Forty years old, it is a devilish age for actresses.
At this age, there are fewer and fewer suitable roles.
Even Zhou Xun was ridiculed by the public for his face. " Ruyi's Royal Love in the Palace ", let alone others.
Very few actresses can get rid of the " forty curse ".
years old and over forty years, the acting path has become narrower. There are only three ways to put it in front of the actress: get married, play mom, and turn behind the scenes .
A rich and resourceful female celebrities are even more likely to be anxious about their age.
" Chunjiao saves Zhiming ", Yu Chunjiao, who is nearly 40 years old, finds that her physical strength has declined and her appearance has declined, so she is crazy about seeking stability through marriage;
"My First Half of Life", Luo Zijun is facing the double pressure of marriage crisis + restarting life after entering middle age.
It seems that once a woman enters middle age, she must have gone downhill.
So today, Xiangyu wants to talk to you about the "Chinese Women's Crisis" -
"Women Forty"
pretty forty
This TVB variety show is produced in just ten episodes, but it talks about love and marriage, differences between men and women, appearance anxiety and fertility issues.
has rich topics and large enough .
Even the host Tian Ruini's uterus appeared on , and even broadcast the examination process and results of her egg health status.
is sincere, comprehensive and down-to-earth. Tian Ruini also won the " Best Female Host " for this.
Xiangyu once heard a saying, "When a woman is young, she should cherish the time she spends with her friends, otherwise she will never have the chance to get together again after getting married and having children."
This sentence made Xiangyu anxious for a long time.
did not expect it to be confirmed in the program.
Tian Ruini asked four best friends to come out for a dance, and everyone was sneaking around.
Some people have to feed their children first, some have to wait for the baby to fall asleep, and some have to finish the housework before they can come out...
is just a simple party, and there is a lot of preparation.
After not long, they all shouted that they were tired and thinking about going home.
When they were young, each of them was a nightclub queen. They were surprised to see older women entering and leaving nightclubs, "Why did that aunt also come to the nightclub to have fun in ."
Unexpectedly, for more than ten years, and they also became the "aunt" in the mouth of young girls.
Once when I watched "Aunts" think the nightclub music was too noisy and I found it funny. Now I am beginning to feel deafening and have a headache.
Entering middle age, they said goodbye to their youth without realizing it.
I don’t dare to wear the suspenders I wore when I was young now;
I don’t dare to wear the shorts I wore when I was young now.
Tian Ruini found a beauty blogger in her twenties, exchanged clothes, low-cut chiffon shirt + shorts, and she was in a bad mood as soon as she was on her upper body, "I felt that I was catching a cold in my lower body."
Not only does it dress, but its living habits are also far from that of young people.
bag always contains thermos, hand cream and shawls.
"House Three Treasures of Women in " is available.
Not only that, Tian Ruini also put a big duck pear in her bag.
Seeing this, Xiangyu and the beauty blogger in the show became hilarious.
Carrying fruits with you is something that only mother and grandma can do!
people reach middle age, which is not only reflected in the "older" living habits of , but also the learning ability has also declined a lot.
When exchanging work with the beauty blogger, Tian Ruini experienced the internet celebrity assembly line work that recorded vlog.
Even if the beauty blogger takes the lead in guidance, Tian Ruini is still clumsy.
blogger said, "If my studio recruits people, she will not recruit Tian Ruini. She is like a sponge that absorbs water and cannot absorb anything."
is old, and all functions have become worse. It is particularly important to find someone who can take care of each other.
Therefore, "marriage" has become the most anxious problem for middle-aged women.
Mendy, a graphic advertising designer, is about to enter the 40 mark, and he still has no partner in love.
She said bluntly that she is " old virgin ".
didn't want to be the "Tiansha Lone Star", and began to find the possibility of getting married through various methods:
social software, proactive confession, and active blind dates, but none of them worked.
Mendy, who is used to blind dates, regards blind dates as interviews .
Don’t put on makeup or dress up. Sit down and introduce your career, and then ask the man’s basic situation like a questionnaire.
In this state, how can you have the opportunity to start a relationship?
But the problem is not only with the woman.
In order to experience the blind date, Tian Ruini invited three men to meet at the marriage agency center.
is the first place, he is very impatient and speaks very fast, so he doesn't give others a chance to speak.
talked to the excitement and said that he was " hormones are very high in ", and he also had a set of self-consistent logic: "I don't smoke or drink without bad habits, I'm lustful, no one is perfect."
second place is much better, it is funny, humorous, patient, and will listen to others seriously.
However, he is too young, only 26 years old. The purpose of his rapid blind date is to like older women, and to " play and make friends with ".
is the third place, and it has the best comprehensive conditions. It has a startup company that is steady and kind, polite, and will ask girls if they are banned when ordering dishes, and they are considerate and gentle.
But his problem is that has time to go on blind dates and doesn’t have time to spend with .
Seeing this, Xiangyu was so worried that she was bald!
If I were Mendy, I would definitely be more anxious than her.
is about to pass 40. Of course, I cannot accept being played with feelings, I cannot accept the playboy, and I cannot accept the partner who is too busy and widowed.
The criteria for choosing a spouse cannot be reduced by getting older, and falling in love is not something you can just convince yourself to settle down.
However, men in the blind date market have obvious shortcomings, and they can't even pick one if they bite the bullet.
In the words of Tian Ruini, "Some boys know why they can't find a girlfriend after dating him."
However, we rarely hear words for older men who do not marry. Instead, words such as "defeated dog" and "leftover women" are endless to describe women.
Men are not worried at all, age is not a problem.
For this reason, Tian Ruini found several men of the same age as her to talk about the issue of "women forty".
Talk to women of the same age. Everyone is generally anxious and worried about marriage and love. In contrast, men of the same age are much more relaxed and casual.
They said bluntly, "It is very reasonable for a 40-year-old woman to find a 30-year-old man to get married, while a 40-year-old man to get married is very reasonable and there is no problem."
The fundamental reason is that society has different requirements for men and women.
People have always believed that women's value lies in their youthful appearance and their children, while men's value lies in improving their lives and creating the future.
Therefore, the validity period of a woman seems very short-lived, and it can even be said to be a flash in the pan.
If you don’t find someone to marry while you are young and beautiful, you will soon lose your “socially recognized value” and thus “depreciate” , and you can only be regarded as a “last order” and sell it out if you have to.
And as long as a man has money, he will be like wine, "the mellower and fragrant".
For them, not getting married is a happy thing, rich and willful, and without a wife.
The pressure puts on women by society is too great, which not only defines the responsibility of maintaining beauty and having children, but also requires them to compete with men on the same level.
To put it bluntly, this society requires women to be both fathers and mothers, and to be fully equipped and not leaked.
Under such an environment and concept, many women have awakened.
They do not intend to be bound by age. They believe that marriage will come naturally. Let’s talk about it when they meet it, and will never hurriedly get married before deadline.
Zhuo Yunzhi , 39 years old, suddenly got married last year.
As a columnist, she never believes that life exists in deadlines of marriage, nor is it influenced by any external concepts.
It was her first time meeting her current husband, and the two decided to get married that night.
Although it was a flash marriage, she thought it was not out of impulse, nor because of the passionate love, nor because of the so-called "true emperor".
Zhuo Yunzhi said that the flash marriage was because she was "prepared to establish a long-term relationship", and then she met a suitable person who could establish a relationship with her.
can be seen that the premise of a healthy marriage is to take "self" as the starting point, and everything that follows is also based on this foundation.
Recalling the details of the wedding, Zhuo Yunzhi still burst into tears, saying that the wedding vows were the best written text she had read, which included all stages of her life.
"End, life, no, I think every word is very big."
This is a serious, comprehensive, far-sighted decision, and self-advancing and others. This decision contains the future of two families.
Therefore, in the eyes of 40-year-old Zhuo Yunzhi, "forever" every word is so big.
And this is exactly the difference between getting married at the age of 20 and getting married at the age of 40.
Zhuo Yunzhi said, "One day I saw an aunt dancing in the square. The rhythm was chaotic, the steps were different, and the dance was ugly, but everyone was very happy.
At that moment, I thought, maybe marriage is a square dance, each with its own pace, each with its rhythm, it has nothing to do with beauty and ugliness, as long as you enjoy it."
Why bother making yourself extremely anxious in the eyes of the outside world, and then, without any clarity, sell yourself out of before a deadline that does not exist at all.
Whether you are single or married, just enjoy it.
Same thing, whether you are young or aging, learn to enjoy it.
Although Tian Ruini is 42 years old, her physical fitness is even better than that of a beauty blogger in her 20s.
boxing, weightlifting, sit-ups and pull-ups are all in , with clean and neat movements and heroic posture.
Beauty blogger thinks he can handle it, but he can't do anything.
Pull-ups need a coach to drag them down below. Sitting ups cannot do half of Tian Ruini's. After only practicing a few boxing movements, I was so tired that I collapsed on the ground.
After living a little older, I have more experience and more time to be good to myself.
A person’s life is actually a life that keeps getting better.
and so much so that the beauty blogger said, "If you tell me that at the age of forty is like A Tian, then there is no problem. is very good at the age of forty, I am not afraid of ."
10 When I was a few years old, I hope to become an adult immediately; when I was a 2 years old, I like to pretend to be comprehensive and mature; when I was a 30s, I started working hard and working hard for my future life; now at the age of 40, I finally have the appearance I dreamed of.
Such age is the beginning, not the decline of a woman .
As long as there is no limit, no age is the end point . After watching this movie
, Xiangyu suddenly doubled the courage of .
In fact, age anxiety is a problem that bothers every woman, but this is not unsolvable.
When young girls are surrounded by extreme social pressure, and middle-aged women who live a messy life and complain about themselves every day, they are naturally afraid of old age.
If we can see, a 40-year-old woman can also remain elegant, beautiful, calm and independent, and gain more and better insights in her youth, "aging" has become a good word .
is even worth looking forward to.
The English name of this variety show is "pretty forty", but Xiangyu wants to say to all women -
has no limit, pretty forever.
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