Whether it is love or marriage, if what you are pursuing is a love or marriage without value or meaning, it is better to let go as soon as possible. Otherwise, if you can't catch you, you will be trapped by love. If you catch it, you will be trapped by love. After you catch it, y

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There is nothing wrong with a person having ideals, pursuits, and desires. However, you must not be detached from reality. When you pursue something, you should consider its value and practical significance and judge whether it is worth pursuing.

has no value and meaningless things, so there is no need to pursue them, otherwise it will just be a waste of time and life.

The same is true for love. Whether it is love or marriage, if what you are pursuing is a love or marriage without value or meaning, it is better to let go as soon as possible. Otherwise, if you can't catch you, you will be trapped by love. If you catch it, you will be trapped by love. After you catch it, you will be trapped by love.

There are many so-called "lover" in this world, but in fact, most of these people are not infatuated, but pretentious. They only care about blind pursuits and only think about getting them, but never consider whether the person and feelings they pursue are valuable, meaningful, and worth pursuing. In this way, no matter how hard they are, they will be trapped in love.

Ajin is the "lover" mentioned above. He started to be infatuated when he was pursuing love from the beginning. As a result, after getting married and divorced, he continued to be infatuated and always nostalgic for someone who is not worthy of his nostalgia, so he was trapped by love to the point of death.

"After the divorce, I felt so heartwarming when I learned that my ex-wife was second marriage!"

Although Ajin's conditions are not good, they are not bad. Moreover, he has been working hard, and it will only get better and worse.

Originally, he would support himself, or marry a wife who is as ambitious as him, which would allow him to live a happier life. However, he fell in love with a woman many people don’t like.

He felt that he and the woman named Xiao X were destined and destined, and he thought she was his true love. In fact, he was just blinded by desire, but was just confused by Xiao X's appearance and unrestrainedness. He did not think with his brain, but with his body.

His love with Xiao X was completely exchanged for money. He spent money desperately, which just catered to Xiao X's desire to spend money with big hands, so he was together. At best, it was just "one willing to fight and the other willing to be beaten."

Since he fell in love with Xiao X, he has been poisoned. He is fascinated by Xiao X's unrestrainedness and dedication to him, and he is so trapped deeper and deeper. Because Xiao X wanted to buy anything, he bought it for him, so she married the money tree.

However, they divorced less than two years after they got married, and the reason was very simple: the food was out of stock. In other words, Xiao X has been spending money with big hand and almost all Ajin's money. In this state, he can only maintain his life by making money constantly. However, he was unemployed at this time.

The reason why he was unemployed was due to his reliance on and obsessed with Xiao X. His mind was full of ties all day long, and his thoughts and body were seriously corroded, which made him unable to concentrate on his work until he was unemployed.

Xiao X is a very realistic woman. The reason she has been with A Jin for so long is because he is a money tree. When the money tree fell, she was about to withdraw. After hearing that Ajin was unemployed, she filed for divorce.

She clearly stated the reason why she wanted to divorce A Jin, and A Jin was already terminally ill at this time. She was reluctant to part with her and did not dare to force her to stay. So in the end, she accepted the divorce in a touching way, feeling that she really had no money to spend for her and could not let her suffer with her.

Although he was divorced, Ajin has been nostalgic about Xiao X. He wants to remarry her. Considering the reasons for the divorce, he began to make money desperately, thinking that as long as he has money again, he can remarry Xiao X as he wishes.

Sadly, one year after the divorce, Xiao X remarried and married someone else. After hearing this news, he was instantly discouraged. He felt that he was powerless, had no direction, and had no motivation. He never recovered from now on and lived a miserable life.

One day when we asked him out for a drink, he said sadly, "After the divorce, I learned that my ex-wife was second marriage, I felt so heartwarming. I completely lost her and wanted to cry!"

We all advised him to cheer up and not to give up all the time. A friend even told him bluntly, "If your ex-wife is a good woman, it is understandable that you are sad and sad, but she has been just using you all the time and is not worthy of your nostalgia. Why do you make things difficult for yourself?"

He disagreed with his friend's words and refuted that Xiao X is not a bad person. He said that his friends don’t understand him, and that his friends don’t understand love. We originally asked him out to enlighten him, but seeing him like this, we didn't have the heart to enlighten him. He was too obsessed.

meaningless feelings, there is no need to have them! The reason why Ajin's marriage on

became a tragedy can be said to be destined from the beginning. There is no love between him and Xiao X, or he has always been just being self-indulgent. Their love and marriage were obviously bought by him with money, but he would never admit it, which can be seen from his final obsession.

The love and marriage between them are just in name but not real, only the shell of love and marriage, but no real value or connotation. The reason why they are destined to end in tragedy is that they are together and cannot withstand the test of "out of food". Once the food is cut off, the marriage will come to an end.

From a realistic perspective, this kind of valueless and meaningless relationship is not necessary to have it, otherwise it will only make you trapped by love and will only ruin your life.

Just like A Jin, he completely ignores the fact that reality creates illusory meaning for love, thinking that he can control everything, but in fact he is just being used. No matter what a person does or pursues anything, if he loses himself and does not have the elements of being responsible for himself and considering himself, then what you do and pursue is meaningless. Let go as soon as possible is the way out.

​The relationship that should be let go must be let go as soon as possible! The relationship A Jin faced on

is always a relationship that should be let go, otherwise it will either rot in your hands, or it will be gnawed to the point where it will be brutally abandoned, or it will be cruelly abandoned.

In addition to the relationship he has experienced, other people should also consider the value and meaning when dealing with relationships, especially considering the meaning and value of the feelings you are obsessed with to yourself. If there is no value, you should let go as soon as possible.

The person you love doesn't love you, he is just using you all the time. If you don't let go, you will be used all the time. Sooner or later, you will be sucked out and squeezed out. Then, it will be miserable and miserable. It's really sad.

and so on, For divorced men, if you still miss your ex-wife, if you want to remarry her, then try it. If the remarriage is successful, you must cherish it. If the remarriage fails, let go as soon as possible, otherwise you will definitely be trapped in love. Especially if you think about Ajin's situation above, you want to remarry your ex-wife, but if your ex-wife marrys someone else, you should let go. There is no point of nostalgia, otherwise it will be sad and a broken can. In the end, it will be you who suffers. (Text/Donglin Xiting, if you have a story, come to me)