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Have the two people really loved each other? You will know if they look at some of their behaviors after breaking up.
Some lovers will part forever once they break up, and will never appear in each other's world again, and will never have any intersection or connection again. They know that they once loved it, and that it is true, and that it is true that they don’t love it anymore. Since that’s the case, why bother to bother? Saying goodbye is the decent adults should have.
, and some lovers are just the opposite.
They are unwilling to accept the ending of the breakup, or they cannot let go, with resentment and hatred. At least one side will feel that the other side has let him down and hurt him, and he cannot pass through so easily no matter what.
So they will keep doing things and try their best to make the other party feel at ease.
, think about it carefully, why bother doing this? If you don’t love anymore, you don’t love anymore. No matter how much you make trouble, it is meaningless. It will only make yourself look more pathetic and pitiful.
If men and women have truly loved each other, they will definitely not do some things after breaking up, especially the following three things. This is the proof of love, and it is also the last dignity and dignity left to yourself.
1: I will not slander the other party behind the scenes or say bad things about the other party
People I have truly loved will not be willing to hurt the other party behind the scenes even if they break up, even if they say something that is not good for the other party. Because when facing the person you have loved, your heart is still soft, unbearable, and even heartbreaking.
He knew that she was the most important person to him, the person he once wanted to work together for the rest of his life. Even though the two people separated for some reason later, that love still exists and that beautiful expectation still exists.
In this case, how can you be willing to hurt the other party?
Besides, not slandering your ex after breaking up is the cultivation that an adult should have.
You have loved each other, you know her character. If you slander her because of a temporary emotion, will you really not regret it afterwards? To be ashamed of her doing well can only mean that you are narrow-minded and your love for her may not be true.
2: I won’t care about my past efforts, I will only regard this as a beautiful memory
Some lovers will be very careful about my past efforts after they are separated. For example, ask the other party to repay a certain amount of money, or repay certain valuables, etc. Things like
are very undecent, but they are always endless. This shows that the two people may not have truly loved each other. Compared to loving each other, they just love themselves more.
This is true for me. They have been together for more than half a year and separated because of disagreement in their personalities. The man suddenly suggested that he spent a lot of money on the woman during the relationship. Since he was separated, she should repay it.
The woman was discouraged and let him settle the score. As a result, he even counted the dozens of dollars for ordering takeaway. Is
speechless? Do you think men's behavior is very despicable?
But some people are like this. The more they care about the efforts they have made before, the more they reveal your character, the more they mean that the love they have once were not real, they were just acting.
3: I will not disturb the other party anymore, but will bless
from the bottom of my heart. Even if I separate, I will silently bless the other party in my heart, because you know that he is a person worthy of love. You are separated just because it is inappropriate. This is a regret for both parties.
But some people do not have this kind of awareness.
Their former identities frequently appear in each other's world. Even if the other party has a new relationship, they have to make trouble from time to time. Seeing that he is not doing well, I feel very happy.
Is it really necessary to do this? Does it make sense? If you separate, you will be separated. No matter how you feel about your presence, you will never be able to go back to the past.
If you really love each other, you should bless each other and never disturb them from now on and disappear completely. This is the best explanation for that relationship, and it is also the last decency left to yourself.
People who have truly loved will not hurt or torture each other after breaking up, because the traces of love before are real, and you will still feel thrilled whenever you think of it.
They will only say goodbye decently and sincerely wish you sincerely after breaking up.
will not hurt the other party, will not entangle the other party, and will not destroy the beautiful memories of the past. This is not only the best ending of this relationship, but also the best gift to yourself and the best blessing to the other party.
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