There is a movie called "Children's Dream". The protagonist Guangzai, played by Andy Lau, drank the medicine for rapid growth and quickly grew from a child to a young man in his twenties. Although Guangzai looks an adult on the outside, he is still a child on the inside and makes a lot of jokes.
Art comes from life. In real life, there are really thirty girls who still live in the ivory towers created by their parents. They live according to their parents' plans. She is the Russian real Barbie doll - Angelica.
Angel face and devilish figure. It can be said that Barbie dolls are the dream in every girl’s heart. When a dream becomes a reality, is it happy or terrifying? Perhaps Angelica’s experience can give people some inspiration.
Angelica was born in a wealthy businessman family in Russia. She has been a beauty since she was a child. She has big glass-like eyes and thick golden hair. She smiles sweetly and cutely. Everyone loves this cute little beauty, and her family even spoils her into a princess.
Seeing the envious gazes of relatives, friends and neighbors around her, her parents were extremely proud, which also greatly satisfied their vanity. At the same time, they suddenly wanted to keep this feeling forever and turn their daughter into a real "princess". What is a real princess? After some discussion between the two, they decided to "reform" their daughter into Barbie.
Barbie dolls are cute as toys, but making a real person into a doll makes people feel creepy. However, Angelica's parents who were blinded by lard did not think their thoughts were so thrilling. They began to study them carefully and often observe the behavior, dressing, movements and expressions of cartoon Barbie dolls. At the same time, they also told their daughter that in this world, all girls are proud to become girls like Barbie.
The young Angelica was very satisfied with her parents' arrangements. This kind of life made her feel extremely happy. So, no matter who she met, she would proudly tell her that she was the pearl in her parents' eyes and the real princess. She always thought she was the idol in the hearts of all girls.
The poor girl didn't know that her parents' move was about to break her wings to fly to the blue sky. She could only stay in the comfort zone planned by her parents for the rest of her life, looking at the birds flying freely in the blue sky outside with great entanglement and yearning.
Angelica still has a choice at this moment. Unfortunately, she is too young and doesn’t understand what this move means. In order to make her parents happy and to be a perfect idol, she began to imitate Barbie’s words and deeds in life. In order to make herself more like Barbie, she even practiced for several hours in front of the mirror every day.
Regrettably, the little girl's efforts were in vain. When she grew up, she did not become a popular idol among girls, but instead became a money tree in her parents' hands. His parents registered an account in her name on a social platform and used this account to post her photos. Once these photos were published, they would soon receive tens of thousands of likes.
Angelica has become a true female internet celebrity, but becoming famous did not bring her happiness and happiness, but endless disasters. In order to maintain Barbie's image, dressing must meet the requirements of her parents. She is not allowed to buy or wear clothes she likes. Every time she goes out to buy clothes, her mother will accompany her. It is impossible to go out alone.
At this time, Angelica became a puppet and a puppet of her parents. However, the girl who loved her family did not think there was anything wrong, but instead thought that this was a sign of her parents' love for her until she had a boyfriend.
On the day I dated my boyfriend, my mother was still walking with me as usual. The candlelight dinner in a high-end restaurant should have been the sweetness of two people, but now it became a three-legged tripod. The atmosphere was awkward and you could use your toes to cut out 3 bedrooms and 1 living room. What is even more unbearable is that any intimate behavior between Angelica and her boyfriend requires students to hand over the homework class and submit it to their mother for approval in advance. If the mother disagrees, she must not do it. Her boyfriend cannot stand Angelica's behavior like a mother-in-law, so she found an excuse to leave in a hurry.
Finally realized the seriousness of the problem Angelica suddenly remembered that when she was a child, her parents did not let her play with her friends. Whenever her friends were playing crazy outside, her parents told her that this was a waste of time, and then took her to the mirror to practice Barbie dolls for a longer time.
Now she is almost 30 years old. Her peers have already gotten married and had children at this age. She still lives with her parents and has had several relationships, but in the end she will die in vain under the high pressure of her mother.
Thinking of the past, Angelica was fed up with her parents' control. She wanted to move out and live alone, and she also wanted to find a job and find a boy to have a good relationship. She desperately wanted freedom. All this might be ordinary for others, but for Angelica it was a distant dream that she could realize.
is no different. It is just because her parents hired a personal trainer to maintain her real Barbie image and designed a series of high-intensity fitness plans for her. They also arranged strict recipes for each meal, so that her height and weight of 1.65 meters are only 42 kilograms, and her waist circumference that can be held by one hand is thinner than the popular A4 waist on the Internet.
Such an enviable figure ratio is suitable for display in the window. It is just a useless person, and it will only make people unable to use their strength. It is really impossible to lift their hands and shoulders. In this way, Angelica can pursue a limited career, and the salary she can earn is not as much as the pocket money her parents give each month... Can she realize her dream of independence in this way?
A parent who truly loves his children should give his children ideal wings to help them travel for the past nine days, rather than treating their children as their own accessories or even money trees. Angelica's parents treated her as a money tree, letting her wear cool clothes and take some large-scale photos, and even clearly told her that while she is young and beautiful, she has good resources and makes money by taking more photos. As for her boyfriend, she is not important.
Single netizens always encounter various fancy urging parents to get married during the holidays. When it comes to the holidays, they have a headache and don’t want to go back and face all this. Do you envy these parents who “support career-oriented” in pain?
The answer is obvious. After all, no matter how gorgeous the cage is, it is still a cage, and no matter how beautiful the decoration is, it cannot cover up the truth of being unfree.
, Angelica is still trapped in this beautiful golden cage, every time she travels, she looks like a big star crossing the street, her parents, assistants, and bodyguards are fully equipped, she can reach out for clothes and open her mouth, and she loses her ability to be independent.
Parents cannot accompany their children for the rest of their lives. On the long road of life, parents can only accompany their children on a journey. One day they will die. How should the birds with wings be fed by themselves?
As a parent, if you really love your child, don’t treat your child as your own accessory, or treat your child as a tool to realize your unfulfilled dreams. He is a completely independent individual with his own journey of life to walk. The road should be a real scenery, not the scenery you arranged for him.
Everyone lives according to their own thoughts and lives their own life, so that they can not be in vain to come to this world.
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