After recording " Youth With You " in 2020, the mentor Ella dived again after flirting with the hearts of thousands of girls. Until not long ago, a group of photos of him returning to Taipei, crying and crying.
It turned out that day was her 31st birthday.
htmlOn June 19, she was about to get off work, and happily shook her hands toward RV , when suddenly two girls appeared in front of her holding cakes.
Ella saw it and shouted, "Why are you here?" Then she immediately covered her mouth with her hands. She, who has become a mother, was so happy that she jumped on the ground like a child.
These two girls are her teammates-Selina and Hebe. They have gone through 20 years together.
There is a lyric in "Wife" to describe their friendship:
Friends and sisters are no longer enough to describe it, our tacit understanding, pride, support and tolerance.
They are S.H.E, the number one girl group in Asia and the only girl group in China that officially announced that it would not disband.
Maybe you don’t understand this combination, but there will definitely be traces of “Don’t Want to Grow Up”, “Mayday”, and “You Once a Boy” in your memory.
They are memories of an era.
01. All encounters are fate
S.H.E composition is a beautiful accident.
All three members are from the talent show "The Battle of the Universe 2000 Strong Beauty Girls", but one of them ranked low, and the other one was eliminated.
Originally, only the first place Ren Jiaxuan could sign the contract. But during the competition, the instructor found that the sounds of Chen Jiahua and Tian Fuzhen are also very distinctive. The final decision was made to make the three of them debut in a group. The
S.H.E combination was officially born, but this popular combination did not have such a tacit understanding from the beginning.
Tian Fuzhen once felt that she could not get along with Ren Jiaxuan. "I heard that she graduated from , Beiyi Girl, and was admitted to Normal University. She went to the company for audition and was accompanied by her mother. She looked like a good girl. She must not be able to integrate into my world. (I feel she) is a very boring person."
, and Ren Jiaxuan and Chen Jiahua also encountered trouble when getting along with each other. The first time I encountered this kind of girl with a neutral appearance and a carefree personality, I really had no experience in getting along with her.
But fortunately, the personalities of the three seem contradictory, but in fact they complement each other.
At that time, when the music industry was in a rush, a newcomer debuted, in addition to his strength, luck was even more indispensable.
On September 11, 2001, S.H.E's newcomer press conference was held in Taipei. I thought it would be a bit popular with the company's previous promotion.
Unexpectedly, the "9/11 terrorist attack incident" attracted everyone's attention, and no one cared about the new combination that just debuted.
The three girls were beaten up at the beginning, but they were not discouraged, but encouraged each other.
Three girls keep releasing albums and conducting concerts around the world.
They once said, "I have no time to go to see a doctor when I am sick because my work is full."
At the same time, the three girls trust each other more and more, understand each other more and more, and understand each other more and more.
By chance, Ella was injured while filming the outdoor scene and lay in bed for several months.
So the media began to catch up with the situation, "It is expected that S.H.E will be disbanded soon and each will develop."
Selina and Hebe learned about it, specially customized a villain representing Ella. Whether they are going to receive the award or sing, they will put the villain in the middle.
When Ella was injured and could only lie in bed thinking about her new songs, Selina and Hebe took on Ella's part of her job, went out to promote and study new songs abroad, and brought her the sample back to her as soon as possible, which did not delay the release of "Super Star".
did not disappoint them either. In 2004, S.H.E was nominated for the 15th Taiwan Golden Melody Award for Best Recital Group Award.
Unlike today's girl group, S.H.E does not have a C position. The person standing in the middle is either a coincidence standing in the middle or the person who needs protection the most at the moment.
What is the true friendship? It is each performing its own duties and maintaining each other.
In any interview or shooting clip of a TV series, you can find that the three of them have spared no effort to protect each other.
In his early years, he lost playing games on variety shows. Selina wanted to be punished to jump from a high place, but she was timid. Ella jumped instead of her without saying a word. More than ten years later, Selina did not dare to kill fish in variety shows. Ella once again stood in front of her without hesitation and helped her complete the task.
Hebe, who seems confident and generous, actually becomes unconfident because he thinks too much.
At this time, Ella and Selina will try to tease her: "Look at how bad I sing, I am so confident on stage, what are you not confident?"
Real friendship is not to secretly jealousy in your heart when you are happy, but to applaud you sincerely;
True friendship will not always poke your pain, but to constantly heal the warmth with the language of action.
02. There is a kind of friendship called "wife"
Destiny cannot always be smooth sailing. It is like a naughty child, which will make you fall into a trough at the happiest time.
Selina, the princess who was originally held in the palm of her hand, once generously admitted at the concert that she was the happiest girl.
However, a blasting scene destroyed her happiness.
Before shooting, Selina also sent a text message to her fiancé A Zhong and said, "I'm going to shoot a blasting scene now! It's very scary! I'm going to pounce forward!... Remember I love you!"
At this time, Selina didn't expect that she would encounter the worst scene. The blasting was not under precise control, and she was also radically disfigured because of this blasting scene. In the entertainment industry where face-looking is concerned, a burst ruined her future.
After the hospital check, Selina's body was injured by more than half of the area, of which 41% were third-degree burns. In addition to the toes and soles of the feet, Selina's legs were completely destroyed by the ring.
Doctor said that Selina's chance of survival is only 46%. She not only needs to undergo skin graft surgery, but also undergo countless debridement of , and is at risk of infection, shock and even organ failure at any time.
True friendship is never laughter in the highlights, but silent companionship in the trough period. At that time, Hebe and Ella turned down all the advertising and socializing except for necessary work, and left all their time with Selina
Hebe In order to encourage Selina, he specially wrote a song "You" for her at that time:
I can never understand your pain, but I understand that my heart is on the same side as you; I can't replace you with your pain, but I think more time can go faster.
Hebe and Ella said to Selina on the stage: "Wife, even if you can't come back, we will support you for the rest of our lives."
Selina returned to the stage again at the end of 2011. The three girls hugged and cried, and sang the song "Wife" written by Selina:
"Friends and sisters are no longer enough to describe it. Our tacit understanding, pride, support and tolerance; wife, we check together, please remember the agreed journey to last forever."
Many things are not a turn, most of them fall to the end.Later, Selina married Ah Zhong as she wished. But this marriage was not what they imagined, and soon the two announced their separation.
In 2016, she announced her divorce on Weibo without giving any explanation. But on Weibo, he kept posting photos of the three sisters, Hebe and Ella. Climb the mountain together, run together, and do charity together.
This is the most beautiful thing about friendship. When I think about it, you are there.
03. Why is it so difficult for girl groups to become popular nowadays
In fact, the dissolution of most girl groups was destined from the beginning.
Many female group members have signed contracts with companies before participating in the draft.
For example, the 11 girls who debuted were from 13,778 trainees from 457 companies and made their debut.
Behind each girl group member has his own entertainment company's investment, which means that they represent different interests and there will inevitably be conflicts. When the
combination was first established, everyone would work together to make their popularity famous.
However, as it becomes more famous, different personalities, inequality in resources, and conflicts of interests between all parties will inevitably lead to some bumps and bumps.
In " Rampage 20-year-old ", the girls of Rocket Girls 101 exhausted their patience during a long desert hike. As a result, differences and frictions followed one after another.
Captain Yamy want to lead everyone to follow the GPS route and go straight to reach the destination as soon as possible;
, and Sunnee and several other members jokingly opposed her, saying that they would follow the camel, which would save more effort.
Just as Yamy was anxious to reach the finish line as soon as possible, Sunnee's joke completely annoyed Yamy. The two had an argument, causing the entire itinerary to fall into a deadlock.
Since current girl group members will be assigned different tasks by their own company, the time they spend together is very limited, let alone getting used to their personality.
In addition, there is a kind of comparison between the members of the girl group itself, which is to compare who is in the C position, who has more fans, and who ends up with more votes. This makes it difficult for them to have a simple friendship.
For example, the girls in SNH48. These girls have never stopped fighting and scolding each other.
Runner-up in the overall election Li Yitong When broadcasting live, he kept saying that he deserved the essence and belittled his teammates' abilities. Finally, he also mentioned that he had unblocked his teammates Huang Tingting .
When he first debuted, Li Yitong and Huang Tingting formed a CP. But friendship does not withstand the impact of reality.
html In March, the N2 team formed by Huang Tingting and Li Yitong was complained by fans for their poor performance.
It turned out that Li Yitong had not learned all the repertoire, so she went to Japan for a trip.
After coming back, Huang Tingting asked Li Yitong to learn dance. Unexpectedly, Li Yitong couldn't help but point fingers at her, so she started to dissipate Huang Tingting in her circle of friends, calling her troublesome.
Before she could say a few words, Li Yitong was also angry because of this and said that she was a white lotus.
There are many people, which means there are many things and complex relationships. Li Yitong also had friction with Ju Jingyi and . Not only did she say that she would take Ju Jingyi's position in the election, but it was also revealed that she was rumored in her circle of friends that she wanted to break Ju Jingyi's crown. This contradiction occurs frequently, causing the entire combination to be in chaos and disagree. As a girl group, people are unhappy, how can they have the heart to rehearse? How can they rush forward together in the entertainment industry, a battlefield without gunpowder.
is not only a younger girl group now, but even the girl group Twins, which debuted earlier and was second only to S.H.E, will also be a little trick for resources.
nude photo incident has always been the last thing that Gillian wants to mention, but his teammate Asa keeps playing the edge ball in front of the media, implying that this is true.
, will you really benefit from it in the end?
No matter how many people are composed of girls, they are all one. One prospers and one prospers, one loses and one loses. If your teammates are not good, then you must have problems in people's inherent ideas. After all, birds of feathers gather together.
Why did the girl group frequently have accidents in recent years, and there have never been any more girl groups in Asia. I think it is not only because of the shortcomings of strength. It's even more because no one will be perfect.
This is the meaning of the girl group. Teammates should help each other and make up for each other; amplify the advantages and weaken the disadvantages.
Just like in "Huainanzi":
A thousand people work together, and then they get the power of a thousand people; tens of thousands of people have different intentions, and then they have no use of a single person.
04,
The trend of getting along with the friendship between girl groups should really be in line with S.H.E.
Just like the lyrics in their "All Always":
Thanks for the change of so many things, you have always been here, never left, and always been here;
No need for a promise, I will have you here.
The world is so big, it is already a fate to meet it, please cherish it;
There is no distinction between you and me, only if everyone is good can everyone be good, please maintain it.
Under the impact of reality, no one can walk alone.
Only when the whole group moves forward together can they fly higher and go further like a flock of geese.
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[Text | Mo Zhu]
[Editor | Valley]
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