In 2019, a "Seven Sons Mother" in Guangdong became popular on the Internet overnight. She was affectionately teased by netizens as the mother of "baby giving birth machine" and "caula baby".
She didn't care at all in the face of netizens' teasing, but instead responded optimistically: "As long as I am in good condition, I can have another one!"
It is under the guidance of this internet celebrity mother that 's seven children are well-behaved and sensible, and have become a family that everyone envies.
What netizens admire most is not only because she is good at parenting, but also a veritable strong woman.
She created a cosmetics brand alone, and has made achievements in the jewelry industry and clothing industry , and has a high reputation in the industry!
A woman with a career and a family care, Who is her husband?
According to this mother, her husband is a high IQ elite of 140, and she is because she doesn’t want to waste such a high-level gene , so gave birth to seven children!
But behind this glamorousness, mother also paid a heavy price. She had already paid millions of for the seven children. In order to give her children a better education, she directly rejected the 10 million business!
Seeing this, many people may think that this woman is really not simple. A family of ordinary families will definitely not educate such a woman ! But the facts are just the opposite. let us get a comprehensive understanding of this "Seven Son Mother".
Her full name is Zhang Rongrong,
Zhang Rongrong has five children in his family, and she ranks the third child in , but the seventh family relies on her mother to live in life. The father has not worked for many years and is in poor health, so he can only stay at home.
Zhang Rongrong's mother is doing farm work for others in a factory, and her income is pitifully small. children have not had enough food and clothing since childhood. She has been in junior high school, but she finally dropped out of school.
In order to reduce the burden on the family, teenage Zhang Rongrong chose to go out to work , but the social situation at that time was still too difficult for her, a teenage girl!
Zhang Rongrong was really displaced when she first entered society in , looking for jobs everywhere to make a living for herself. There is no place for her to live in the huge city.
One day, on the way home from get off work, Zhang Rongrong, Because it was late, she met a robber . She had no power to tie the chicken and had to give all the money she had on her body.
Maybe God saw that this child was really pitiful, so she met a "prince charming" that night, , which is Zhang Rongrong's later husband.
Zhang Rongrong's husband graduated from Peking University . His family is in good condition and . He speaks elegantly and is generous in his manners, which makes Zhang Rongrong fall in love.
By 2006, Zhang Rongrong was less than 20 years old at that time, so she married her husband. she did not ask her husband for many betrothal gifts, only 13,000 yuan.
The two lived a very happy life after marriage, Zhang Rongrong was pure and sweet at that time, and his big watery eyes looked very charming.
But her mother-in-law thinks that Zhang Rongrong is a little too thin and may not be easy to give birth to .
But not long after, Zhang Rongrong became pregnant. At that time, Zhang Rongrong had just turned 20 and , so had his first daughter in his life.
Zhang Rongrong looked at his daughter and was very happy. In order to educate his daughter well, Zhang Rongrong put a lot of effort into every growth node of his daughter.
First, it cultivated the daughter's interests and hobbies, sings, dances, chess, calligraphy and painting, Zhang Rongrong did not lose anything, . Many netizens believe that is too stressful to the child.
However, Zhang Rongrong's education method is not a forced . She lets children feel the joy of learning . does not allow her to be limited to in books. Let her contact with other children more, and establish a cheerful personality.
Just the second year after she gave birth to her youngest daughter, Zhang Rongrong became pregnant again . This time she was a boy. The family of the in-laws were very happy when they saw it and praised Zhang Rongrong repeatedly.
In the third year of , Zhang Rongrong gave birth to a pair of twins . In this way, completed the "great feat" of giving birth to four sons in three years!
If you want to say that Zhang Rongrong is not an iron man, we don’t know what kind of pain she experienced during this period , but it is a bit too exaggerated to give birth to four children in three years.
Because my husband's 's family is good , 's raising four children is not stressful , not to mention has also own career , but this makes miserable relatives of my husband . Every time I send red envelopes during the Chinese New Year, they feel soft.
gave birth to four children at that time, and calculated that it would pay millions of social support fees according to the policy, so Zhang Rongrong decided to stop there.
The four children have children and daughters, which is already a family that many people envy. However, in 2016, she became pregnant again!
Zhang Rongrong said that this was actually an accident. originally had no idea of having a child . Since the child is here, needs to carefully consider its stay or not.
At that time, her husband and mother-in-law were worried about her body . did not recommend that she give birth to the baby , and she herself was also unable to make up her mind.
In the end, Zhang Rongrong made his second son decide. The second son was very happy when he learned that his mother was pregnant. But his father and grandmother didn't want this child. He hugged Zhang Rongrong and cried bitterly, begging mother not to abandon his younger brother or sister.
So Zhang Rongrong successfully gave birth to the fifth brother in June 2016 despite his mother-in-law's opposition.
Although she was already the mother of five children at this time, she still did not give up her career. She thought she should continue to realize her life value , and is also setting a role model for her children!
In the days that followed, Zhang Rongrong was doing well , and she independently created the cosmetics brand , which was also quite famous in the jewelry industry, , but this did not affect her taking care of her husband and children after she returned home.
By 2018, she gave birth to Lao Liu despite her family’s opposition and gave birth to Lao Qi in 2019!
In the 13 years from 2006 to 2019, Zhang Rongrong gave birth to seven sons, which was simply a "miracle mother"!
at this time Zhang Rongrong was only 34 years old . Because he was involved in the cosmetics industry, is well maintained, and his figure and appearance look only about 30 years old.
In the more than ten years after her marriage, she never complained to her husband about , nor did choose not to move forward because she felt tired. She herself knew very well that must do her best so that she can better educate her children!
In fact, in terms of education, the couple of has also achieved the standard of model . Because there are too many children at home, it is difficult to achieve a balance between .
The couple kept communicating on the issue of educating their children. I remember one time the second child was rude to his sister. Zhang Rongrong raised his hand and slapped her , making the second child cry.
After her husband learned about this, talked to her peacefully about at night, telling Zhang Rongrong to educate her children not to use rough means , so that is not conducive to the physical and mental development of the children and will also deepen family conflicts.
Zhang Rongrong thinks that's true. hits the second child by himself, what will other children think? Will you be alienated by fear of yourself?
If this is true, her image as a mother will change.
So Zhang Rongrong and her husband have been peacefully educating their children , helping their children establish a correct view of , don’t worry about anything, learn to control their emotions and solve problems with a rational mindset.
There will inevitably be bumps and bumps in a family living together. They educate their children . If you have any unhappiness in your heart, you must communicate with each other in time. is a family, and there is no hurdle that cannot be overcome.
Among them, 's second son was most influenced by Zhang Rongrong . He established a very good view of , loves to play basketball, has a positive attitude towards life, and is a typical sunny boy!
He also loves his mother very much, helps her take care of her younger brother and sister, and is full of responsibility.
Zhang Rongrong In order to cultivate children's independence, often educates older children to learn to take care of others, so that can not only cultivate their sense of family responsibility, but also reduce stress for themselves.
So at home we often see a harmonious picture . Older children take care of younger ones, but this does not make children spoiled , but will imitate their elder brothers and sisters and be independent.
Every night There will be a small sense of ritual before going to bed . The children queued up from large to small to say good night to Zhang Rongrong, and she would kiss their foreheads one by one, and then go to bed with peace of mind.
Such a life is really happy. Although this is just a small sense of ritual, it can make the whole family feel the warmth of the family, and also allows children to develop good habits of being polite!
Sometimes when faced with conflicts between children, Zhang Rongrong's way of handling is also very wise. She never criticizes the child in front of everyone, but calls him alone to the room to preach.
This way, can not only protect children's self-esteem, but also make children clearly recognize their mistakes.
is this kind of education method. Since , all my seven children are very sensible, and the whole family loves each other very harmoniously.
By 2019, Zhang Rongrong became popular across the Internet through short videos. Many people liked her parenting experience and gave her extremely high praise.
Since she became famous, her business has also been bigger. Many companies and companies come to her to seek cooperation with , but a person's energy and time are limited, and She rejected the kindness of many people.
But as more and more people came to visit, she really didn’t have time to deal with one by one, so she put forward a request she thought was the most unreasonable: 60-second video requires 100,000 yuan for advertising!
I thought those merchants would give up, but still did not work. The total revenue she refused to cooperate was about 10 million.
Many people may think that this money can really be considered. After all, not everyone has the opportunity to earn tens of millions casually.
Zhang Rongrong believes that she still has to put people first in life . After all, family is that money cannot buy. As long as she has enough life, she is willing to spend more time with her family .
The idea has attracted praise from netizens. It is really rare for women to have such a pattern.
Zhang Rongrong's independent and tenacious characteristics affect every child. does not complain or complain, faces life with a positive attitude, and as long as she can still move, she will embrace life with all her strength!
There are many fans who often ask her about . Most of them are women who have been hurt by marriage or family, and her reply is also optimistic, encouraging fans to adjust their mentality.
Life is your own. When it becomes a mess, you need to calm down and deal with it. Only by believing in happiness can you be truly happy!
In her opinion, There will inevitably be unsatisfactory things in life, but mentality is the most important thing. Our life is so beautiful, what else can't be overcome?
Just like that, Zhang Rongrong dripped out the positive energy in herself, giving many fans life guidance , so she has been praised on the Internet.
In fact, looking back on her first half of her life, she really needs courage everywhere . Most people may have their legs frightened when they hear that they have given birth to 7 children in 2013, but Zhang Rongrong did not retreat, and she still lives happily and sunnyly.
Whether a person is happy or not, depends on what angle she looks at things from . Sometimes we can also try to be open-minded, nothing is more important than our own happiness.
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