Dai Xiangyu plays Zhang Weichen in "Their Names" and Ren Duomei's husband, a doctor, has experience in further studies in the United States. After returning to China, he wanted to compete for the head of the new research institute of the hospital. He worked very hard and was very distressed about this.
said that Zhang Weichen is a mama's boy, and he is a bit unfair to him. This person is indeed very hardworking and motivated. He said he was not a mother's boy, and he didn't have much say in front of his parents, because they had many houses, mainly because of the earnings of their parents. Zhang Weichen's income was nothing compared to his family's fortune, so he had it. In terms of his parents, Ren Duomei was unhurried to have children. Zhang Weichen wanted to say something tough, but he couldn't say it.
question is also here. How did Zhang Weichen and Ren Duomei get married? It’s just wishful thinking. If your parents don’t nod, it’s impossible. No matter how poor Zhang Weichen’s mother said that Ren Duomei’s family is, she didn’t think so in her mind. She thought in her mind that such a wife is easy to grasp. In the eyes of parents, Zhang Weichen is always right, but his daughter-in-law will make mistakes.
1. What is Zhang Weichen struggling with in marriage?
The trip to the United States was actually caused by the junior sister. According to the junior sister's idea, the two of them would not return to China and stay in the United States directly.
At this time, Zhang Weichen hesitated and considered Ren Duomei's feelings, but it was not the main thing. What he was worried about was that his parents would disagree, and indeed would not agree. Not only would they not agree, but they would also try every means to stop his thoughts and actions. When Zhang Weichen comes back, Ren Duomei has made contributions. As she said, if she uses some force and force her husband, Zhang Weichen may have gone away. With his parents, this matter has become Ren Duomei's fault. Zhang Weichen also has less guilt towards Ren Duomei, and more importantly, he has explained to his parents.
Zhang Weichen's marriage is dominated by his parents. He may have thought about how to do with his junior sister, but he can only stop in the category of love. As far as he is concerned about marriage, his parents will not agree. According to his family background and the origin of his junior sister, his parents will think that the junior sister is coming to rob their son, and let Duomei be left to Duomei, and no one in the family will think so, because Ren Duomei does not have the capital.
Zhang Weichen thought about it over and over again, but he did not dare to be willful in marriage, and he still followed his parents' thoughts.
2. What is Zhang Weichen struggling with in his career?
In career, Zhang Weichen wants to be the head of the new research institute. It’s better for the younger sister to have resources and connections. If you rely on her, you have to promise her something. If you don’t rely on her, you are unwilling to accept it.
Zhang Weichen was confused again, so he didn't want the child, because once he had a child with Ren Duomei, the junior sister would have to cut it cleanly. She didn't want the child for the time being. There was a slowdown. Anyway, it would be a day to delay it.
career is like this. If you run one way to the black, you will never know that there will be another way to reach it.
Take Ren Duomei as an example. Being a housewife also feels stressful. She wants to work and be a beauty blogger. She probably has done it.
Zhang Weichen faces the same problem, because after the short video era, everyone is a self-media, everyone can share their professional knowledge and learning experience, and what they get is their own IP, which no one can get by.
From this point of view, the thing Zhang Weichen competed for is not very meaningful. Anyway, it is all about helping people, anyway, it is all about altruism, new media is there, opportunities are there, and career is there, whether you want to do it or not.
3. Has Zhang Weichen grown up?
Zhang Weichen's growth in business in learning is nothing to say, but at home, he always feels pressed and protected by his parents, and walking forward according to the path marked by his parents. Zhang Weichen is not happy, but there is no good way to get rid of this situation.
There is something that people don’t want to admit, that the further the child goes on the road of learning, the more he will break with his parents, because it means that the difference in lifestyle and ideas will become greater and greater, and parents will become less and less understanding of their children, and the same is true for children.In other words, if either party imposes ideas on the other party, it is actually a harm.
Zhang Weichen is like this. When facing growth, parents take care of everything. If you accept it, you have to obey your parents' arrangements and are unwilling to accept it. If you don’t accept it, it’s hard to escape the siege of your parents and your comfort zone. Who doesn’t want to be a child forever and never grow up and don’t worry about anything?
The relationship between adults and adults should be equal, and parents and children should be the same. Everyone should respect their ideas. If one party interferes too much and crosses the boundary, the relationship will become distorted and it will become a relationship between mother and mother's baby.
In this way, Zhang Weichen is just a mother's baby, so the root cause of marriage and career is not the only thing he says!
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