Recently, the TV series " is good and " ushered in its finale. This family ethics drama has been on the hot search since its launch. The original family and the issue of favoring boys over girls reflected in the drama have touched the "pain points" of many viewers.
Yao Chen played by Su Mingyu encountered unfair treatment in her family, and her childhood experience left an indelible shadow on her entire life. But she did not blame others or achieve nothing because she missed the opportunity to take a prestigious school. Su Mingyu, who has both IQ and EQ, has been working hard in the workplace with her own efforts.
Su Mingyu in the play is a shrewd and capable workplace woman. She is capable at work, has high emotional intelligence, can speak, and is young and successful in her career. As a company executive, facing the "harem chaos" incident, Su Mingyu sent out the aggressive montage after a few soft words. Faced with the stubbornness of Monte's relatives, Su Mingyu remained calm in the face of danger and calmed down the troublemaker in a few words.
The second brother Su Mingcheng was unemployed because of offending his boss, Sister Zhou, and was even banned by the entire industry, and he encountered obstacles everywhere when looking for a job. After Su Mingyu learned about this, she went to Sister Zhou to negotiate. She did not be aggressive, but told the story of her offending her leader calmly. Su Mingyu used the art of speaking reasonably to make the other party realize his mistakes and successfully solved this problem.
I envy smart people like Su Mingyu who can flexibly use speaking skills. She can deal with the difficulties in the eyes of others without any effort. In his "The Charm of Speaking (New Edition)", the writer Mr. Liu Yong mentioned: "Everyone can speak 'words', but not everyone can speak; if you have something to say, you don't necessarily say good things." How can you be considered able to speak? Let's see how these smart people speak well.
1. Poor child
A child that the whole family has been waiting for for a long time has finally been born. But the doll's upper body had just come out of birth, and the doctor gasped. When the doll's lower body also came out, everyone was stunned. "Quick! Quick! Quick! Put him into the incubator." The doctor's reaction was pretty good. He was afraid that the mother would not be able to bear the blow, so he hurriedly cut off the umbilical cord, wrapped it up, and handed it to the nurse. In the following month, every day when the baby was brought to feed the mother, each new mother had a doll in her arms, and the mother of that doll could not see her child. "The jaundice is serious, so I can't see it now!" Everyone always lie to her like this and discussed in private when they could take her to see her deformed son. A month has passed, and I can't hide it anymore. The doctors, nurses and family members took the mother to see her son nervously. Everyone made the worst plan, thinking that she would faint with screams, thinking that she would turn around and leave, thinking that she would cry and lose voice... and even prepared an empty hospital bed for her. She finally saw her child without arms and legs. "So cute!" she actually said with a smile. The child who was born with severe disabilities was a famous Japanese writer now and the author of " Five Body Not Satisfied " - Yi Takeo Kuang .
2. The father of the dead son
On January 16, 1997, the protagonist of the famous American TV series "The Cosby Family" Bill Cosby , the son who was studying at the Columbia University Institute, was actually shot and killed on the highway. Bill Cosby attended the funeral in a deep pain, calling for the murderer to be brought to justice, and then he disappeared on TV for a while. A few months later, he appeared again. On TV, he was asked about his thoughts on the tragedy. "Our hearts are connected to all families who have experienced misfortunes, and it is not easy to share such experiences," said Bill Cosby calmly.
3. The injured father of his daughter
is called the "father of Taiwan's semiconductors" Zhang Zhongmou , talking about his daughter's car accident. "Fortunately, she was the only one who was injured, and no one was injured." The white-haired Zhang Zhongmou told everyone.
4. Husband's seriously ill wife
Former US President Reagan's Alzheimer's disease is getting worse and worse.
On TV, Mrs. Reagan Nancy accepted an interview with Barbara Wats: "I heard that Mr. Reagan is very ill. How is the situation now?" Nancy smiled: "Thank God, the situation has been cured unexpectedly."
5. Let the thief
The bathrobe lent for passengers in the hotel is always stolen.
Keep 3Keep , director of the guest room department, angrily wrote an announcement, intending to send it to each room -
"Those who steal the bathrobe in this hotel will be sent to the police for investigation."
The next day, he changed the content -
"Please do not take the bathrobe in this hotel to avoid trauma."
The next day, he changed the content -
"If you are interested in bathrobe, please contact the guest room department. We have a brand new one that can be sold to you so that you will not take away the used bathrobe but have the money for the new bathrobe."
6. Tell me a word to my mother
It was obvious that the doctor prescribed the medicine, but the old lady was stubborn and refused to take it. As a result, I coughed all night and made my son unable to sleep well.
"I want to talk to me!" The son said to his wife in the morning, "She is too much, she can't get along with us!"
"Don't be anxious! Don't be anxious!" The wife pulled him away, "Think first, let's talk about it."
When I was having breakfast, the son spoke to the mother: "Mom, it's really a mother-son heart. You cough, even if you are very quiet, I will hear it, and you are uneasy. You should take some medicine before going to bed!"
7. Tell me a word to my father
My daughter has a good boyfriend, but her temper is as stubborn as her prospective father-in-law. Once, I even contradicted the old man for a date.
"Why did you fall in love with this kid?" The old man asked his daughter sternly, "What is better for him and worthy of your love?"
"Dadfam! Don't you think his personality is very similar to you? He is a little straight and a little stubborn," the daughter said, "I love your personality and feel that the performance of perseverance like you is successful. Although he is not as good as you, he is somewhat similar, so I love him."
8. Tell my sister
Xiaofang brought three naughty children to Xiao Zhao's rose garden. Xiao Zhao saw it in the room and said, "I want to go out and train these little kids, breaking all my flowers."
"Why do you have to go?" The wife said, "Let me go." Mrs. Zhao walked to the garden, and Xiaofang was actually staring at the running child and smiling proudly!
"Xiaofang!" Mrs. Zhao whispered, "Those flowers have thorns, and they just sprayed pesticides. My husband said, be careful that the child is pricked, it is poisonous. He looked upstairs and was very nervous!"
9. The saying goes all the best
"The new park opposite my house is about to build a library," the old lady said to everyone, "How great! You have to come often and read books together." After a while, the government changed its plan and stopped building a library. "The new park opposite my house is not built now," the old lady said to everyone, "How great! It's all green. You have to come often and take a walk together."
What do you think after reading these stories?
Do you think Yiwu Yangkuang’s mother is too stupid, or is Zhang Zhongmou too strange?
Do you think the method of my son's advice to mother to take medicine is too fake, or is Nancy thinking too well?
Or do you think that old lady is right or wrong?
The problem is that the deformed child has been born, the car accident has occurred, the cough has been coughed, Reagan is seriously ill, and the library is no longer covered.
Is it useful for you to blame others?
You can always look at the same thing from different angles, and have completely different feelings and say completely different words.
Those who speak hurt people are mostly because they don’t look at things from a different perspective, or they can be said to always think from a negative perspective.
The person who can speak the words best in his heart is always the most conceived for others and always takes a step back and thinks. People like
can not only help others with words, but also in this way - help themselves to think positively and overcome the sufferings of life.
Have you heard that famous saying -
"I walked barefoot all the way, crying that I didn't have a pair of shoes until one day, I saw a person without feet.”
Do you know how Yiwu Yangkuang describes the moment when his mother said he was "so cute"?
Yiwu Yangkuang said: "I was born a month ago, and I was finally born. "
is right!
People who can talk always use words to affirm others and care about the world, so that they can see and see far, make more friends, and live happier.
"The Charm of Speak (New Edition)" is one of Liu Yong's "Life Trilogy". The author uses "speaking" as the theme and teaches all his experiences about speaking over the years. The content covers four major areas: daily interactions, speaking well, humor skills, and communication secrets. It teaches you how to speak badly, speak ruthlessly, speak loudly, speak coldly, speak long stories, and speak falsely To be honest, speak harshly and speak rush slowly. It not only helps you analyze the humor between ancient and modern times, but also teaches you to lay the groundwork, create the atmosphere, and trigger laughter, turn the stiff language into gentleness, and turn black and white language into color, but also teaches you the breathing adjustment, appearance and posture, and nourishing the air when speaking. After reading this book, I believe you can also become a humor expert in life, a communication king at work, and a luminous body in society.
This article involves the TV series "Everything is OK" from the Internet
Editor: Yang Zhimin
Article source: Relay Publishing House WeChat public account
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