In Taiwan, people like to call people born in the 1970s "sixth graders". In 2016, Jiang E, a "sixth-grade girl" living in Taipei, wrote a small book recording his growth experience in the countryside of Tainan. She named the book "The Record of the Development of Vulgar Girls", "Volume" means "ordinary", which is the kind of "ordinary" that has not become an ideal girl in the secular sense. In the book
, Jiang E seems to write about a bowl of red bean soup, a pill of Chinese medicine, a pad, and a strand of young noodles, but it expresses - how a "vulgar girl" who falls outside the expectations of society, looks back and thinks about her growth at the age of 40.
Later, this book was seen by another vulgar girl, a senior Taiwanese stage drama actor, Yan Yiwen , who is also a "sixth grade girl", and decided to adapt it into a TV series. He also invited a vulgar girl, Xie Yingxuan , who is also a "sixth grade girl". The ending of the story of
The two "The Story of the Growth of the Vulgar Girls" has both received good reputations and won numerous awards. The ratings of "Vulgar Girls 1" and "Vulgar Girls 2" on Douban are 9.2 points and 9.3 points respectively. Many viewers call them "Taiwanese drama version "Please Answer 1988".
Jiang E's "The Story of the Familiar Girls" is the origin of all this. Some people say that this is a love letter to sixth-grade girls. The magic of this love letter is that an ordinary girl sent this love letter and then met more ordinary girls. They created it together, allowing countless ordinary girls to understand one thing: ordinary people can be justified and being a "five girl" who accepts themselves may also be a way of living.
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A Taiwanese girl born in the 1970s grew up in a Chinese medicine shop in Tainan. Later, she went north to study, studied abroad, and then returned to Taipei to work and work as a foreign secretary. She is a very ordinary company employee who works hard but is often confused - at work, when she sees others fighting fiercely, breaking through the predicament, and getting a good result, they can always get a very specific sense of victory because of this, "a very glorious self-affirmation", but she has no.
She thought, is that "score" not big enough? With such confusion, she has been withstood for eight years and ten years. The work has been done well and the boss appreciates it very much, but she still feels lost. She enjoys the pleasure of others after trying to achieve their goals. She also spent a lot of effort to force herself to do it, but she is not happy.
Finally, she was 38 years old. She was emotionally anxious and had skin allergies. She went to many clinics. Almost every doctor told her to "know how to adjust stress, sleep well, and not sleep late." Hearing these words, she knew that the doctor had no medicine anymore and could only rely on herself. At this time, I have no house, no car, no marriage, and no children, and my life seems to be "achieve nothing."
What is the "successful"?
is probably like this - be smart but obey what parents and teachers say, take good care of your homework and take the initiative to help with housework, treat others with kindness but be determined and resolute, engage in a stable job and run a complete marriage, it is best to be exquisite but blessed and virtuous, know how to catch up with the advanced of the new era, and be considerate of the hesitation of old ideas.
"Most people expect these girls to take it for granted to be excellent and good-lived women, just like everyone else," she said.
And she has been a child who can't keep up since she was a child. Being well-behaved cannot keep up with your grades, and being bad can't keep up with your bad results. You can only be careful all the way to avoid leaving the team. When she was a child, her parents asked her to learn piano, hoping that she would become a piano teacher with good temperament, but she began to rebel in the fifth grade and refused to practice piano. She would rather sit in front of the piano and be beaten and scolded, just not play. If she can't become a piano teacher, her parents will change her goals and ask her to get into a good school.She moved forward all the way on the track arranged by her parents, took the college entrance examination, and stayed in a big city as a white-collar worker until she couldn't hold on.
She is almost 40 years old. She thought, if a person has a life of 80 years old and is half alive, she will make others feel at ease in this life, live in the expectations of others, and she has endless anxiety, what should she do if she regrets it when she is? At the age of 40, she seems to be able to try it out again and do something that does not go against her feelings - she decided to quit her job and rest.
One month after resigning, the pressure really slowly disappeared, and I felt that everything was right. At that time, she had a friend who worked in a publishing house. They often talked about the common growth memories of "sixth graders" together. They just left the job and were out of the window. The friend encouraged her to write down all these memories and she began to record the things she had not forgotten during her growth process.
She has always had the habit of writing. Earlier, I would write my own cat's diary on social networks. She is not good at socializing, and she really wants to say these things, just telling people on social networks, naming them "the two or three things that can be said to others", but she found a comfortable way of communication.
Writing for two or three years, but I couldn’t write too much, so I started writing about people’s lives. Her writing was deeply influenced by Wu Nianzhen. Wu Nianzhen's writing was plain and friendly, and she did not deliberately remove the book bag, so she did.
She likes to write those sentences that can be said in her mouth. She wrote about Tainan, and her fellow villagers came to her home to get medicine and often brought some fruits they grew. The so-called "bringing a little" is often half a basket, and the banana is even a "bow". She wrote the noodle stall owner. Every time she went to buy a bowl of noodles, although the boss had a bad face when he spoke, he would always remind her to "take it, don't get it hot." She wrote about grandma's frugality. She was always reluctant to throw away the salted fish in the refrigerator, and she couldn't bear to throw away the plaster patch. After sticking it, the four corners of the plaster patch on grandma's back were rolled up, and small cotton wool was glued, which looked gray and dirty.
"One whole bow" How many bananas are there Jiang Ge/painted
These words are gathered together to produce a small book that tells how a girl from the countryside of Tainan grew up little by little in these fragments of life, slowly glimpsing and entering the adult world.
She named this little book "The Story of the Growth of the Vulgar Girls". The so-called "vulgar" means "vulgar", a very common and worldly situation; the so-called "vulgar girl" means "ordinary girl", that is, the kind of ordinary girl who has not become a "good-loyal woman" in the secular sense.
She also gave herself a pseudonym - Jiange, which has no special meaning. After all, when I first started writing books, the new writer thought it would be almost the same for 800 or 1,000 books, so she chose a name casually. She never expected that one day she would go out to sign for sale - the word "Ge" has so many strokes. When signing someone, she thought that it would be great if she named it "Jiang Turtle". She could save a few strokes every time she signed it, but "Jiang Turtle" could not do, because "Turtle" has more strokes than "Geagle".
"Records of the Development of a Vulgar Girl"
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"Records of the Development of a Vulgar Girl" is what kind of book - you can feel the whole thing by looking at the directory The temperament of this book -
Manzi's vegetable buns, mother's morning vegetarian food, followers in Chinese medicine, afternoon tea in Chinese medicine, come and go and sip a bowl of noodles, public phones in school, go to the next door to buy a pad, buy a strand of noodles, a lit room, a flower curtain on the windowsill...
In short, they are all homely routines, trivial matters, and the most subtle taste of life. This is somewhat due to Jiang E's ability to "read air" since she was a child, she is good at observing humans, and is also good at capturing the flow of relationships between people.
But putting these "air" into words, what Jiang E really wants to talk about is - how a "vulgar woman" who falls outside the expectations of society, looks back and thinks about her growth at the age of 40. The first article in the book
3 is about the grandma telling her when she was a child: "Don't marry someone who is thinking about (Yin Jing)." This is grandma's view of choosing a spouse. She said that if you marry someone who is quiet, people in the world will not know what he is thinking, "Stimulate to death!" "Like your grandpa!" What is more important than this is to be rich. Jiang E wrote that she had many wedding banquets with her grandma. If the groom was a doctor, lawyer, company boss, and chief executive of a large business, the grandma would nod in praise, "the next decision for the bride's "marry a good life"."
But grandma is a romantic person, watching a lot of TV, "The romantic cells in my body are hundreds of times that of mine. She has tracked the male and female protagonists on TV for more than ten years since I grew up, hoping that they will finally get married." Before Jiang E went abroad to study, the only positive advice that grandma gave her was "you can hand over to Aduzi (foreigner)."
Now, talking about grandma's wishes again, Jiang E wrote that if she really married a rich and rich foreigner back then and gave birth to a beautiful mixed-race child, "according to grandma's advice, she will be safe and secure." But the fact that grandma didn't expect was that when this granddaughter grew up, she would be depressed when she met people who talked a lot, and she always had some unique insights, "You have to pinch your thighs and think about your salary, so that you can force yourself to be patient and wear a gentle mask" - "As for 'rich', grandma, I tell you, it's better to have money after all."
The third article "Mom's Early Eating" talks about the fertility pressure faced by the mother's generation of women.
Because I gave birth to a daughter after five years of marriage, my mother has always maintained the habit of eating early vegetarian food to thank God for her help. Jiang E is a new generation who has received higher education. Naturally, she understands that this fertility pressure is a squeeze on women by patriarchy, but she will not force her mother to fight, because, "I vaguely remember that when she was a child, she was at her mother's feet and saw her ovulation injection on the dressing table. Every time I recall that scene, I am sincerely glad that I had a younger brother later. I was not willing to abide by this patriarchal structure, but when the person tied to the cross was his mother, I felt that it was great to get off first no matter what."
Even at a time when feminism is rising, Jiang E doesn't think it is necessary to force every woman to fight or awaken. After all, "There are still many women who choose or involuntarily to join traditional roles because of pressure, love, or restraint, and bear a heavy responsibility. Whether they are willing or not, it is difficult. If someone else wants to say picky gossip, saying that they have not served any cup of tea or a bowl, anyone should immediately stuff the cup into his mouth or hit the bowl on his head when they hear it."
As for the article "Check Someone Have Your Own Wishes", it is about Jiang E teaching grandma to sing.
She has always been responsible for teaching grandma to sing. The last song she taught grandma to sing was " Pure Youth Dream " by Pan Yueyun . At that time, she was already studying in Kaohsiung and went home on a long holiday. She didn't spend much time together, so she could only teach intensively. This song is not easy for Grandma, and it is hard to learn. But no matter how difficult it is, whenever she sang a nervous paragraph, she finally came to "Singing to relieve her sorrow, the singing is so gentle, and when someone has his own wishes (women also have their own wishes), she could always hear the touching voice of grandma's song that finally relaxed, " grandma has to learn this song, probably just to be able to sing these few sentences."
The same name episode, grandma is participating in a singing competition Picture source TV series "The Story of the Development of a Vulgar Girl"
The last article in the whole book is named "Sixth Grade Women, How are you? 》 is the story of several female friends of Jiang E. They are all sixth-grade girls and they all come from ordinary families. In each other's eyes, they each have achieved success, but when they look at themselves, it is completely different.
S is good at companionship and is willing to contribute her time to friends. She does not steal the limelight when she is happy, and she sympathizes with the grief and anger. "Help others feel at ease without any harm... Such a person is very precious." But whenever she is asked about her most proud life experience, she never mentions her considerate and carefulness. Instead, she feels it is difficult to explain to her parents and the world because she is single and still lives at home.
A looks very in line with social expectations. She works in a large-scale enterprise, marrys a gentle and considerate partner, and raises two smart and lively children. But even such a girl cannot tell what her parents and family will praise her. And she always remembers that the partner she chooses is not the most ideal version in the eyes of her parents.
J is a hairstylist with outstanding skills, optimistic and bravery. Every time Jiang E asks her to cut her hair, she will be stained with her brave vitality. She thinks she is particularly beautiful and has a grand vision, but she is afraid that someone will ask, "Is your hair salon profitable?"
This seems to be a proposition that every "vulgar woman" cannot get rid of - facing the so-called social standards and expectations, should she be exhausted to pass the exam, or should she let herself go and accept herself as an ordinary girl outside of the social expectations?
In the preface to "The Story of the Familiar Girls", Jiang E had already made a clear attitude: "I have tried hard to follow that blueprint of an excellent and frugal woman for most of my life. I think it's all for the same. The growing part has not made me much easier. Those that cannot grow obviously will not do my business in this life." At the end of the last story of the whole book, she wrote: "I solemnly invite you to grasp the limited life, shrugg together first, support this excellent and ordinary self, those things that need to be worked hard, no one will do it for a while."
Jiang E Photo provided by the respondent
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Over the years, "The Story of the Fresh Girls' Development" has been bringing surprises to Jiange.
Many readers told her that they saw themselves in the book and gained strength. "Although I am not a sixth-grade student, as the sister who is chasing behind me, I understand the scenery that the author talks about when I grow up and when I move forward and backward, I also understand the scenery that the author talks about. The ordinary girl grows up but is righteous."
There are also professionals' praise. Writer Huang Liqun commented that Jiange wrote a bowl of red bean soup, a pill of Chinese medicine, a pad, and a summer afternoon when mercury was pouring out of the ground. No matter how small or trivial it was, it could be "a clean and bright place." "Her books can make your eyes clear, clear your heart, and strengthen your spirit: This little granddaughter of the Chinese pharmacy has indeed received the true teachings of the Yao family."
Jiang E didn't expect that such a "very inconspicuous little person" wrote some "satisfactory muttering to himself", and so many people would like it.
The most unexpected surprise was a private message, sent by Yan Yiwen, a senior stage drama actor in Taiwan. Yan Yiwen said in a private message that she wanted to adapt this small book into a TV series and asked Jiang E if she was willing. Jiang E didn't think much about it and replied directly, "Okay." Her book could be adapted into a TV series. She was "happy enough to want to dance" and felt that her ancestral tomb was smoking. "I wanted to check which brand of incense burned by the grandmothers of the three generations of ancestors and grandmothers to worship the heavens and worship the ancestors."
Yan Yiwen is also a sixth grade girl.She came from a traditional family and both her parents were civil servants. She was the eldest daughter of the family. She followed the path arranged by her parents since she was a child. Yan Yiwen was very quiet at home when she was a child and dared not talk back. Her parents even felt that she was too quiet, so quiet that she seemed to have no rebellious period.
When she was in high school, she joined the drama club and fell in love with drama. She applied for the college entrance examination. She secretly applied for the Drama Department of Taipei University of Arts. When her mother found out, she slapped her several times. Her grandmother who lives in Hualien was pulled to persuade her. In the end, she failed the exam and studied in the Department of Public Administration according to her parents' wishes.
When the postgraduate entrance examination was taken, Yan Yiwen wanted to apply for Taipei University of Arts. Because of the last time she failed the exam, her father felt that she would definitely not be able to pass the exam, so he asked her to take the exam, but she was admitted as the last place.
She lived beyond the expectations of her parents and became a "vulgar girl". After graduating from the drama department, it was not easy to find a job. Yan Yiwen submitted her resume and the recruitment company recommended her career as Elevator Miss , because there was no threshold. Over the years, she has done dramas, participated in some film and television works, and won the Golden Bell Award for Best Actress, but she has always lived an ordinary life. She is getting older and has not gotten married. Sometimes she is awakened by her teeth grinding sound when she sleeps, which has nothing to do with the so-called "good-living woman".
For Yan Yiwen, Jiang E's words "good" are very important because this is her first time planning to be a director. She sent a private message to the original author with a nervous mood, but she didn't expect that the other party would agree so readily. Later, when many times in interviews, Yan Yiwen was asked how to convince Jiang E to agree to the adaptation, she would laugh, "Jiang E said 'Okay' directly."
yan Yiwen Photo source network
After getting the adaptation rights, Yan Yiwen decided to find Xie Yingxuan to play the heroine.
Xie Yingxuan is Yan Yiwen's junior girl and a sixth-grade girl. She and Yan Yiwen have very similar life experiences. In order to do dramas, they experienced a very tight period. When they were at their poorest, neither of them had more than 1,000 yuan in their cards. Xie Yingxuan once mentioned in an interview that in order to withdraw the money, they had to look for an ATM that could withdraw 100 yuan bills.
When Yan Yiwen found Xie Yingxuan, she was promoting the movie " Who Falls in Love with His First" and verbally agreed to star. But not long after, Xie Yingxuan won the Best Actress Award for this movie - the Best Actress Award for the day was also very "vulgar". Xie Yingxuan didn't expect that she would win the award. The moment before the Best Actress award, she was ready to stand up and applaud, and her shoelaces were not tied, but she was called the name and could only walk onto the podium at the risk of her shoes falling off. Fortunately, her feet were swollen enough, and her shoes were just right to eat and live.
After Xie Yingxuan won the award, Yan Yiwen was happy for her while thinking that it was over. The heroine who had been negotiated before was about to fly, and she didn't know who else to play. If she went to play, she would not be able to lose weight in such a short time. Fortunately, Xie Yingxuan did not break the appointment.
Regarding why she decided to star in "The Story of the Familiar Girls", Xie Yingxuan once wrote this passage: "Don't deceive yourself when you reach this age. We already know clearly that every profession or process of expanding into life has a shining part of being proud of yourself, and of course there are also moments when people are unable to do anything and want to leave everything behind. Maybe it's time to raise their heads and face the intersection, maybe it's the passage in the book that awakens us. Chen Jialing has a profound projection for women of this age. Everyone has a vulgar girl who wants what they want, who belong to Yan Yiwen, Huang Xinxuan and Fan Zhiqi, and I am reading the script. "
A vulgar girl wrote her own story, and was seen by another vulgar girl, and another vulgar girl was found to play the role. The words under Jiang E turned into a large-scale chemical experiment. In short, another wonderful journey began.
Charming Chen Photo source TV series "The Story of the Fresh Girls"
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Jiang E agreed to hand over the work to Yan Yiwen to adapt, but refused to join the screenwriter team because she believed that the screenwriter was a very professional creation and she might not be able to do it. Yan Yiwen appreciates this personality very much. "Jiang E is like Chen Jialing in "The Vulgar Girl". After a while, she finally let herself go. She knows how to measure the pain and happiness of doing something, and then make choices."
Although she is not a screenwriter, Jiang E is called "an indispensable muse of the team" by Yan Yiwen. She shares her life and workplace details, transforming it into inspiration for the script. All the names of the people in the play are also chosen by Jiang E herself.
Yan Yiwen Cong’s last chapter "Sixth Grade Woman, how are you? 》 began to diverge, and the heroine, Carina Chan, was set as the kind of person who was regarded as a female loser by the secular world. She lived to be almost 40 years old, but she achieved nothing in her life, no house, no car, no marriage, and no children.
Chen Jialing's career is set as the chairman's special assistant. Jiang E happened to have done a similar job. She generously shared her life with the screenwriter team, telling everyone that the special assistant career is "a bite of sugar and a bite of shit" - she said she is a special assistant, and her actual work is the chairman's 24-hour private nanny. She has to help the chairman deal with all kinds of "trivial" matters, including taking the chairman's lover to see the house, supervising the chairman's medicine and a loving fruit meal, and taking photos to the chairman's wife after eating.
Each episode has a theme, which is an atypical drama structure. In order to complete this design, Yan Yiwenhui first found the themes with feelings from Jiang E’s original work, such as lying, sexual taboos, favoring boys over girls, pressure to go to school, hoping that their children will become successful, etc., and then extended the plot based on the life experience shared by everyone.
At the beginning, Yan Yiwen shared his thoughts with each other and wrote them into the script. Later, Xie Yingxuan also joined in. In addition, Jiang E became five sixth-grade girls who sorted out their life experiences through chats and jointly developed a "story of female Lu Snake reconciliation with themselves" - Jiang E provided the source for this story, and several other sixth-grade girls enriched and continued the lives of each of them.
Yan Yiwen (first from left), Jiang E (fifth from left) and "Chen Jialing's family" Picture source network
"The Story of the Development of a Vulgar Girl" only took 7 months from the establishment of the project to the completion of the project. The production cost of an ordinary Taiwanese drama is about NT$3 million per episode, and the production fee of "Vulgar Girl" is only 1.9 million yuan per episode.
In August 2019, the first season of "The Story of the Familiar Girls" was officially launched. Many people have this feeling. When watching this drama, they don’t know why they laughed or cried. They can not only feel the truth, but also heal.
There are almost no bad people in "The Story of the Fresh Girls". The old man who often comes to "scam" is actually a small test set by his grandfather for his father. The street tramp approached Xiao Jialing, who ran away from home, just to give her a loaf of bread. There is no weirdo even in this show because it always uses a very gentle perspective to try to understand everyone. The gentle background color of
is derived from the original work and also from Jiangge.When he entered the first grade of elementary school, Jiang E found that her physical fitness was particularly poor. She ran 100 meters and she was far behind other children. That kind of backwardness would make the physical education teacher misunderstand, "Are you kidding the teacher at this speed?"
She thought of many ways, but failed. She asked her parents what to do, but they didn't understand, why couldn't keep up? But this experience has taught her since childhood that everyone in this world is different. Some people may not understand a passage of grammar, some people just cannot memorize a passage of text, some things that are easy to do, and some people just cannot do. So don't blame it easily.
In her childhood, the fairy tale that impressed her the most was "Carrots and White Radishes". The story says that there is a white radish city, and all living in it are white radish. One day, a carrot came to the city. Everyone was amazing and pointed at him and looked so strange! Drunk? It's so funny!
Carrot felt deeply embarrassed, blushed, and left quickly. One of the white radish kids was laughing very vigorously, and they couldn't bear to leave the show like this. They thought, a carrot was already so funny. If they followed him back to Carrot City, wouldn't the whole city be full of jokes? So he followed. When I went to Carrot City, the situation was indeed as he imagined. There were red radish everywhere, which was very interesting. He laughed loudly, but found a louder laughter coming from all around him. It turned out that all the carrots around him pointed at him and laughed: It looked so strange! Are you sick? It's so funny!
White radish kid was frightened and ran home.
Jiang E has never forgotten this story. She knew from a very young age that something that felt was right here might not be right to go elsewhere. In the book
, although Jiang E sometimes speaks sharply and mocks the bride's bouquet throwing process at the wedding. She wrote this way, "It seems that the beef eaters in the hot pot restaurant will call out those who eat pork to draw lots. The person who wins the lottery congratulates him on his beef, and he will be able to eat beef in the next meal." But for many specific people and things, her brushstrokes are always gentle. The article "Bananas come tightly" tells the story of the country people who value love and often bring a large basket of fruits to see a doctor. The adults at home will say that the banana is rotting, so they can tighten their legs and eat them every bit (just eat them every bit). So, in the next few days, their whole family had to "in order to leave a edible part of the fruit, they had to hold a kitchen knife and fight with the soft and rotten fruit worms everywhere."
Even in recent years, the situation is still the same. A few years ago, Jiang E returned to her hometown and saw half a newspaper mangoes lined up on the patio. They were very green and ripe with black dots. "When they were cut open, they would see many active and squirming vitality." Mom said, it was brought by Aunt A Tao. A Tao is already in her eighties, with two overworked legs bent into an O-shaped shape, and she still rides a wild wolf 125 to the mountain to "make a field" every day. Her children are living well in the city and are honestly supporting her mother, but the old man just can't leave the ground empty. At the end of the story, Jiang E wrote - "Mom asked me, do you want to take such a mango? I nodded, I should eat it."
wrote about the death of grandpa and grandma. She wrote this way, "I was born in the most abundant moment of my life in grandpa and grandma. I was learning to embrace the magnificent life, and witnessed them being forced to put down their life wealth one by one... While I moved towards every stage of growth, they were also sliding towards every stage of old age and death, the same thing, greeted me with a happy face, and left them with a determined back."
TV series, Yan Yiwen also continued this tenderness. In her understanding, "The Story of the Familiar Women's Cultivation" is a reconciliation story.Reconcile with the previous generation, reconcile with yourself, and reconcile with this society. "I hope that when every woman is 40 years old, she can put down the things she shoulders on. Even if she is regarded as a loser, then so what, it's all about you! This is my life. Even if others don't like you and live up to other people's expectations, so what?" After the ratings of "The Story of the Growth of a Vulgar Girl" became popular, there were many speeches and invitations to Yan Yiwen to talk about the growth issues of women, but they were all rejected by her, "Because I am not a inspirational story of bravely pursuing dreams, nor is it a TV series that promotes feminism with great fanfare. On the contrary, "The Story of the Growth of a Vulgar Girl" is just a movie that hopes that the audience will cry and laugh After that, get up tomorrow to continue living a comedy. "Hidden Girls' Development" won three awards: Mini Series Award, Mini Series/TV Movie Supporting Actress Award, and Drama Program Editing Award. Yan Yiwen specially thanked Jiang E after receiving the award, "Because she didn't write down the ideas and experiences of sixth-grade girls, she couldn't achieve such a story. Thanks for telling us that only what she thinks is happiness can be truly happy."
Jiang E also played a guest role in the play Image source TV series "The Story of the Fresh Girls"
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The wonderful journey of "The Story of the Fresh Girls" is still continuing.
In August 2021, the second season of "The Story of the Familiar Girls" was launched, with a Douban score of 9.3, which was 0.1 higher than the first season. After watching it, some viewers wrote a comment: "You can always believe in the happiness and touch that Chen Jialing and her family bring to you." In October, Jiang E's "The Story of the Familiar Girls" was published in mainland China.
But for Jiange, everything seems to have not changed much. When the series is broadcast, there will be a craze. Friends will occasionally chat with one or two, but it will be over. There will always be more important topics, such as, recently, who has finally grabbed the very difficult-to-buy egg yolk crisp , and left her a box, "How much is it?", "800 yuan", "What's so expensive for 800 yuan", and friends are talking about these things.
has recently undergone a specific "change". Because of the interview, she went to her favorite forest trail.
It is a forest recreation area called Taiping Mountain. Jiange likes there very much, likes the forest trails there, but the accommodation there is strict restrictions, and she can only stay for one night at a time. In order to stay for a few more days, she even thought that she has no job now. If she can't make it, going there to hold the plate is a way out. "There is no skill to hold the plate. I will hold the plate for a year, and then I can see the changes in the four seasons of that mountain." She said it was an "overly romantic joke."
But because of this joke, the reporter suggested that he could go there for an interview, and a senior professional photographer helped her take personal photos. "Who has this experience in life? I told my friend that it is really strange, that's it."
"People" talked with Jiang E video for more than two hours. She spoke very slowly and her tone was gentle and soft, not as "savvy" as Chen Jialing. She described her difference from Chen Jialing in this way, "It was probably because I had to bite my teeth three times before I could make up my mind. She could rush forward after biting it once."
She said that when she resigned at the age of 38, she had actually endured that job for many years. Many people thought that she was resolute and determined to resign. In fact, it was not. She had been raising her for many years, experiencing a lot of confusion, anxiety and anxiety, and came to her current position step by step by step.
What she wants to tell everyone is that there is no need to overturn anything without hesitation. Now all the entanglements and swings have legitimate meaning. Resolutely serve others. If you have not yet clarified what you want, serve yourself first. "Your entanglement and swaying are for serving yourself.”
In reality, for a long time, Jiang E has not been very close to her parents. The family is very alienated, "I can't even quarrel, let alone expressing feelings." I was in my 30s and started to talk to my parents for a few more words.
Every time she wants to go back to Taipei, she will drive the car to a fixed location and take the things into the car, and her parents will follow her, asking every time, "Have you taken the fruit?" Have you brought all the things? Jiang E replied one by one. After she took everything into the car, she would say: Thank you mom for cooking a big meal, thank you dad for the corn planted, and then hugged her and drove north.
is of course very stuck and shy at the beginning, but after a few times, she found that it was strange that her parents would slowly "snake" (moved) to her. Physical touch can establish consensus and transcend language. "Maybe it is love. No matter what, we are together."
Chen Jialing's family in the drama Photo source TV series "The Story of the Fresh Girls"
Writing "The Story of the Fresh Girls" is also a process of honestly explaining to yourself. At first, she didn't think it was anything great, but unexpectedly, the readers' feedback made her realize that this bloody honesty and this kind of crawling comb would touch the very simple real life state of so many people.
A reader wrote this passage after reading "The Story of the Growth of a Vulgar Girl": No matter what kind of life you choose, whether you live or not, whether you break up, your next life will still be messy. But most importantly, we have the right to choose and the ability to choose. This is also what Jiang E wants to express, "I praise myself for being justified and honest, and this is a very successful person."
Now Jiange lives a country-like life in Taipei. She gets up at around five o'clock, pulls a small stool to the balcony, listens to the crazy bird gangs nearby, sits until the coolness of the morning dissipates and goes into the house to clean, cooks a pot of favorite rice, and then stir-frys a small cabbage or fried poached eggs for breakfast. One cup of rice is just enough for a day.
has no special worries. Apart from getting married, they will come and disturb you from time to time.
Relatives forced to get married during the holidays, and she would choose to show off directly. An uncle always asked her, "When are you going to treat her?" She would answer immediately, and she could invite you now, let's go, what do you want to eat?
But in order to deal with the inquiries of strangers (such as spa club staff), she is considering whether to fabricate a complete life experience -
First of all, she must be a freelancer, German-based, and free translator is the most logical. And she only accepts commercial documents and does not touch publication, because not long ago, she answered that a certain business staff member was a writing worker, and the next question was whether he had published a book. "I asked him if he would give him a discount if he had published a book. He just laughed when he heard it."
Then you have to have a child. One man and one woman, sixteen and fifteen years old. The child's father left after giving birth to his sister and didn't want to talk about him. After all, getting married can block the next eighty questions. As for the ex-husband who has a new love, everyone feels it is ordinary and will not pursue it.
The children, although they are all middle school students, they don’t like to read. The eldest brother likes to sing. He usually opens his mouth and practices his voice at home. He sings louder than during the day in the middle of the night, which makes her afraid that her neighbors will knock on the door to protest. My sister also has her own interests and likes to run sprint. Although she is a small one, she runs like a cheetah and is very explosive. She can study in the physical education department in the future and become a physical education teacher. Jiang E was most worried about her, and she would just eat a few bites for her. She was as thin as a snake. Yes, she was talking about the two cats she raised.
Of course, it is not completely undesirable marriage partner.The one on
who made her physically and mentally fit her body and mind was a pillow. The most affordable sleeping pillow in IKEA was washed with balls or separated, and it was uneven, but I hugged it well, put on a cotton pillowcase that I had used for more than ten years, rub the cotton balls in the pillow core through the soft cotton wool that only had in the old pillow case, and fell asleep with peace of mind. Can get married.
The recent appearance of marriage is the cold dragon beard dish.
Jiang Ge described this object like this: sesame oil and pepper powder are purer, vegetable oil is refreshing and tasteless, squint every day to monitor if there is the other side of the road. Asan on Yangming Mountain finally came down to sell the tender dragon beard that is not torn or picked. Finally, Baba waited, and went home to kill the chicken and use a small V pot to boil vegetables. Add salt to boiling water, add vegetables, cover, turn around and take ice cubes to prepare cold water, turn back and lift the cover to catch the vegetables, and the Cuicui is crispy within 20 seconds. When mixed, it is a dragon whisker that is perfect, without rusticity or grass, and is as fresh as a fairy food against the background of sesame oil and white pepper. A chopstick is squeezed into your mouth, and your body and mind are incredibly appropriate - you want to get married and be together for the rest of your life.
Jiang Ge's recent ideal marriage partner: Cold-salted dragon beard Photo provided by the interviewee
Source: People WeChat official account