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One day I was bored when my office sisters chatted, and there was a phenomenon: among the people I met, it seems that the higher the education level, the later the marriage, and the lower the willingness to have children.
Think about it carefully, it's really the case. My cousin graduated from a doctorate, got married late and had a child late, and had only one child. The old man was unmoved no matter how he advised him to have a second child. His cousin and his cousin both stopped going to school before they graduated from junior high school. They fell in love and got married very early, and now they have two or three children. It seems that the number of children is really closely related to their educational level. The higher the education level of children, the less prosperous the family members are.
Why do people with high education have such low fertility intentions? The following two reasons are realistic:
The higher the education, the more open the mind, the less you want to have more children
Compared with the fact that people with higher education know things, the more comprehensive they will have a higher pursuit of their own quality of life, and will not easily bind their lives to their children. People with low education have a simple way to consider problems, so they are easily satisfied with their lives. They often think that "more children and more blessings" will naturally want to have more children.
A classmate graduated from undergraduate studies and then went on a master's and doctoral degree. After graduation, he met his current husband. After giving birth to a child, we advised her: You have such a stable job, and you can have another one while you are young. Now we recommend you have a second child. But she thought: "Just give birth to one is enough. The more children there are, the tighter they are tied up. My husband and I are still waiting for the child to grow up, so we can travel around the world."
The first two children of my cousin were girls, and if there were no boys in the countryside, she would be ridiculed by others, so she just wanted to have one more, and she ended up having a third child. Because the consideration is relatively simple, when the two daughters grow up, they can go out to work and earn money, so there is no need to worry. So in comparison, the higher the education level of children, the less they want to have more children, the more they are, the more they are, the more prosperous the population is.
The higher the education, the more willing you are to stay in a big city. The pressure is high, and you can't afford to raise too many students from small places. Most of them want to "jump the dragon gate", and studying is also your only way. Therefore, if you obtain a high education, you will most likely want to develop in a bigger city, but the pressure in big cities is also relatively high, and you don't want to have too many children to add too much economic pressure to yourself.
The younger brother of a classmate studied in a first-tier city in college. Unfortunately, the local housing prices were too expensive and there was just the right opportunity, so he chose to work in a second-tier city. But now it is over 30 years old. When I mention getting married and having children, I still shake my head: I am too stressed and I really don’t dare to think about what happens after marriage.
. For small local people who want to stay in big cities, raising children in big cities is too high, so naturally there will be less desire to have children.
The reason why the education level of children affects the prosperity of the population is also closely related to the current social reality: the more open the mind, the greater the pressure on them, the less they want to have children, and the truth is that.
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