has changed. Many people don't want to be men's servants all their lives. I think so too."
"Even if I separate, I want to live my own life."
When people are willing to take off their tinted glasses to see divorce, even if they are still in a patriarchal society, there are still all kinds of male inaction.
But what is unstoppable is that more and more women will take the initiative to let go and strive for more possibilities of happiness in the face of misfortune.
There are many actresses like Sasaki who have cut off from an unfortunate marriage and regained themselves.
Japanese popular models and actors Watanabe Apricot is a role model.
Watanabe Apricot and Higashimada , were once Japanese national CPs. However, after 4 years of marriage, Masato Higashi was revealed to have cheated on the actress.
What is even more heartbreaking is that at that time, Aka Watanabe was pregnant.
Higashide Masato wanted to reconcile with his wife, but Aka Watanabe was well aware of the truth that "a man cheated only 0 times and countless times".
She did not pay for a low-quality marriage. She decisively chose to divorce after giving birth. She didn't even need compensation. She took three children alone to do a career. At the age of 33, she pressed the "restart button" of her life.
took on many film and television dramas such as "Kite", "The Heart-Pirate", "Japan Sinking", "The Deer King", and "The Fairy Tale of Time" in one go, ushering in a rejuvenation of career.
There is also the "No. 1 young model in Japan" Sarongko.
Because her husband Dabi lingers in a nightclub after getting married and has a complicated relationship with many women, he can't bear it anymore, Saeiko chose to "break away" with her unfortunate marriage.
With her extraordinary business acumen and action, she has built a huge business empire step by step.
She created her own clothing brand and beauty brand, and became a well-known female entrepreneur and queen of selling goods.
Last year, Sarongko opened a ranch on a huge area of land equivalent to 11 Tokyo Dome , and made great profits.
. Faced with the uninterrupted online violence for 10 years, she said, "As my virtue, I did not choose to loudly refute slanderous remarks. It is wrong for you to write that."
She used her down-to-earth efforts to prove that a truly beautiful woman, who makes money to support her family, is free and beautiful, no problem!
Ten years ago, when women talked about divorce, it was difficult for the majority of the city to speak of it, thinking that family scandals should not be made public.
Facing a marriage in name only, many people choose to remain silent and settle down.
Even if a person with the courage to divorce, it is difficult for him to avoid being questioned, ridiculed, contempted, and treated differently from the outside world and suffer secondary harm.
Nowadays, the focus of divorce has gradually shifted to women themselves, and it has become a way to "live out of oneself", opening a window for life again.
So, divorce ≠ failed life.
Divorce is not a shame either.
Divorce is not the end of life.
Live up to life and bravely return to your own life stage is the definition of divorce.
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