2019-10-17 16:52
For children today,
Most parents have this feeling,
That is - too unreliable.
I think of myself back then,
get up early and cook in the dark,
read at night,
also help parents with housework during
,
tutoring neighbors and children's homework...
And what about children now?
wish you could eat in bed,
still have to wait for someone to feed.
In order to exercise the child's ability to be independent,
Recently, a mother in Zhengzhou was unable to pick up
because she had something to do and asked her 9-year-old daughter to take a bus home alone after the cram school.
As a result, the child "failed" the test, and
took the wrong car.
Thanks to the loving help from the station manager,
sends the child to the arms of his family.
13 at around 7 pm
On the bus No. 203 in Zhengzhou,
A 9-year-old girl cried in the car because she accidentally made a wrong car.
After the commander asked the little girl that she wanted to call her family,
then contacted the girl's mother.
The girl's mother said that
originally wanted her daughter to go to cram school not far from home,
only has a few stops,
because she was busy that day and had no time to pick her up,
so she let the girl take a bus home to exercise alone,
The result was unexpected that
The daughter really couldn't find her home.
Netizens have different opinions on this
After many netizens read this news,
all felt incomprehensible about the way girls’ mothers were educated.
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@Yuan Yuan of Mo De’s Love: Before exercising, you must teach. You never teach, tell your child how to get away, and you will not tell your child how to deal with it if you can’t find a home. If you have any accidents, you will not feel sorry for your child
@Strawberry Fairy sl: You must decide what kind of plan to train based on the actual situation of the child. Haste will not be able to achieve this kind of training. For this child, you should start from small things.
@realleoskudos: It should, but be prepared and don't take a whim.
@RuofanRuofanRuofan: Many people say they need to exercise. As a girl’s mother, I think so in my heart, but I really don’t dare to do this. Nowadays, all kinds of perverts, such as rape, robbery, car accidents... are all things happening in a flash. I dare not let go when I read the news. At least she really dared not to protect herself when she was unable to protect herself. Although I also envy those independent children, when I think about the accident that my child has caused me to have an accident because of my own lack of supervision, I feel that I can’t face
@Happiness-just in front of me: Some people stand and speak without any pain in their backs! My home is close to me and the surroundings are not that complicated, so I can go to and from school by myself. But parents who are far away really don’t dare to let go! There are many types of independent ones, and they will naturally be able to ride a big car... But there are not many electric cars waiting for the red light when crossing the road! There are some crazy things in car business, but few people can care about it! A child would rather be independent in her life than bet on this mistake. Let go after 10 years old
@可说: How can cultivate children's ability to be independent and help them grow? A 9-year-old child is incapable of behavior, and some things cannot be done by the child alone, especially when it is simply incredible to let the girl go far away at night.
While many people opposed their mother's approach, many people also expressed their agreement with
.
@Ye Mian Sahara: I think it should be, independence should be necessary, but the first time parents can follow them secretly, follow them a few times, and wait until the child is familiar with the road
@gong He Xinxi: Yes, it is absolutely possible, but the previous few times parents should drive behind, and wait until the child is fully adapted
@Zhiyueyuan Zhuyan: It is 9 years old, it is time to exercise, and parents can take the bus to and from school with students who are familiar with the route or make appointments to and from school together
@Daisy_Maocun: Just remember to call, I cried this time when I took the wrong bus and I can deal with it calmly next time. There is a process for the child to grow up! You can let go at the age of nine.
@Ye Ye Ziwo: Parents should first teach their children how to view the bus stop signs, where to go to which direction to take the bus, and know how many stops to take to get off . Take it a few times.Teach your child what kind of situations to find and how to ask for help if he encounters a situation during the bus. To be honest, this should be what the child should teach as soon as he entered school. Current exam-oriented education completely ignores the education of children's daily life abilities, and most parents have no time to take care of it.
@The little fairy who doesn't eat coriander o: I feel that parents should exercise their children to go home alone, so that the children will be more independent, stronger and not so cowardly. Just like when I was a child, my family asked me to go home by myself after school. At that time, because of my spots, I was so angry that I beat my classmates up. After I got home, I didn't tell my family that nothing happened. Like the kind of unindependent children who came home will definitely tell their family why they were wronged today.
Similar things happened before
A 10-year-old girl in Chengdu took the bus alone at night
After 14 stops, she almost got lost!
10-year-old Xiaoqing (pseudonym) put the homework book at school. Her mother, Ms. Wang, was a little upset when she learned about it. Before, Xiaoqing had left homework book many times, but she helped her get it back to the school. This time, Ms. Wang decided to let Xiaoqing take the bus to the school to pick it up.
"Let her take the bus alone to pick it up, and teach her not to lose everything, but also to cultivate self-reliance." Ms. Wang said.
At 8:30 that night, Ms. Wang took Xiaoqing on the bus and followed her on an electric bike.
Unexpectedly, the car rode to the station where Xiaoqing should have got off, but Ms. Wang couldn't find Xiaoqing.
The child suddenly disappeared, and this mother was so anxious! She quickly contacted the bus dispatch room and the police.
However, when the bus dispatch room contacted the driver of the car, the driver did not find Xiaoqing crying in the car because there were too many people in the car.
Then, when the bus drove to 14 stops from where Xiaoqing should get off, Xiaoqing took the initiative to talk to the driver and told the driver that he had taken the station. Through the driver, Xiaoqing contacted Ms. Wang and the police and finally returned home safely.
It can be imagined that if Xiaoqing did not take the initiative to talk to the driver, the child would be lost because he took the bus alone.
is unique.
Zunyi A young mother asked her 7-year-old daughter to take the bus to her aunt's house alone, but the child got lost in the street.
The girl stood in a lost place for a long time until the traffic policeman who was patrolling found it.
The traffic police stepped forward to find out the situation, but the girl suddenly started crying.
After some comfort, the little girl's emotions gradually calmed down.
When the traffic police asked her where she came from,
’s parents’ names,
’s girls couldn’t answer,
could only say their own name,
’s family lived near the train station.
After more than 5 hours of hard work, the police found the girl's parents, and
successfully sent him home.
is actually inappropriate for these parents to do this.
exercises children's independence.
is a good thing, but you can't be too hasty.
Just imagine,
What to do if a child has an accident on the way?
What should I do if I was abducted by criminals? No one can bear the consequences of
!
Education expert:
It is important to cultivate independent ability
But the protection plan needs to be more careful
000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000 "It is very necessary to cultivate children from small things in life to deal with emergency situations. It is not just about what to do when you have been on the station, but about what to do when you encounter thieves, robberies, fires, etc.."
And Xiong Bingqi, deputy director of the 21st Century Education Research Institute, believes that the starting point of cultivating children's autonomy is worthy of recognition, but riding an electric bike and following the bus is wrong. "This protection plan is very unreasonable, and electric vehicles are more difficult to keep up with the bus. In addition, parents can at least say hello to the driver first."So he suggested that parents need to formulate careful protection plans when conducting similar education.
In his opinion, Xiaoqing, because she was nervous, could see that she really lacked the ability to manage independently; but after she sat on the station, she did not get off by herself, but looked for the driver and sat at the terminal station to wait for her family to come over, indicating that she had found a suitable solution. "After this matter, parents and children can be exercised. ”
Source｜ Morning News (shxwcb) Comprehensive
Editor: Luo Tian
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